Newb intro, reason for starting PE

Hi everyone, just wanted to introduce myself and why I’m starting PE.

There’s a girl who I’ve been really great friends with for the past few years. Recently, I started having more feelings for her, and so did she. A few nights ago, she practically begged me to have sex with her. So far so good.. Until she asked if I was actually in, since she couldn’t feel anything. Made me feel like shit. Now, I’m not exactly big, but I haven’t had complaints before. In fact, I know my ex was more than satisfied. But apparently, this girl gets stimulated by having her cervix touched, and I can’t reach it.

She’s a sweet and sensitive girl who I really get along with. It’d be pretty retarded and frustrating if we don’t go any farther just because of this one stupid thing that I don’t even have control of in the first place. We’re going to give sex another shot the next time we meet up, so I’m not yet sure what will happen. But if things don’t work out just because I don’t have a big penis, I’m going to feel like total shit. The best I can do is make sure something like that doesn’t ever happen again. That’s why I’m posting here on this forum, which I’m glad to have found. Thanks for putting this place together.

Starting up the newbie routine today!

Good luck on your journey. One thing to bear in mind as you start: She’s the one with the problem, not you?? Find a girl that is happy with you as you are as not all girls are going to get satisfaction in the same way. There’s no reason at all to feel shit because of the individual needs of this one girl out of millions walking the earth. If you want a bigger penis then get one for you and not for her. Think how you’d feel if, after this girl, you met the woman of your dreams and she saw your newly enlarged penis and thought: “ouch, too big for me” You’ve got the same problem reversed

Yeah, make sure her insult doesn’t make you change your entire life. It’s ok to improve, but I think you could be unhappy if you tried without limiting it.

I think a lot of people probably come here expecting to read the forums all day and still have a life, and when stuff comes up, they stop. Make sure it’s a real routine in your real schedule and it’s consistent if you want to do it.

Thanks for the kind words. I’ll keep that stuff in mind.

It’s just somewhat of a surprise for me. I hear about how size doesn’t really matter, it’s all about the “motion of the ocean,” and then here’s a girl who can’t physically enjoy sex unless the penis is big enough. Fml.. Oh well

I’m sorry but she doesn’t seem sweet and sensitive to me, the way she insulted you is pretty low, I would have instantly aimed an insult back and see how she likes it, but that’s just me, what is your current NBPEL and girth? If your are around average you are perfectly fine, and like others have said its her problem, I’d have to confront her about it otherwise it would just eat away at me, after that I’d be half thinking she isn’t the girl for me, not because of any problem with you or your penis, but because of her and how she has already treated you.

I took a measurement today, and I’m on the smaller size. 4” NBPEL, 5” BPEL, 5.25” girth. So I guess I do have stuff to work on.

You guys are right, I’ll have a chat with her about the whole thing and see where it goes.

5 and a quarter girth. thats a pretty beefy hog. start the newby routine and you’ll be good to go!

Very good girth.
A 1" fat pad, maybe you can loose some weight and gain 0.25-0.5" in length. How about changing position? Tried doggystyle?

Here you are a great inspirational story
2-inch Growth Comparative Pictures

If she can’t feel a penis that is 5 inches + of girth… then I wonder.

5 inch plus girth is awesome dude…don’t be ashamed of anything. trying different positions should help hit her in the right spots.

That’s harsh man. Hope you makes some gains and so she can really feel it this time!

People must, oftenly, come to TP thinking PE will change every aspect in their lives that, according to them, suck.

Wish everyone could see how deep that quote should be taken into account when coming to PE and setting their PEing goals.

Wish you luck on your journey, weewoo ;)

P.s.: Check that routine out: NEW newbie + advanced routine

I am on my 2nd week into it.

I’m really grateful for the support. I’m doing PE because I want to do it for myself.

I started up the new newbie routine a few days ago, but added some stretches since length is my main issue. I assumed my girth was also small until you guys mentioned otherwise haha.

Maybe we can compare progress with each other along the way.

I’ll start a log of my progress.

Ah, I forgot about newbie restrictions. Can us newbs keep a log on the forum?

Sure. Start one here and ask to a mod to move it in the Progress section. Or just post another 25 posts. But only worth posts. :)