Jungle's Formal Introduction

To answer Mr. Happy’s questions. Yes I smoke cigars and MJ. Yes to caffeine as well, energy drinks, tea, those starbucks mocha drinks (so good). House you are correct got to find the time to invest in myself. Being an accounting major I should know I need to invest in my assets at the expense of insecurities and sadness. Time to debit my “Life Cash” and Credit bull&%#!. I need a life style change. I go to sleep early morning and wake up at 8am that is not good I think. God has a messed up sense of humor Ill say.

If the smokes are a once in a while thing, while it’s not 100% perfect, it’s probably not a big deal.

If you live on caffeine, that’s a problem.

A sedentary lifestyle would also be a major problem, as would an upside down schedule.

I go through phases, myself.

I recently (just after Thanksgiving) re-made my commitment to the gym. I alternate aerobic-type exercise (I like the rowing machine) on one day, with weight training (a light circuit routine with some free weights) the next, added to daily core work (roman chair, crunches on the Swedish ball, etc.).

By the time January rolled around I had a new lease on life. Obviously you have to monitor your diet and be sure and get good sleep when doing this.

But seriously man. I can change your world, and not just in the sack. Overall I’m more confident and more centered.

It’s worth considering.

Ok man. You said she was going to a sex toy show? Like a vendor thing? Wow. She really owns you. I mean literally, like you aren’t a person, but her own personal 8x6 sex toy. And she doesn’t mind talking about any of it in front of you, because what are you going to do?

You need to find a girl that realizes how lucky she is to find you. That girl will not likely find another big gun boyfriend like you any time soon. She’ll be left with her toys. But be sure she’ll tell you how her new BF is bigger. That’s just to draw you in.

Someone who can have any girl in the world, except for this one certain girl, will never be happy until that one certain girl loves him. Don’t be that guy. You can’t have any girl in the world. And this is one of them. Count yourself lucky because she is cancer. You can find PLENTY of other girls out there that are NORMAL. And they will love you and your dick just like they are now. And then you enjoy life without worrying about insecurities.

Get yourself a nice big hardon and stand in a full length mirror naked, profile view, suck in your gut, and grip that thing like the guys in the porn. You’ll see. You already got it.

That girlfriend of your is playing some serious head games. And every day that you don’t leave her proves to her that she is doing it right. It will get worse until someday you get married, have kids, turn 35, and she is leaving you at home on the weekends to watch your 2 kids while she goes out with the girls to pick up 20 year olds.

I’ve seen it first hand when I was in my 20’s.

Ok, sorry to make you sick to your stomach, but MAN UP and dump her. Make a plan to date one of her hot friends in 3 months. Then you will have the last laugh when they all start talking about your big unit. That’s when YOU own the dick. Not her.

So she goes to a sex-toy show? So what?

All that means is she likes sex and is not afraid to say it.

I think you may be going off the deep end here, tallheart.

You measuring BPEL or NPEL. Just thought I might clear that up.

And it’s probably both perception and big hands.

What I think would be best for you. And this is just my opinion. Is since you consider your self having a little chub chub, hit up the gym and try loosing some weight. The smaller your body looks, the bigger your baby leg looks. Not only will your baby leg seem bigger, your feel like you have more energy, you’ll become more healthy. And weightlifting/exercising is a stress reliever.

What you can also do, is “start” PE. It will better your EQ, and in return, feel and look much bigger. EQ is pretty much a guaranteed gain from PE. Everybody gains that. So that’s something to look forward to.

The last thing I would consider is.. Leaving that girl of yours. She’s big time stressing you out. We can all tell. Our opinions are the best ones your going to get, for one we don’t know neither of you, so we can’t take sides. And from what I read on how she treats you, nobody deserves that. And you should leave.

I think I read somewhere that stress really effects your EQ and potential PE gains. SO if you exercise, your relieve more stress, and become more healthy, if you start PE, your EQ will get better, and you’ll most likely gain some. And if you leave Medusa Your stress level would reduce so much, you’ll probably send us all thank you letters.

So hit the gym, Start PE-ing right now. And go mushroom stamp the baby girl.

PS. I know your into the darker skinned girls, but all the colored dude are going after the white girls.. Take the hint Ha ha. Find a tiny ass petite girl who can barley fit both hands around you baby leg and see how happy you’ll be. And I do not intend this remark to be in any shape or form considered raciest in anyway.

