How much Bpel Is Usable?

I searched a lot of forums and all the answers given I couldn’t understand because my English is not very good. Large English threads are not easy to read. I’m now 13.5cm NBPEL and have a fat pad of 1 inch. My BPEL is 16.1cm. Now I never understood why people are so happy with their BPEL because that’s not usable during sex right? Im now 13.5cm NBPEL so that’s the size I can penetrate with or am I wrong? Thanks in advance. I’m very concerned about my future girlfriend not enjoying sex because my dick is too small. Thats why I NEED to get to 7 inch Bpel or 6 Nbpel. My gains are currently 0.7-0.8cm so Im doing great but had to stop for 1-2 week because I injured myself. Please answer and help me because im a bit stressed out.

My questions are:
1) how much of the bpel is usable during penetration? So for example im 6 inch nbpel and 7 bpel. How much can i penetrate with?
2) 5.7 inch nbpel above average or under?

I use my full length, fatpad has a cushion effect. When I push deep hard my pubic is my limit not my fatpad.

Agree. When pounding hard you are using almost all of bpel. Even when grinding and pushing you are using a lot of it.

Berghuis374,

A few months ago (Dec ‘20) my wife regularly orgasmed with my 5.5” BPEL. Now I do absolutely love going down and I know how to find her clit and g-spot. You have enough length to be more than effective.

5,7 is average, although in self-reported measurements to statistics, many guys measure only NBP, because they do not know any better. When doctors measure for statistics, they do BP measurements, I’ll guess.

When I go balls to the wall I always feel like it’s BPEL.

+1

Dig deep brother!

Thanks for your replies guys it made me a bit more relaxing. My goal is to reach 7inch bpel but im afraid from now till the moment Im not at 7 inch I will be sad and depressed. Lets hope I will get there soon.

I realize that I’m on a penis enlargement site. But your future girlfriend isn’t going to pull out a ruler and take a measurement. It’s good to have goals, but not being 7” will not break your relationship.
Seriously. There is quite a contrast between true size and ‘girl inches’. In her mind you may already be there. Most girls just want to know that you are excited/hard for them.

It’s all about confidence and leading her in the bedroom. Have an idea of what ‘the flow’ is this time. Sex is alot more than the actual banging, it’s “adult playtime”. Just enjoy being with her. Sure learn a few basic techniques (oral,g-spot). Put a pillow under her hips for a better angle. Look her in the eyes and smile during sex. (today’s men do not do this). Start by giving her 1 or 2 foreplay O’s (you figured out the g-spot, right?). Do not freaking apologize or feel bad if you cum before you want, just say ‘damn you are too exciting’ and move to the next thing….

Yes I use all that bpel for sure! In fact the pushing a little further to get that last 0.5-0.75” in makes my cock reach deep wonderful places inside my wife, and she loves when I’m really pushing and grinding my fat pad and pubic bone into her clit ;) Yes we can use that internal length for sure!

That’s a win, good on you and the missus PumpedMember!

@Berghuis374 (Our original poster)
I echo what 5.5Squared has to say. As a man with two loving female partners (Polyamorous relationship, don’t worry no cheating involved) I’m confident that penis size is only a single variable in the equation. Your heart’s in the right place, wanting to please your future girlfriend, but I’ll say you don’t find a girlfriend or a wife with a big member. The world’s largest man, last I checked, still doesn’t have a girlfriend. Penis size is a bit of a novelty to women (or men if that’s what they’re in to) if they have their head on straight. It’s nice to have a 7, but you’d be astonished how happy an oral orgasm makes a woman (in my experience.) Communicating and listening is a huge thing. Hell, and maybe the women I’ve historically been with have low standards, but competency seems to mean a lot more to a woman than your penis size. Parallel parking, for example, gets Mrs. Grayson very excited. I don’t know why, but it does. Also for the record, you can rock out a woman with 13.5cm no worries. My index finger doesn’t measure 13.5 cm, and I’ve done it with that, so take that home with ya.

Pseudo dating “advice” aside, don’t ever change your penis for a woman, or a man, or a trans, or a… just person. Don’t do PE for another person. Do it for you man.

1. As others have pointed out, people can use almost all of their bpel when banging very hard.

2. Dude I promise you, be a master of oral and fingering and you will be very popular with women. Most women will be satisfied even before you put your dick in them.

3. You can easily reach the G-spot and A-spot with your length. Try missionary with a pillow under her hips and go balls deep and you should be able to hit these spots.

4. Combine 2 & 3 and you will have pussies lining up at your feet haha.

Great response!

Your confidence and ability to take the lead is key. Women always want to feel safe and protected, period. Remember, orgasms begin in the head. Get her turned on and you will definitely please her. If you don’t already, start to tease and flirt with her throughout the day. Teasing her and playing mind games, keeps her excited and works to keep a her senses heightened. Now…staying on topic.

Specifically to your question/concern. Certain positions do allow for full penetration so that a good percentage of your BPEL is at play. My go to positions are often some variation of scissoring.

1) She bends over the bathroom/kitchen counter, with one leg lifted onto the countertop. I stand behind her with one leg in between hers and one leg outside.

2) In full doggy style (AU-FD), I’m on one knee in between her legs, with one knee up on the outside of her body.

3) Finally, in missionary slightly on one side with one leg up on my shoulder and the other opened pretty wide. I’m up on my knees or toes and fists looking down at her.

These three positions are my go to positions for BPEL penetration, I’m sure there are others that work.

Thanks for your replies again! Still im very stubborn and depressed so its hard to ‘believe’ your stories. I dont say your lying but maybe some of you are just saying what I need to hear instead of the real truth. I know you all have good intentions and youre helping me with that. My bpel is 16.1 so 1 inch difference with nbpel so I need to work on that as well I can gain a lot of size with that too. I workout 5 times a week so hopefully it will work soon. Thanks again for your replies and help.