Try a search on the subject, fp2, for more in-depth stuff on the RK, but basically it’s the opposite of the kegel. When you’re a newb you’re told to suddenly stop the stream of urine when you’re taking a leak and that’s basically a kegel… think of the opposite, try to force that urine out as hard as you can and that’s basically a reverse kegel.
It feels very strange the first few times you try it around the point of no return before orgasm. I guess it almost feels like you’re trying to push out your ejaculate, which would seem counter-productive, hence your brain might think, “whoa whoa whoa… that’s what we’re trying not to do”. But after a while your body learns that once the RK forces your urethra to “swell” the only thing that’s coming out is whatever was in your urethra to begin with, then no more. After you get used to this, there’s kind of a subtle confidence that comes over you, where you know that you can come damn close to blowing it, but hold it off at will when you have to. At least that’s been my experience… others mileage may vary.
Bringing it back to the jelqing experience, the neat thing about the RK is that when you hold it long enough, it causes your glans and to a lesser degree, your shaft to expand and swell in a way that’s totally different compared to a regular kegel. I can’t put my finger on it well enough to actually articulate, but a hard RK is just different. Try it, see what you think.
"It's ALL in your head. You just have no idea how big your head is." - Lon Milo DuQuette "The mind's role in P.E. is more important than the hand that touches the penis." - Mr. Nine Just ignore the crazy old man in his tinfoil-lined pyramid hat, smelling of EVO and muttering Ohhmmm my penis growwwws. He's not always to be taken literally.