Extreme Retracting

I found a good way to tape the golf weights in place: I put a very thin strip of cotton or bubble wrap not all that tightly around the shaft, right up against the glans. Then I tape the cotton or bubble wrap to the weights! So far, no problem!

What do I say when a golf weight falls out of my pant leg in front of a client at my sales meeting later today? What about guys “peeking” at the urinal? Better urinate in the stall… No trips to the hospital unconscious planned for today!

Hey,

I have turtling. I feel no discomfort when I retract but I shrink to where only my gland is outside my body. After reading here for the last few months I have realized I have a turkey neck also. I am working with manual stretching and trying to find a ADS that will work for me. The condom stretcher (swimming cap) seems to have potential. My turtling, foreskin and extra scrotal skin has made anything I have tried to this point slip off. I have been manual stretching for a month (no real length gains). My goal is to have a penis when it is flaccid, to add to this I’m 6’2” tall and heavy set so turtling looks real small on me. I am average for length when erect and have gotten complements about girth. In a thread from Big Girhta he said “never let it turtle”. I am working on finding a solution for turtling.

I want to add weights to my routine soon but I need a device that won’t slip.

Could some one please give the link for penis weights.

Thanks

I have been thinking about your statement above Zane since I read it this AM. Finally, I think I understand what is happening. My daily PE efforts send a message to my subconscious (or unconscious) that I WANT to be more masculine as the penis is the symbol of masculinity. (See Jung for the best discussion, though, unfortunately, Jung is marred by his Victorian assumptions… In our era, most of us are no longer shocked that our instincts contradict Christian precepts). Measurection and other small dick sites who advise accepting your size send the message that being masculine isn’t important.

I can see now that from a very young age I was cautioned “not to play” with my penis. Don’t pull on it. Keep my hands on top of the blanket. Real men are not self-conscious about their penis. Real men don’t care what other men think about their penis, etc. None of that stopped me from masturbating when the time came, but playing with it, trying to enlarge the penis is a very different message.

I wonder if a lot of guys with way bigger than average cocks perform unconscious PE a boys, teens, men, etc.? I remember one guy with a really big one as I recall from gym class was talking about pulling/ playing with his from a young age… I was shocked and thought he was mentally ill. Later, when I was old enough to understand masturbation, I just assumed (finally) he had been just “jacking-off”… Maybe not! Maybe he was doing what amounted to PE from considerably BEFORE and throughout his puberty!

I’m now finding my golf weights less than satisfactory. More severe retracting has occurred as I get used to the weights and my attention wanders to work. Several slipping incidents have resulted. I need to look into the more professional

A really great exercise is high stepping it up and down the basement stairs with the weights in place… Quite a stretch work-out! Interesting little jolts added to the slow stretch.

The weights are a lot lighter than my golf club weights. Maybe I will work a little more at attachment methods.

Hmmmm!? Is that “really” you in your avatar, Mr. Happy?

Are you talking to yourself Lloyd?

What’s going on?

Yes. It’s really zane in her avatar, just like it’s really me in mine, and really you in yours.

Some of you at home may notice that Lloyd has no avatar and you’re saying, “Duuude, that’s freaky.”

I’m saying, “Reality, what a problem…”

Look at it this way, in the future Lloyd can use whatever or whoever he wants as an avatar and this post will make the same amount of sense. (:

PE weights are supposed to be light. They are really an ADS, to be used as an adjunct to hanging. Maybe you just need wrapping tips so you can keep using what you’re using.

Ciao for now.

Hey you two, get a room!

Alas, if I didn’t shave my bikini line I’d be closer to my avatar than I’d like to admit.

That’s not exactly what I meant. I really don’t think cock size does matter, except in a purely mechanical sense (are you big enough for your partner to feel you, long enough to hit her CDS if she’s vaginally orgasmic, that type of thing). It’s not cock size, it’s cock awareness and feeling manly about your cock. A lot of men at measurection were able to do just that, and all the hot pix there show that. But there were men there who just never got that message, and instead harped on the unimportance of cocks in sex and cocks in feeling manly.

Lloyd! Do you jelq or hang?