No, I’m not. I know that girl. The going to a sex toy show in and of itself isn’t whats bad. But how she treats him, how she views him, how she views people and objects. If her personality were a wall, the sex-toy-show is just one brick. Now, in my wife, if she had that brick I’d be all “cool!”

But on this chick, that brick tells a different story. I knew her in college. Different girl, different time. But I dated her back in the 80’s. Dump her.

I need that life change man HONESTLY. I want to get back into that beast shape. TALL YOUR CRAZZY LOL. I’m going to start hitting the gym. Any ideas Happy on how to well I want to get the sex muscles right and that stamina to. The BC muscle I found it so I will work on that. So many questions now as to how to raise semen volume cause well just think guys use your imagination. I feel like I have forgotten how to talk to other girls. DAMN TALL this chick does control my life.thats not good. Not anymore. I’m Jungle baby! How the hell can you eat right in college thats another big question.

Mr. Happy, I respect your insight, but I don’t agree with you on this one. I think what Tallheart is intimating here, is that this girl is not “about” Jungle at all. Everything seems to revolve around HER. Sex toy shows aren’t a big deal, in context. (ie with him at her side fantasizing with her about them as a couple)

In this situation, and in my opinion, she might as well be saying “fuck you” to Jungle, and “you’re not good enough, so I’ll go to a sex toy show and finding a toy or person better”. No thanks to that for someone like me.

I don’t think a person should never forgive, but this girl has not only had ZERO remorse, she has flaunted her unfaithfulness, and stuck it in his ass. (figuratively speaking of course)

Fair enough Mr. Jazz. Still, I don’t get it.

And in truth I think your post is making a lot of assumptions - which I’ll concede right now may be correct but… they may not be. It feels a little to me like what you’re hearing about Jungle’s girl is pressing some of your buttons (but that’s another issue - forget I said that).

Why does everyone assume he has to leave her? Isn’t it up to him to assess the situation?

Jungle112 you said in passing that you want to leave her? Why?

Okay, she cheated. Sometimes that happens. Usually it’s an indicator that something is off in the relationship, though sometimes it’s an indicator that something is off with individual who cheated. Often it’s a little of both.

That said, there are certainly situations that merit a second chance; it appears he’s given her one. I not at all convinced that it’s just because he’s weak-willed. There must be some benefit to being with her.

Offhand I’d say sorting this out is the real reason for you to be here Jungle112, as you have arrived here with a size that is what a lot of folks seem to think is ‘ideal’ - and is incontrovertibly LARGE.

If you have time, tell us what’s going on, pro and con with this girl.

Edit: I’ll add that if you just want to break up with her for any reason, that’s your right. You don’t owe her anything.

“”That said, there are certainly situations that merit a second chance”“

Yeah, they are called marriage and children. At 20 years old, cheating is enough to move on.

Jungle, you are too young to get married. Oh wait, you never said you were going to marry her, did you. Ok, then time to move on. Why invest a bunch of time and emotional energy going through counseling with a girl that you aren’t married to, that cheated on you, when you are only 20 years old with a future?

Only you can answer that question Jungle. Don’t let me tell you what to do. Heck, for all I know you two have some deep connection that happened one night when you had sex and felt like you needed to be together forever.

Just make sure the feeling is mutual. From what I’ve read, it isn’t.

Well, that’s your opinion, tallheart and you have a right to it.

I don’t agree. Not in every case. I think it’s too sweeping a generalization.

Relationships are specific.

Who said anything about counseling?

It’s possible.

Let’s hear from him. :leftie:

A fair point.

What’s your gut tell you Jungle112?

Wise Jedi, you make good points and definitely read through the lines.

I would say that, yes, some of my “buttons” have been pushed here. However, the buttons being pushed are those based out of experience. (not saying that you aren’t experienced)

I just come at it from the perspective of “screw him once, shame on you, screw him twice, shame on me”.
I am slanted this way, suggesting that he should leave right away, because her actions and comments AFTER her cheating, tell me that she doesn’t give a shit about him or his feelings. She feels powerful here. The longer he stays, the stronger she seems to get, and the more insecure he feels. (it’s bullshit)

At 20 years old, I do not see the need to stick around in this situation. There are so many fish in the sea, to stay miserable with someone who, apparently, and based on what I’ve heard so far, doesn’t care.

