Another example for my theory is .. I think the Chinese or the Japanese women ( I think they were some kind of slaves/Dancers) wore very small shoes when they were growing up. Even after they grow into adulthood their feet remain somewhat crumpled up and small.
I believe that was done by the Chinese to the feet of women from wealthy families of status and it was called foot “binding”. The women would lose or never develop the ability to walk. The servants would wait on them hand and foot a carry them around on litters.
I definitely believe your theory regarding organ memory as applied to the penis… Mine has been retracted for 60 years and won’t be forgetting that for a while.
Which reminds me… Is there an “organ memory” of circumcision? The procedure is extremely sudden and painful and might be “traumatic”. Certainly that could be a searing memory that is difficult for the organ to “forget”… On an organ basis though few remember it consciously. It is almost never done with anesthetic. Possibly contributes to turtling? Yes, I am circumcised.