Yeah, and I’ve never bottomed out on a cul de sac in 100’s of tries while always fully inserting. I did touch my 1st wife’s cervix once in a while, but she was retroflexive. Just barely, but she didn’t like it! Ouch! Fortunately at 5.5” circumference “almost” all women can feel me ok and quite a number have orgasmed with dick inserted… Usually after some tongue cheating, however.

Ok, I agree, but you didn’t comment on my “fabulous” theory of the “conscious” mind “symbolically speaking” to the “unconscious” via the process of PE. You know that the 2 entities do not speak the same language. That’s why dreams are mostly symbols—the unconscious trying to communicate with the conscious. Of course, there are also “words” in dreams, but those may be just the mostly meaning bereft replay of recordings… The unconscious doesn’t really “get” words, but can play them back like a recording.

Zane, I know you are mostly “biochemical” in your interests, but if tantra appeals to you should get deep into Jung as well. Jungians try to integrate ALL that kind of thing.

Oh, I’m a lot more Jungian than you think. Jung was into a lot of things, and I’m pretty into those things too, and not just in a theoretical way.

Great! Let me know your thinking about things Jungian one of these days when you feel the urge… No, no, not THAT urge… When you have time and the inclination.

Apparently, I’m not allowed to have an avatar for 14 days. I finally noticed that in the faq or somewhere after clicking, clicking, clicking, clicking fruitlessly on the “edit avatar” box… . Much like pulling, bending, jelqing, fruitlessly on the…

I haven’t tried hanging yet. It looks like quite a project. At each shower, once or twice a day, I V-stretch (mostly) and jelq a little or 15 minutes. I am trying ADS as long as I can each day, maybe 2-5 hours. I tried jelqing for 3 months or so some years ago with no results.

I am on kind of a mental high trying this PE stuff for only a few days now, but absolutely no results yet except maybe a little more time NOT RETRACTED than usual. Just this morning installing a heavy pump in an apartment building I had a severe, uncomfortable near complete retraction (partially inside out) during a heavy lift. What the hell muscle is it that causes the retraction?… It’s not the “kegel” muscle as I can kegel while retracted. Must be an involuntary contraction of a skeletal muscle or those mysterious smooth involuntary muscles I was trying to read-up on…

This may sound interesting to you, if you believe what im saying….I have a cousin who is uncut but during his childhood he used to retract his foreskin back all the time because he liked to see the red thing. His case was not such that his foreskin went back on its own. Now after many years, even though he is uncut his foreskin is always retracted. Recently, after a motor vehicle accident a metal spike nearly missed hitting him on his dick. So my cousin got all scared and wished that his foreskin came over his glan so that it could offer some protection in case of trauma. He is currently busy keeping the foreskin covered over his glan. He seems to be getting there slowly.

Me on the other hand am uncut too. Throughtout my childhood and much in my youth ive let my foreskin cover my glan. About 2 years or so ago, I got into PE and due to jelqs I realised that my foreskin has grown a bit. For some strange reason I didnt like it and decided to keep my foreskin retracted. At first it was very difficult since that damn thing would keep slipping back over my glans. I remember the times when I would run to the men’s room to retract it back over my glan. I would do this numerous times a day. Strangely, now I dont have to do that. My foreskin stays in the retracted position most of the times, infact all the time. If i pull it over my glan, I can see after sometime that it has retracted over my glan.

So what does all this mean? Im of the opinion that these body parts develop a memory of their own over time. They form habits like we do and they have their own comfort zone from where they dont like to be disturbed. An example of this would be… Nasal septums are basically cartilages which dont grow after a certain age in normal healthy humans. But, if you shave them or you cut them off or straighten them, then they is a fair chance they will grow back over time. I had a DNS done about 5 years ago and my scrolls were trimmed to make my nose look better. Now i see that they have grown back a bit.

Im sure you could get your penis to erase its “let me retract memory” to a ” let me hang loose wolla!” memory by constantly making sure its stays in an extented position. Hangings, ADS, Jelqs and lots of water could change it all for you. I dont know but I think there is some weightage to my theory.

PS: Another example for my theory is … I think the chinese or the Japanese women ( I think they were some kind of slaves/Dancers) wore very small shoes when they were growing up. Even after they grow into adulthood their feet remain somewhat crumpled up and small. Also women wearing tight corsets to make their ribs and waist small. In some countries, it was worn to flatten the breasts.