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You guys are right but it’s hard cause it’s a 3 year relationship. I want to leave but I cannot find the balls to be out. Is it true once a cheat always a cheat. What about my hands.my dick does not feel big in my hands. Finding another girl is hard because well if you knew me, I’m shy-ish, sometimes loud, with a NY attitude, I have a thing for dark skinned women and they don’t want a white guy sometimes. How did you get over that mental block House?
Jungle,
8x6. You already have a huge dick. Bigger than allot of women can handle. I would only do PE to maintain good erection quality.
As for the girl. Don’t waste anymore time on her. She is messing with your mind and she knows it. Dump her. Grudge fuck her, then dump her. Move on.
Take care,
4Foreskin ;)
Well, what worked for me might not necessarily work for you, but you can definately give it a shot if you want. Some other members might not agree with this, but while I was nearing the end of the relationship, I started looking around quite extensively. Now note, that was LOOKING and that is all. Chatting up girls, making friends, getting close with people but leaving it at that. Then when I knew I had a decent surrounding cast of girls I broke up with my current gf, and not only did I have a bunch of girls that wanted to comfort and talk to me, I had a new gf in less than a week. She ended up being fantastic and it took being away from my ex and being with this new girl to realize what good people are actually like. Believe it or not they do exist and when you find one, it’s great. You gotta get up the courage and go look though.
If it helps any, I like to think about it logically.
a.) you stay in your current relationship unhappily
b.) you stay in your current relationship, but only to get sex and have great talking points for girls you’re meeting as you go along.
In case B, any sex you get and any girls you meet while in your relationship are a plus, something you couldn’t have while just sitting around in your current relationship trying to figure out how to break up. So logically, B is the good choice because you can’t do any worse than A. Your other option is of course to just break up with her, but like I said, that kinda sucked in my mind because then you’re out of sex for a little while. I figured with everything she’d done to me, me using her for sex for a few weeks until I found someone else I liked more wasn’t that high up on the list of things I could do wrong.
Hope any of this helps, just remember DO NOT CHEAT
You don’t want to become what you hate, and trust me, it’ll stick with you for a long time.
House
I feel where you coming from. 4skin and the rest of you that are talking bout my measurement.it does not feel big in my hands, if you look in porn you see guy’s that cannot fit their hand around it WTF? Lol.
House you are right, did you girl start to for a lack of better words.step her game up?
Well, not exactly. I went through something similar to what you’re going through but in two different parts at different times (which is why you need to change things soon because your position is worse than my was). I’m 6’1” 195 (body builder-ish) and I’m about 8.5” BPEL X 5.75” EG. The guy that she cheated on me with is roughly 5”NBPEL X 4.5” EG (give or take). I know the guy which is the reason I know his measurements pretty well, as he was as verbal about it as he was insecure. She also confirmed the size difference when we talked about. The size didn’t really matter though, it was the fact that she cheated on me (I was away at school at the time, nothing I could do about it, she just felt lonely). The girl I’m currently with had a guy that was about 7.5” in girth before me which is what has me all about the size complex now. She is a great girl but her telling me about that really messed with my head. So like I said, not quite as bad as you and not all at once, which just, to me at least, indicates you need to move quickly. This relationship has already hurt you enough, no reason to stick around and let it do more to your brain. You’re already large, and have a girth thats closer to my goal. You need to find a girl thats not messed up in the head and is going to treat you decently. Good luck man,
House
You are all correct I used Iruler and it was pretty close so I’m happy about that. I gotta get ready for class if anyone has any suggestions let me know on here. Thank you for being welcoming and kind. It’s not very to feel insecure. Off to sleep. Good night everyone. It’s just very hard to break up with someone..
Lesson for today: Some respect compromise, some will compromise for respect.you should not how ever compromise your respect.
You guys are right but it’s hard cause it’s a 3 year relationship.
Jungle,
It WAS a 3 year relationship. Shit, you don’t know if this was the only one. Did he use a condom? Fuck, I’m grossing out thinking about it. I know you have pride, and a pair of balls. She doesn’t think you do. You are young. No second chances in this department at your age. The minute you do what you KNOW you should have done long before she cheated, your confidence will go up, ‘cause the chain around your neck will be gone.
The next piece of ass who gives you a compliment about how “big” you are will seal the deal. That girl is sucking the young life out of you. You’re young and single. I highly suggest you act like it.
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.
8x6 Is actually my goal haha. I didn’t know it was so popular, but I guess, it’s a good length and girth :P I’d be extremely happy if it was mine :P
Second Attempt:
Starting [July 19th, 2013]: BPEL: 6.00" MSEG: 4.50" BPFL: 4.00" FG: 4.00"
Goal: BPEL: 7.00" MSEG: 5.5" FL: 4.00"
Oh and she is going to a sex toy raffle tomorrow while I’m at work. NICE (NOT!)
You guys are right but it's hard cause it's a 3 year relationship. I want to leave but I cannot find the balls to be out. Is it true once a cheat always a cheat. What about my hands.my dick does not feel big in my hands. Finding another girl is hard because well if you knew me, I’m shy-ish, sometimes loud, with a NY attitude, I have a thing for dark skinned women and they don’t want a white guy sometimes. How did you get over that mental block House?
Read Anchored To The Past? and Anchored To The Past? (Part 2). Look particularly at the part on overestimating maintenance benefits. You’re a prime case, right down to one of examples there.
