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Hi I’m French, I can perfectly read english but not as good in writing so I guess that s the reason I don’t post.. Anyway I’m glad to visit thunders because it’s probably the best source of information across the Net. I have not yet decided if I go on PE.. Unclear about my own objectives + I must say I’m a bit lazy ;)

I am 7” BPEL (penis straightened or using tape to follow the curve) per girth 5.6 base / 5.5 ms / 5.2 Just below glans / 5.5 to 6 at the glans.

The glans is 2.2” in width x 2.1” length.

As a result, big head + curve + 5.5 girth at the shaft make it look shorter.. Girls anyway are quite happy of the girth for PiV, and especially the head.

They usually cum fast with Just the glans inserted , some told me that curve plays à rôle as well (upward). If not enough wet or lube some have told me to go softly.

Oral can be an issue, anal is no way, no girl wanted to , but I don’t care I m not a fan of anal.

For short , I m a bit selfconscious about visual effect : shorter than it really is.

So the solution for me would be either to reduce the curve or to bring maybe Just 1 extra inch in length, don’t know.

Hey, I have been lurking for about 6 months now, and finally signed up for an account recently.

Before TP and any real knowledge of PE, I was dabbling with stretching and some variation of a jelq just by discovery and wondered if it would do anything for me based on how it felt. I decided to do some internet research about it and found the newbie routine here. I tried implementing it inconsistently before realizing I wanted to take PE seriously, and signed up.

I haven’t used a string tape measure or done a proper BPEL measurement, but from rough measurements, I am about 6.75” NBPEL and about 5.5” MEG.

I am 23, and have always struggled with self image issues, and like most other guys have wanted to get bigger. This has led to less than fantastic bedroom performance because of my insecurities. After starting the routine and poking around here quite a bit, I have realized that I have a fairly good member, and have gained a bit of confidence and decided to stop worrying about size and start focusing on enjoying myself during sex. My goals since starting have shifted towards higher EQ and some fairly minor growth goals to hit what I feel is a sweet spot.

I started the Newbie routine consistently about 2 weeks ago, and seem to be responding well. Minimal soreness after a routine, but no pain or negative PI’s. Last week, I picked up a LeLuv pump after reading through some threads, and have introduced a 10 minute @ 3”hg session in between jelq and kegels on 1 of the 2 on days.

So far, no growth gains(not expecting them yet,) but a DEFINITE increase in EQ.

My ideal goal would be to hit 8x6 BPELxMEG with great EQ.

I just want to thank this forum for helping to come out of my shell and start to look at myself differently. I look forward to starting a log soon and to participate in more convos!

Welcome to Thunders Bango! You have a great size, but regardless your below revelation is spot on!

PE and sex can be a lot of fun once you stop worrying about size!

What’s up everyone? Been here a few months now and deciding to pop my cherry and finally post. Here’s a little bit about myself:

Found out about PE a couple of years ago and started some simple jelqing, then I bought a Bathmate and used that for awhile. I gained about an inch in length and some serious post pump girth from the bathmate, but none of it stayed permanently. When I say serious girth, I mean I completely filled up the cylinder, side to side, in the bathmate. I loved the look the bathmate gave my dick, it was so thick, but just mainly waterlogged and squishy to the touch even when fully erect.

Then I quite PE’ing for about a year, maybe a little more, due to family, life, and work. Then like all guys with insecurities and the thought of PE’ing still in the back of my mind, I wanted to give it another go around and this time actually stick to it. I started doing some research and stumbled across Thunder’sPlace. I immediately joined the group and started researching the site. After reading several inspiring success stories I decided this was something I had to put 100% effort into.

So I started simple and jumped on the beginner’s routine. I’m 10 week’s in and loving every single minute of the process. I started at 5.8” BPEL and 4.5” MSEG. One month in and I measured at 6” BPEL and 4.75” MSEG. I’m hooked at this point!! I tried measuring on month 2 but EQ was not up to par and I couldn’t get an accurate number. So I have decided to measure once every two months to keep the motivation high. I feel like if I measure every month and don’t see a movement on the ruler I will get discouraged. So I think two months will give enough time between measurements to see a movement on the ruler even if its a small one.

My wife is 100% with me and stands behind me on this journey. Like most average men that have always wanted to be bigger, my want to become hung came after the kid’s. Child birth does a number to the vagina!! The want to to succeed at this goal/desire/journey really sank in one night when the wife and I were talking. I was talking about some of the success stories I read about on Thunders, how some guys went from 5 to 8 inches as well as gains of an inch plus in girth and she was like, “So whats your goal? 9 inches”. Right then I knew she wished I was bigger. I mean I have never hit the backboard with my wife, but she was tight pre-kids, but the tightness never came back after the kids. I used to be able to make her squirt with ease, but post child birth the only way she orgasms was with clitoral stimulation while I penetrated. This is a major let down to myself knowing what I used to be able to accomplish. Plus I feel like she is a closet size queen, wishing I had a bigger dick. So I will not stop this process until I reach my goal of 8” by 5.5” or bigger.

Who knows if I will be an easy gainer or a hard gainer? I don’t care, I will not stop until success is accomplished. Keeping it simple for now with manual stretching and jelqing till whatever gains I get stop. My dick already feels fuller and longer in my hand and my wife said it feels thicker in her mouth, so I’m sold. I feel like girth will be easy for me to achieve, so I am focusing on length first then girth, since I have read that length is harder to obtain after girth gains. Oh yeah, I should add that I am a grower not a shower, so a nice flaccid hang would be nice.

PS- I am overly thankful to this forum and all of it’s wealth of knowledge. Sorry for the length of my post, just looking to make a home here at Thunders and stating my story.

Thanks for reading,

Bam

Wham Bam! That is a great story. I loved the bit about the wife’s involvement and how you used to get her squirting! Do you think she will look at some of the pictures posted here? Anyway, best of luck and keep updating please!!👍 I hope the missus is squirting again soon🤞

I started lurking a couple years back, but fell out of PE due to lack of dedication. Now I’m back with an account this time and am ready to commit.

Thank you for reading my story Impressed. I’m not sure if she will look at pictures on here, probably not, but who knows. Anyways, I will be updating every couple of months for sure and will be more active in the group from here on out. I want to document my whole journey and this is the only place to be able to do it.

Already posted elsewhere, but dropping in to introduce myself formally. I’m Punk, your resident cynical nihilist and anarchist. My interest in PE is largely cosmetic, much in the same way I work out the rest of my body. The goal is to see how big I can get my muscles and my 8 inch mini-me. The final goal, if it’s possible, is 10.25” BPEL x 6.25” EG.

Hey Guys,

I have been lurking on this forum on and off for years, and finally decided I’m finally going give PE a try. I’m much smaller than almost anyone I have seen post here - starting with a BPEL of 4.4” and EG of 4”. This has been a major issue in my life. I basically don’t date, because the few sexual experiences I have had have been disappointing both for myself and the women involved because of my size. I won’t change in a locker room or even piss in a urinal next to anyone if I can help it.

Needless to say, getting to even 6” and 4.5” girth would be life changing for me, and I can’t even imagine anything above that. Based on what I’ve read on these forums, a 1.6” gain in a reasonable period of time (say a year) has been done, but is quite unlikely, so honestly I’m not that hopeful that I’ll ever hit my goal. But I’m going to give it a real shot and see what happens.

One question I have.. The “average gains” thread I read on here says the average gain has only been 0.73 inches, which I have to say doesn’t give me much hope of hitting my goal. Sometimes I read stories of guys doing this daily for years and only gaining nothing or like 0.1”. But then I have read some success stories of guys gaining 1”+ in a month or two. Does anyone know how much of that comes down to physical differences, and how much comes down to dedication? Are the big gainers using weights and other scary looking stuff, or are they just doing regular routines found on this site?

I’m fairly new to PE.

So stretching is only for length gains, but it hurts your EQ? How long do you need to stretch for it to have a negative side effects on EQ?

I’ve also read that stretching for a short time increases EQ. How long would that need to be?

Hi Group!

Though I’ve been a member here for awhile now, I have also spent my fair share of time checking out different forums all over the internet in the past.
Something always brings me back to here. A place where I can find like-minded people who understand that drive to be just a little bit more. I never really even go to any other site to better understand the ins and outs of PE anymore.

