Jungle's Formal Introduction

There is plenty of good advice here for you Jungle, but only you can make the decision to stay with her or leave her, as for my two cents, it seems like the “issues” you have come from one source, and that is her. As tough as it may be to leave her, and despite loving her, love is a two way street, and I just do not see it on her behalf. Most girls would be happy to have a guy like you, and it is plain disrespectful that other dudes pounce when around her, if you two are together. Do what’s right to you, if you honestly love her and feels that she loves you, and sees you as a human being and not some tool, then work on the relationship as though your life depended on it, otherwise, cut your losses, move on live you life. As for why your member doesn’t feel huge in your hand, it can be a perspective thing, mental thing or heck, you may have huge Sasquatch hands. But let me be the millionth person to assure you, you have a big dick, and they don’t come that often, hell having your size is exactly what I would want for myself. I honestly hope for your sake the next time you post it’s some good news, wish you the best.

Jungle112,

Your decision-making process is taking too long. Since you don’t seem to need it, can you mail me your 8” dick? I’ll send you my (considerably smaller) dick in exchange.

LOLL, that makes me wonder, if someone passed away like John Holmes, and you lost your penis to a girl biting your dick off, would it be possible for a penile transplant from another person?

Sucks if the donor has smaller dick. I will sleep on all the info here. Thanks guys. Working overnights is not fun.

Seriously thanks for all the words of encouragement.

Jungle this girl really doesnt sound like a nice girl at all,,,

I’m somewhere just over 7x5 and I’m 25 I’ve had a fair few women and I know for a fact that most of them have had bigger dicks then me

But how much bigger would I want to be??

The smaller slimmer girls I’ve dated I’ve made sore before which is fine, but surely if I add 2inch to length and girth it will go from sore to pain..

A few of the girls I’ve been with have commented on my having a nice sized dick and even a few saying a big dick, I’ve never had no one say I’m small,
Once while just lying around in bed one girl actually said to me “I can’t believe all that fits inside me”
Another girl thought I was a lot bigger then I actually was and wouldn’t believe me till she got a tape measure out..

My current girlfriend after speaking about our pasts said her last ex had a humongous penis, I asked how big and she said it would be unfair to say.. The funny thing is this girl has been doing kegals for god knows how many years and she is really tight around my penis so god knows how he fit in her if he was “humongous” she even said she used to put of sex with him cause alot of the time it just hurt..

Now you sound like a decent guy, your girl doesnt!!

You can be the nice guy and leave her, find someone whose not obsessed with size cause lets face it I bet 99% of the people on this forum would love to have a cock as big as yours.. As 8x6 seems to be the magical number here, since you have that number 90% of women you meet jaws are gonna drop when they see your member

If you decide to stay with this girl,,, stand the fuck up for yourself
Tell her, look missus my cocks fine, infact it’s BIG, maybe it’s just your pussys too big
Get her to do some kegals she’ll get tighter, have better orgasms and would prob be put off by anything bigger then yours.

Nonsense.

It sounds like she’s done some hurtful things; and it further sounds like she has crossed enough lines with Jungle to have broken trust. She may not be a good girlfriend for him at this point, but it’s not the sum total of her. We all do things that we shouldn’t from time to time, we all fuck up and make bad judgments - sometimes the consequences mean a deal-breaker. I think that’s true here, but it doesn’t mean she’s bad person.

If what Jungle said is true: I go to the bad because it's outweighs the good then there’s no reason for him to stay. That’s the bottom line.

Jungle, just so you know… this idea of ‘fault’ is tricky one. I think it’s not a useful idea. It doesn’t help you for it to be her fault, nor does it help you to take it on as your fault. What is helpful is for you to sort out some of the things that you could have perhaps done differently, so that you are less likely to wind up in this position in the future.

Regardless of what this girl has done or not done, this is the only thing that you can control: yourself. If you have the humility to admit that you were perhaps over-possessive, which some of the things you have said definitely indicate, then you can learn from that.

When I was suggesting that some of the problems might have been of your own making I’m not saying “Therefore it’s your fault.” Even if you helped to create some conditions which were problematic, she still had choices as to how to deal with it. She made some bad choices.

Like Acid Jazz suggested: it takes two.

That’s almost always true, unless you find yourself in the rare instance that you are dealing with someone who is a psychopath or sociopath with some sort of clinically diagnosable narcissism, but people like that are truly rare. This girl, for all her problems, is not one of those.

Most of the time, good or bad,it takes two, you know?

We’re all saying move on. I’m just saying, as you move on, that you consider being a little less possessive the next time around. I bet it will help.

The danger I see is that now that you’ve had a bad experience you will get more possessive, which in turn may well lead to more bad experiences.

Shake it off. Get clear on your priorities, try your best to be as reasonable as possible, communicate clearly, and see what you find.

Like a lot of guys of have said, there are others out there.

dump her today dont waste any more time

Hey MiddlEast_Beast you mind going back to following the Forum Guidelines?

Let’s make sure we’re at least attempting to follow the rules of basic English.

That goes for everybody. Thanks.

I cannot see how certain things are Possessive. You do the crime now you do the time. Lies will make someone question your word, cheating will make someone question your company.this all together makes me question her entirely. Ex’s cannot be friends, guys who get some want some more.

Clearly, you don’t trust her. Possibly, for good reason. Now you want her to change so you can trust her. But she’s content not changing. DO you want to be with someone like that?

