Help With Masturbation

Hi everyone! I have a question.

When I am masturbating, I stop before I get the feeling that I am about to ejaculate but sometimes a little bit of fluid comes out anyways but I can continue masturbating as if I didn’t ejaculate at all with my erection turning smaller. Is this normal or what’s happening? Thanks!

Pre cum

Normal pre-seminal fluid. By the way, you may not get many responses with a thread titled “Help with masturbation”. Most guys wouldn’t even if you offered them gloves! LOL

How old are you by the way?

No it’s not precum because I can feel ejaculation. =/ Also how long should a “session” be. I heard fast is not good.

Blue it IS precum. You block the rest of the semen from coming out but the precum comes after the prostate. What it is is an alkaline solution that lowers the pH of your urethra (normally it is acidic and sperm doesn’t like acid very much (it prefers light alkaline.) When you stopped your ejac, your prostate didn’t fire it’s liquid but the precum from the Cowper’s gland fired because you don’t have control over it (not that I know of, anyways.) The session length will start out shorter because you will have less control but as you get more and more used to stopping before you bust, they will last longer. Last as long as you can. No real time limit. Just try to increase the time it takes before you gotta bust. Try to creep up slow on this don’t whack it really fast and do your first stop at 30 seconds or you are kind of doing it for nothing. I don’t have much experience in this I am edging as well (which is what you stop before ejac) but I have kind of just started out. I am having trouble lowering the arousal once I am near the point. I can wait a whole 30 seconds and as soon as I start back up I am ready to bust again. It is hard gaining control but you HAVE to keep going at it!

Errrrrrmmm.. Not a bad thing. P.S. It IS possible for men to have multiple orgasms. It happens to me at times.. It’s a GOOD thing. Just learn to hold out. If you’re a youngster - learn control by spending a few hours at it. You know when you ‘re getting close, so start by slowing down on the beating when you feel it coming on, or just stop all together. See how many times you can go before you can’t stand it anymore. That’s what I did back then.

Hi guys I was wondering how long I should be masturbating as in one time because I am not sure of the time. Thanks! Some say it should be 30 minutes?

Until you are ready to complete the act.

Be the master of your domain and do not condition your body to “hurry up and get the prize”! Pre-mature ejaculation is easier to create than it is to cure. Use masturbation to recognize your breathing pattern changes and recognize the signs of your oncoming point of no return (PNR).

Do it until you get off and if you can get off again, do it again! :D

I’ve merged your new thread whit the oldest, BJ, since the topic is pretty much the same.

Are these serious questions?

Well I don’t know about you guys, but I love to masturbate. It doesn’t need to have a freaking time limit hell I’ve masturbated for at least and hour watching porn. Feels good to finish, but finish when you are ready.

Depends how desperately in need of help someone is.

Are you talking about edging?