Embarrassed Newbie

Ok, I’ll admit, I’m embarrassed and still not very good at the whole jelq thing. Every time I try it, I get excited and end up masturbating. Do any other newbies have this problem?

Maybe you are used to masturbating everytime? Remember: jelqing isn’t masturbation. It’s a workout to enlarge the penis.
I hope this doesn’t sound funny. There is a subconscious mind too, you know. Sometimes we have to “reprogram” it.
Just try to do the jelq only , if this is the case.

Good luck!

Its mind over matter, just stop.

Worst comes to worst you can masturbate before your PE session so you are less likey to be aroused when you start to jelq.

I use to do that all the time, couldnt help myself. But after hearing it might affect gains, I always wait. Like gameoverinches said, just stop, you can do it! :)

Heh… game over inches.

Yeah… that’s how I was. The novelty wears of after a while. I don’t masturbate anymore because it makes me feel like a loser (that isn’t a flaming invitation)… I just look around and think to myself… wow, I’m a beat down loser living in a run down apartment who can’t get any ass and sits infront of the computer masturbating to the thought of his ex-girlfriend wishing she’d come back.

I find that watching tv while doing exercises helps to no tget fully erect or excite since you are consentrating on two thing just make sure you are doing the exercises right!

Perhaps you can try Reading the Bible While PEing?

It may be a good way to keep from having impure thoughts, which often lead to masturbation? Just a thought…

Agreed!