Newbie needs advice

This forum is great, I just started using the newbie routine, it hasn’t been a week yet, but I’m only going to measure after three months. How I wish I found this place one year ago. The advice I need is personal and where better to ask then here. My co-worker wants to have sex, which isn’t a problem we have been emailing back and forth for a couple of weeks, the problem is I’m small. I’m 5in 1/2 and I haven’t had sex in over a year, I don’t last long from my past experiences. Hopefully I will improve all these faults from this forum. I’m just worried it won’t be a great time and then I would have to face her every day, and she might even talk to other co-workers. I’m not saying she would do this, but you never know. Should I just go for it, and enjoy the weekend or should I back out. Your advice would be appreciated. Maybe someone has had this sort of experience before.

Thks

Nope never had this sort of experience but still go for it. Just do a lot of foreplay first…

Perhaps not having sex with a co-worker is ok, then if you are afraid she will talk. Sounds like this relationship is deeper than just sex though.

The ability to last long or not is not your fault, guilt may hinder gains in my opinion.

5.5 is believe it or not is the normal size for an adult male. Normal range is between 5”-6.” common range is between 5” and 7” anything above 7” is considered large.

Welcome to TP. I reccomend the Newbie routine.

If you are afraid you won’t last long enough, then you probably won’t. It’s 50% a mental thing. The fear of failure will result in you not lasting long enough.

My short term remedy? Get tipsy or a bit drunk before you have sex. I’m a pretty quicker shooter but I last ages when I’ve been drinking.

In the meantime, work on edging and kegels.

I say go for it. Focus on pleasing her first. If she comes via oral sex, she won’t be too worried if you come too quickly the first time. Plus, if you have the whole weekend, for the second and subsequent times you will last longer :) And you’re not small, so don’t worry about it.

Finally, like Nick33 said, work on edging and Kegels. Also, when you’re having sex, and feel yourself getting close to the point of no return, try clenching your anal area. This seems to help hold off the climax. It takes practice though.

Good luck, and have fun!

As others have already said, you’re not small, so don’t worry about that.

The best advice I can give is similar to what others have already relayed to you: just relax. Anxiety is only going to cause you more problems. Why don’t you just try to have fun? (I, too, used to be a quick shooter, so I totally empathize. It always helped for me to jerk off earlier in the day.) And for the long term, definitely try edging and kegels: you’ll learn a lot about your body and its responses to stimulation through those exercises. And they’re fun, too!

For now, just take it easy and enjoy yourself. Don’t pass up an opportunity that you really want to take advantage of simply because of an insecurity. You’ll just regret it later. (And trust me, we’re all a little insecure about something, even when it is not warranted.) If you want to have sex with her, do it. Have fun.

Jet

Hi and welcome cronaldo17, from another new member (APR2007).

First of all, you are NOT small. As others have told you, it is average and there is no reason to be ashamed of it.

Office romps? I have never believed that sex with a co-worker is a good thing, and I can tell you from experience! If it goes bad, you will wish you had never gotten involved. Think long before you do it!

Also, what if it is not her, but YOU that is not satisfied and you would like to just forget about it? And, then what if SHE was not disappointed and wants to continue getting together? That is what happened to me and ALL HELL BROKE OUT! Until the day I decided to leave that company, she made every single day miserable for me and a hell on earth! Think hard, friend. It could make or break you as far as you job goes especially if you value your job.

Otherwise, Good PEing!

Hey I’m here to say that there are a bunch of issues all in one.. 1st ur penis probly won’t be the problem.. Theres ways of making ur dick feel bigger inside.. You just needa read up on that one.. Second.. You say she’s a co-worker.. Women and work don’t mix.. Keep ur pussy n ur money seperated.. It causes problems.. But if ur gonna do it then do it n don’t think of none of the consequences.. O n about finishing fast rub one out b4 you go have sex with her maybe b-4 you leave if ur goin 2 go pik her up I would say 30 mins b4 the sex .. It prolongs the second nut a little longer or a lot longer depending on the person.. N they r rite.. Foreplay is the key do a lot of that stuff.. Make her really wet b4 goin inside turn her on.. Do watever it takes.. Be creative.. O good luck n I hope all goes well

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Thanks.

Welcome to TP, cronaldo.