Oh and Acid I do not wanna think if he used a condom or not.it just made my stomach turn. WOW the anchored to the past thing is defiantly me. But I could be doing the opposite and placing a lot of value on the past and not enough on the present cause she does not aggravate me that much.okay I’m lying. She asked what do guys talk about and things of that nature I asked her what do girls talk about and asked about men and she said with a smile (you could hear it over the phone) I hope they talk about their boyfriend more then other guys and I got this complex because she said was attracted to him that anyone who she says is attractive is now a threat. Also that she is not only interested in me. This looks pathetic?
Oh and Acid I do not wanna think if he used a condom or not.it just made my stomach turn.
Jungle,
My point is not to insult you or make you feel worse. More than that, I am trying to help you understand the clear lack of respect and caring she has and still does show for you. In my opinion, it is not debatable. It was understood that the both of you were in a committed relationship, right? She decided that THAT wasn’t important enough for her. Then, she potentially exposed you to anything this other dude may have brought to the table. You are young. Use the spine and balls that God gave you, and leave her. When she asks why, … well, she knows why.
You are torturing yourself, and she loves it. I don’t know you or her, but when someone does that to someone else, and is not totally crushed THEMSELVES, they are indicating to you, that they do not care.
Take care of yourself man. I hope you do the right thing, and soon.
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.
It’s probably cause every guy she has been with was black.
Ah yes, the old “all my ex-s were big black guys” trick. We know that one well.
FYI: the only evidence of “blacks are bigger” is anecdotal.
While it is possible that you may be dealing with a woman who has happened to have a number of outrageously large guys who also happen to be black, I wouldn’t put a significant amount of stock in such claims.
You could very well be dealing with a perception issue. For example, flaccid lengths that are somewhat bigger have tendency to make women anticipate a larger member - whether it is or not.
A lot of this stuff goes on in the head, and this is just as true for women as it is for men. They get caught up in the myth-making themselves - from the opposite point of view. Expectations can sway perceptions in either direction, depending on what the expectation is and what the reality reveals.
It also occurs to me that there are those women who know very well that the issue of penis size is a chink in the masculine armor of confidence and authority, and they exploit it - consciously or unconsciously - to get a leg up in the power dynamic of the relationship. Happens all the time.
There’s a lot nonsense that surrounds this issue and it isn’t so clear-cut that it’s strictly a ‘size matters’ thing.
Step back from it, breathe easy, and get it into perspective. You are in the top 95th percentile of human penis size; while it’s true that you aren’t going break world records and be indisputably THE LARGEST, you have absolutely nothing to worry about in terms of your dick.
Your girlfriend… I don’t know. On that score you’ll be the best judge.
You should take the site in, read a lot, maybe start on the Newbie Routine (and don’t move from it until you’ve done it consistently for three months) and really take stock.
There’s a lot of information here. I’m sure you’ll find your way.
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She cheated and then when we were drinking she had the nerve to tell me his dick was bigger then mine and it was uncomfortable.
-Jungle-
You should of gave her a mushroom stamp on her face and left. If she’s complaining about your dick, Bro there’s girls out there who would scream bloody murder if you were to get with them, I consider finding a better girl. That would boost your ego, and mental issue. I know you want to be the top dog, I heard you mention she’s been with tons of black dude and considers you average, well consider this, your way beyond average in the white man category. Hell your above average in all aspects. My personal gaol is 8x6, and I know my girls been with bigger, but you can see my stats on the bottom, I’m not exactly big. So I have room to gain. Your fine the size you are, I’d recommend doing PE still, just to keep that baby leg hard and healthy. But not get serious and try adding inch’s. Unless your measurements come back different with a real ruler. But if your 8x6 be happy, your beating 80-90% of men in size.
Best stats 2009 = NBPEL - 6.25", BPEL - 7.25".. Mid EG - 5".. Base EG - 5.75" BPSFL - 7.375 —New stat 2021 = NBPEL - 5.5", BPEL - 6.5", Mid EG - 5.25
Goal stat = NBPEL - 7.75", BPEL - 8.25".. Tip EG - 5.75".. Base EG - 6.25”
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You should of gave her a mushroom stamp on her face and left.
Dude. Anger management issues much?
You think assaulting someone for doing you wrong solves your problem?
I’d say it’s likely to create new ones. Serious ones. Unless you like being hauled into the local lock-up and going to court.
Nobody is worth that. If it’s really a deal-breaker, best to break the deal and walk away. You break her face and that’s a little harder to walk away from.
The other things is: shit happens. Whatever the issue was between them, they appear to have worked it out.
Sometimes in life people you love make mistakes. Sometimes making the call to forgive them is good one and pays off.
I heard you mention she’s been with tons of black dude and considers you average, well consider this, your way beyond average in the white man category.
Doesn’t matter what color, he’s way beyond average period.
Tons?
But if you‘re 8x6 be happy, you‘re beating 80-90% of men in size.
Nope.
More like 96%.
And hopefully that’s the only ‘beating’ he needs to do.
A strong man knows he’s strong, he doesn’t have to prove it, especially on a woman.
Someone who does that, my friend, is a coward.
Before: I'd like to show you something I'm very proud of, but you'll have to move real close.
After: I\'d like to show you something I\'m very proud of, but you guys in the front row will have to stand back.
God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time. - Robin Williams (: