Newbie Questions
I’ve done tons of reading on the forums and have a couple questions that I couldn’t find answers for, so I thought I would post them here.
For background, I just started PE again about 2 weeks ago and am doing 2 on 1 off or 1 on 1 off depending on how everything feels. I’m roughly following the newbie routine, with some slight modifications. I tried PE about 5 years ago, but freaked out and quit after 1-2 months when I wasn’t able to get an erection at one point.
First of all, I want to clarify a couple things about jelqing. Is it normal to have a mild (very mild) ache in your penis after jelqing? I don’t know if this is a sign of a good jelq session or a sign that I am being too rough. Also, is it normal to feel the “full of blood” ache in your penis while performing each jelq? It feels the same as when you wrap something tightly around your finger and trap blood and starts to feel really full and ache a bit. Should I be feeling that on each jelq, or does that mean I’m going too hard?
Second, I’m a bit worried about the baseball bat effect. I notice that the first half of my jelq stroke seems to be much less effective than the last half. In fact, during my jelq session the 2nd half of my penis looks much thicker than the base. I try getting my grip as far back to the pubic bone as I can, but my scrotum seems to get in the way. If I try to go all the way back I feel my fingers running across the veins/tubes that run down to my testicles, and it feels really.strange. But if I start an inch off the base I’m worried the base of my penis will remain smaller than the rest of my penis. Any thoughts or suggestions?
Last, I’m currently more concerned about length than girth. My current stats are roughly 6.25 BPEL and 5.25 EG. My initial goals are to get that to 7” NBPEL and 5.5” EG. From reading forum posts, it seems I should be focusing on stretching since that is where I will likely get the length gains I’m looking for. I’m wondering if stretching is something that can be safely done every day, or even twice a day, while only jelqing every other day or so. Has anyone tried this? Stretching doesn’t seem like something that would require “rest”, and if anything I would think frequent, consistent stretching (within reason) would be beneficial. Any thoughts?