What prompted to me actually participate was that I came up with an Idea for an easy to make and very comfortable multi-purpose cock ring with an optional adjustable bungee that can tighten down and loosen up very quickly while at the same time not falling off when loosened. I’m not sure if it would be a home run for the other members here, but It works very well and I decided it is time to share this here as a way to thank Thunder’s Place for teaching me about PE and how to approach it realistically. Its something that I enjoy doing.

I look forward to participating a little more here and to continue learning.

Hi 581u812
Sounds cool mate. Had it worked? Will you’ve giving further details?
Cheers mate.👍

Hi all,

This is my official first post, and I will give a little bit of background story, before hopefully making my own progress thread soon. So, I am a guy in my late twenties, living in the UK, but originally from Eastern Europe. I have been in a serious relationship for the past few years - my girlfriend and I consider ourselves married, just without a ring (yet) :) .

I have found out about PE perhaps 6 years ago. I was very dissatisfied with my penis size, a view I almost entirely blame on porn. At the time, I tried a bit of jelqing, but it seemed too dangerous and I was certain it could not possibly work. Fast forward 3 years, and I am even less happy with my size. To give you an idea, ~5.5/5.75 NBPEL/BPEL and ~4.9/4.5 base/mid-shaft EG, with a small-ish upwards curve, which I rather like. I would say as average as penises get. I have never had any complaints, rather ‘mild compliments’, such as ‘proportional’. To dig myself into a deeper emotional hole, I have been unintentionally aggravating my PreE issue, leading to performance anxiety, more size anxiety and ultimately even getting ED! Even worse, I was in a constant turtled state, and have quite a few Fordyce spots on the shaft, which I was for some reason bothered by.

All things combined, this was killing my sex life - the only thing lacking in an otherwise perfect relationship! At the beginning of 2016, I started reading a lot more, and was becoming increasingly convinced that PE actually existed. Namely, I found thundersplace, pegym, goodlookingloser (yes, not really a PE site, but still useful to me). I bought an X4 labs extender and a Fleshlight, mostly for the PreE. A few weeks later I added standard manual exercises. Needless to say, results followed rather quickly! Sex was getting better and more frequent, and there were some size gains as well. Within 9-10 months, I’d say I gained about 0.75in erect length and perhaps 0.3-0.4 EG. However, I was oblivious to deconditioning breaks, proper kegel/rk training, proper edging/ballooning, porn restriction, not ejaculating daily.. In spite of the gains, I was not doing PE properly!

The following two years were a nightmare. I had stopped PE, went back to quick & dirty masturbation habits and nearly stopped having sex with the gf. This was driven by many factors - lack of privacy, mild depression, continuous stress, lack of sleep, etc. Recently this almost lead to us breaking up, and neither of us actually wants that! Needless to say, my self esteem had been crushed by that point. Unacceptable, especially considering everything else in my life was getting back to normal and I am quite a good looking guy too (I am not fishing for compliments/showing off!).

Ultimately, I have been back to PE for the past 6-7 weeks. I started pumping, properly edging/ballooning, doing some manual work and piss pulls, and stopped porn.. Well, I’d still often watch webcam style stuff ;D. Now I’m at the beginning of a 1 week decon break. I have to say, mentally I feel like I have made more progress than my original 10 months of PE! Lately we have restarted having sex, and I’d say it’s getting better faster than I expected. I act more like my former self too, and my confidence is gradually recovering.

Funnily enough, now I don’t PE for the size gains, rather PreE, ED and general health first. Educating myself through the PE forums has made me far more comfortable with what I have. Well, the gains so far helped a lot too! Nevertheless, at the moment I think my penis is larger than when I stopped two years back. I will be measuring around the end of December, and will start a progress/dick pic thread then.

So, this is my story. Sorry it is rather long and resembling a soap opera or something, but I felt it was time to share with the PE community.
And really, thank you guys, keep PEing, this stuff does change lives!

Been around the forum for quite some time,haven’t the need to post due to questions already being answered elsewhere by someone in a near situational predicament as iv found myself in.

Decided to sign up and get an avatar I guess.
Considering a journal of my progress ,can’t exactly do that without an avatar

Welcome aboard. Choose your avatar when you’re ready.