Is my girlfriend inhibiting my gains

Hi

I’ve been doing PE for about a month now, at first I saw quite nice gains in girth. ATM I’m going through a dry spot in terms of gains, but the reason for which I think can be pinned on my g/f.

We have sex about 2 times a week and about 2-3 times each time she comes round, so all in all about 4-6 times I guess.
I usually have it with her on days off from PE, I didn’t plan it this way it just seems to happen. But I was wondering if I’m ejaculating too much which might affect my gains just like the numerous threads on masturbation..

Can ejaculation really hinder progress?
Or is it simply the lack of libido that makes me believe this? As the first time we have sex every time I have a raging demon of a boner that she always comments and says has grown (I can’t rely on that because like many women her size judgement is wack, no offense.), then it progressively gets weaker till I’m fucking her with the dick I had to start with (girth shrinkage included).

I could cut down to perhaps 1-2 times a week on 1 session with her, just meeting her out somewhere instead of at home. This sounds like a weird thing for a guy to do but I really want to make gains and will cut down to this if it will help it.
This will still be a problem because I don’t usually have a high sex drive because masturbation used to keep me in check, but lately since I’ve been trying to hold off the ejaculation I can’t help but want to use it.
However I DO like the increased confidence I have from not ejaculating for just a few days to a week, going longer may make it even better..

Just some thoughts, I’d like some of yours if possible.thanks

Never let PE ruin your sex life, one of its purposes should be to enhance it.

Tell her that you are into some weird eastern shit that requires that you only ejaculate once/week. Then work really hard on learning to control when you cum. This skill will be invaluable to you in so many ways so you should develop it regardless of PE.

Oh, does it affect gains? Nobody knows but it does negatively affect libido in some men and libido affects ones motivation for PE and their ability to stay hard. I would be sure to cum at least once/week though because it is well established that clearing the tubes reduces your risk of prostrate damage down the road. That, and it makes good sense. Static fluid in the body is generally a recipe for problems.

Word. Girls are proper interested in sexual knowledge. Sacred, you should introduce her to tantric sex. Deliberately withholding ejaculation is the entire point of tantra. I’m not an expert as pussy isn’t of abundance unfortunately, but I imagine mastering tantra would be much more rewarding than ballooning. I’m sure edging would be very easy if you are into tantric sex.

Again, I haven’t deeply explored the world of tantra, but this website is extremely good concerning meditation, and it has a tantra section I haven’t got around to studying yet but I have provided the link for you. Hopefully it will prove insightful. Keep us informed if you do chose this path, as I would much appreciate any experience/knowledge you can share of tantra.

I have found the opposite to be true.

I see my g/f every other weekend and I find that the Monday after a weekend full of sex, I get a greater expansion and a more plump hang after my PE routine. Go figure.

Let’s see, you are in a relationship with a woman who wants a lot more sex and you are worried about your PE schedule? Priorities, man. Give her everything she wants.

I agree totally. Use this to gain a clearer perspective on your PE habit.

It shouldn’t be competing with your current sex-life unless you see this relationship as being purely transitory, a temporary preparation for the real thing.

Not to sound like a broken record, but with your size, why are you doing PE in the first place?

To get bigger?

Girls come and go but penis size is forever. Then again you could always learn tantra.

This is my experience as well.

In fact, one month a few years back, I had a month where I had an insane amount of sex. I literally spend hours each day, every day sexing up one of my horny ex’s after we had broken-up, and noticed that my cock got subtly longer and thicker. That observation is what started me down the road to PE and Thunders! I thought to myself: “If keeping my cock hard for longer periods of time can make me bigger, I wonder if there are exercises out there that can can increase penis size.”

Thanks guys.

It is a valid viewpoint about not letting PE interfere with my sex life but it really wouldn’t make that much of a difference to me.
I mean, our sex is pretty good but we do enjoy it more when we’ve built up a little angst about it and are pretty horney. This is why I wouldn’t mind cutting down a little because I would effectively kill 2 birds with 1 stone.

This assumes that sex or masturbation inhibits or reduces gains. Regardless of PE surveys, completed by only a few and not applicable to the majority, there is no proof that ejaculation (the real “culprit”) does anything to PE gains. It’s true that the hormones and chemicals released during ejaculation cause the small smooth muscles in the erectile chambers to contract which helps empty the chambers of blood and does cause the flaccid penis to contract. However, PE gains come from over-stretching, even damaging, the tissues so they repair themselves to better tolerate the added stress of PE (i.e. they enlarge). Once stretched or repaired in a larger state, contraction of the muscles within the corpora cavernosa would not cause the tissues to return to their previous unstretched/unrepaired state.

This “debate” will go on forever with proponents on both sides. The main thing about big dicks is that they should be used. Enjoy yourself and don’t worry about inhibiting your progress by having sex.

That’s cool just as long as you don’t mean you would effectively kill bird2 with 1 stone.