Everyone makes mistakes, granted. But most people “repent”, and do anything they can to prove that the mistake won’t happen again. I’m just not seeing that here.

Ok well honestly, I want to walk away because of numerous things. Had to ask her to stop talking to and have anyway to contact the dude that she cheated on me wit. I see guys she fucked all over campus and two had the nerve to say hi to me and her. I feel like she treated them better then she does me. They got crazy sex and she cheated in a car (one of my fantasies.with out the cheating) it’s just crazy. I feel like being a Man of respect I show it and get poop’d on for it. I feel like if you are with Jungle, then your ex’s need to go in another direction. She also lied about her best friend who is a guy who she said at first was a kiss, then it was touching(he touched her she says), then it was a 2 week thing. All while she was not with me.but it was a lie non the less. He even had the nerve to ask her to spring break.WHAT THE FLY $%#$ and Vegas for his birthday. At that time we were engaged that has since died. This Sucia(whore) had the nerve to not bring my name up and then say I didn’t think about it. I know this it petty but a guy who had a one night stand with her was on her face book and the guy she cheated with and other various men she messed around with were there and I felt disrespected because I’m a “lion” and no other male is allowed in my territory now we apply this to real life no other guy is allowed unless it’s strictly platonic. She had a problem and she said to me a few times that I made her get rid of all her friends. This is just brief.want more

In some arguments she told me.. I have a small dick, she fucked me out of pity, I suck in bed.I tell her damn you can sure hurt a brother, she said.”you aint a brother I fucked brothers” Called me a coward. That’s why I wanna leave

I want to stay because I care and Love her.but I am falling out of love with her. It’s always something she always says I have an issue and will always have an issue. She out right told me that she thought another person was attractive.<screeeech> so the guy you cheated on was attractive and you had an attraction to him so what make s me think this is any different. It’s a professor teaches here.and she told me when we were friends that she would have sex with him and all this other stuff. She evens said to me her type is tall (check) black(no check) Dreads(no check) tattoos(no check).WTF! I am only tall out of her type then she said her type changes.really cause if that was the case why am I the non black guy you have been with.

Okay.

Well stated.

I’m not sure he’s miserable, though.

I’ve been around the block, actually many blocks, and I have a different take on the ‘at 20’ part of your point. Sometimes, I readily conceded, what you say is absolutely right.

Other times… well, we learn.

At 20 he’s learning, and so is she for that matter. Now it may be appropriate for her to learn that she can’t just walk on people - fair enough.

But I don’t believe that he’s just being a wuss. He must be getting something from this situation.

I haven’t heard anything that I could confidently and conclusively say, “Dude, you should move on.” If I had I’d be right there with you.

Which is why I’ve challenged him to weigh the pros and cons and let us in on them. The exercise will be good for him, and it will enlighten us, as we don’t really have any idea what the hell is going on with him.

I have had relationships that I’ve been stuck in and should have jettisoned, I’ve had relationships that I’ve gone the extra mile for and been rewarded. It can be tough to tell what’s a safe bet. And beyond a certain point there’s an element of chance: either it works our or it doesn’t.

This is why I reserve judgment - especially in the face of so few facts.

What can I say? It’s just how my mind works. Hopefully, Jungle will get back to us.

Edit: oops! He did while I was writing this. :rainbow:

Damn jungle all that stuff in your last post is enough to make me want to slap a ho, that is DISRESPECT in its purest form, fucking those other guys and on top of that telling you that you suck in bed and she fucked you out of pity?

This is YOUR GIRL and shes telling you shes fucking you out of pity, why the fuck is she even with you then man? out of pity as well probbably,
from what I understand she cheats on you left and right like its not even a thing, guys on campus are tapping that ass then saying hi to her when shes with you and laughing at you behind your back because of it.

Why Jungle why on earth would you stand for all that ? I know its been three years but homie there are plenty more fish in the sea, you got one seriously fucked up broad there thats taking major advantage of the kind of person you are and the fact that you were engaged to her is honestly I can say without even knowing you that it is the worst decision you made in your short life and thank god that you didnt go through with it.

Dont waste another second of your life with a fucked up female like that, I dont care how much you think you love her, let her go and NEVER look back