Ex’s can be friends. The problem is, your age group makes it difficult, and the level of commitment outside of marriage makes it even more difficult. You need to learn where you are in life, and where she is in life, and then play by those rules. The two of you are living by two different sets of rules in a relationship that probably won’t lead to marriage, anyway.

The way I see it you have 3 choices:

1. Learn to deal with her set of rules, which includes ex’s that are friends (and possibly booty calls)
2. Find out how she feels about taking the relationship up a notch. (From what I’ve read, she’s not willing)
3. Get out of the relationship since it will never make #1 or #2.

If you take #3, you have a shot at finding someone that you CAN possibly function at #1 or #2 levels with. Right now, you are stuck doing nothing because you don’t like any of the three choices. Burning your time away. I tell you, she isn’t burning her time away. She’s having fun. You can have fun too. Choose #1 or #3. She’s already shown #2 aint gonna happen. And you can’t control people.

Choose #1 and get some flirting going with some new girls. Flirting isn’t cheating (yet).
Choose #3 and get some flirting going with some new girls. If you aren’t in a relationship, there’s no limits, and no guilt. Plus, you can always booty call her. Seriously. Change your perspective on this girl.

Is so weird to hear how easy acceptance of cheating is in America. I’m Romanian, in here the cheating is the base motive to destroy a face (her face, not take literally absolute) or a relation. We are mans, we have to respect as !

This is not true.

And it demonstrates your youth and lack of experience.

I have many ex-s. They don’t interfere with my current relationship. She also has many ex-s. They don’t interfere with our relationship either. Why? Because we trust each other and we know what’s important.

The sooner you’re able to wrap your head around to concepts that are somewhat foreign to your current way of thinking the sooner these sort of problems will stop appearing in your life.

See if it isn’t true.

I don’t care where you’re from, although cheating is not to be taken lightly, it is not a justification for violence.

If you cannot command someone’s respect by who you are and what you’re about, beating your chest and proclaiming “I’m a man, I deserve respect!” probably won’t do the trick either.

Women owe men no more respect than what they get from men - and vice versa.

If she’s cheating, there’s a reason. Sometimes the reason is 100% her own, but that’s rare. If she cheats on you, then it’s likely she’s not satisfied with you or there’s some problem; if she’s worth it to you, you could attempt to find out why and see if you can fix it. If you can’t or can’t deal with it… it’s over.

Plenty of fish in the sea.

Trust is difficult to rebuild once broken, however it’s not impossible. This is true between men & women, between friends, between co-workers, etc.; we have to evaluate each situation according to what we know and what we can discuss rationally.

It’s not so crazy to take a breech of trust into consideration. Consider it from all angles, discuss it, see what you find. It may be a deal-breaker. Fair enough. But sometimes it isn’t.

Jungle appears to be very sensitive. He also appears to have had trust issues from the start with her, so her cheating became a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that he helped create it this by being over-possesive and inflexible. How do I arrive at that? Because he can’t seem to even consider an alternate philosophy as possible. That sort of thinking reveals a stubborn streak that is at once fearful and controlling. The truth is, the more you try to control someone the more they will rebel. Which is exactly what she did.

When our personal lives fuck up on us, all we can learn from is our own behavior. It’s called personal responsibility and it’s part of being a man.

You can’t control another person. If you do you don’t really have a relationship worth a damn anyway. The women in your life are not always going to do just what you want them to do. You have to learn to see what’s really important to your relationship.

Like I said: ultimately we can’t control the other person, but we can attempt to control ourselves better.

And we can, if we’re honest, look in the mirror and see where we were unreasonable in the relationship. Maybe not to excuse the other person, but to make ourselves better as a result. It’s worth a shot.

You don’t have to be ‘sick’ to get better.

Dude you are not small. I’m pretty close to your size, and almost half of the girls I have hooked up with commented on me having a big dick. I then asked an experienced girl how I fit in the spectrum, and she said that I am big, just not huge. That shit doesn’t matter tho. My roommate, is def quite a bit smaller than me, and he hooks up with more girls than anyone I know. He never has any complains either, and they ALWAYS come back for more. It’s def not cause they think he has a big dick, or cause they love the sex, the dude averages like 5 minutes. It’s cause he knows how to talk to them, and make them want him. If I were you guys, I would not only work on my penis but also on your game. That stuff is probably even more important in my opinion. There is more to you than your size, trust me. A chick will love you even if you are 5x4, it does not matter that much. I think guys like to hear the “man you are huge” comment. Understand tho, that if you are sleeping with an experienced girl, to be considered huge you need to be in the 7”+ length x 6”+ girth category. And even then, there is a chance she hooked up with a bigger dude, so why stress about it. I have a friend who has naturally a 6.5” girth, and I pull way more girls than he EVER has. And even with ALL of his girth, there are a couple of girls he slept with that said they slept with guys who had bigger girth than him. The point is, do this for yourself. If growing 1” in length and .5” in girth will make you happier, then DO IT! But don’t do it cause you wanna be everyone’s biggest, you may end up disappointing yourself.

Hi lolatyou,

It’s a good post from a new bro here on Thunder's.

I’d just ask that you give the Forum Guidelines a look. We’ll need a little more attention to paragraphs and we need you to get rid of the chat-speak abbreviations.

Have a look:

You might feel that I’m nit-picking, but I’m here to tell you: that’s the way the boss likes it. :leftie:

Seriously though, on content it’s definitely a good post. :up:

I have confidence that you can make them great.

Welcome to Thunder's Place.

The weird thing is, I actually spent some time proof reading what I wrote. The original one might have given you a heart attack. Apologies, I will try my hardest to not let that happen again!