Not Happy With My Penis

What’s up guys, I’m a newbie to PE. My current NBPEL is 5.1, My BPEL is exactly 6” maybe 6.1 on a good day. If I measure from the side, then it’s anywhere between 6.2 to 6.6 just depends how hard I am and how hard I push with the ruler. My EG is about 4.3-4.4, but my NBPFL is only 2-3 inches (never really cared for flaccid until now because it looks so damn small. I have an LG hanger which I purchased in February, but I always have to stop using it because I always give myself horrible blisters, and it slips out sometimes. I also have a cheap penis pump I purchased at a sex shop, but I have no idea if I’m using it right or not. I also have a Zen hanger, but it also slips out. I have absolutely no idea on what I’m doing when it comes to PE. I’ve been doing basic stretches, but no gains since February. Please help me out here, I would like to gain at least 1 inch or 1.5 inches in both length and girth so I can be somewhat confident. I’m a 25 year old virgin, and never had a girlfriend because of the size of my penis. I’m afraid she’ll laugh, or just cheat on me. There’s other insecurities as to why I’ve never had a girlfriend, but I’m not going to get in to all that because this is a PE forum and I’m going to keep it there. Thank you all for reading, & if you guys have any routines or tips for me, I’ll be more than happy to hear you out.

Thanks again.

Hey Brother. Check out this thread. “I need help” in blue below. I can identify with your situation and you are not alone. The guy in this thread is in the same position you are and rather that have everyone repeat what is said… How about you just have a read through…

One thing I can say is that you should put away all those devices for now and start on the “Newbie routine”. This will give you the insight and conditioning that you need to move forward in a healthy way. The more educated that you become, will mean a lot toward your results and how to stay injury free.

- I Need Help

Welcome. Apply yourself to routines on this forum, be consistent, and be patient.

Also, try to uncouple your PE efforts from your feelings of inadequacy about being a virgin. You currently fall within average range, so penis length has nothing to do with it. At least statistically, I mean. Emotionally is a different matter.

Best of luck.

Dude look 👀 at my starting stats. I nailed over a hundred chicks with that dick and the only 1 that wasn’t happy was a big girl with a roomy pussy! Lesbians are cumming everywhere with tiny fingers and tongues and are perfectly happy! Get in the game. Don’t waste your youth being self conscious.

Hi mate,

I’m sorry to hear you are struggling with confidence issues over your penis size and whatever else. What I can say is, I am a slightly smaller than you and yes I do still have some confidence issues over my size but not once has a woman laughed at my penis or cheated on me (that I know of). I have been with quite a few women and even if some might have thought to themselves that my penis was on the smaller side of average, they have never said it and have never been put off by it.

Insecurities are difficult to overcome I know but don’t let your penis size stop you from enjoying life, especially when you are actually average size rather than small.

Try and develop a “don’t give a fuck” attitude about peoples opinion of you when it comes to appearance or penis size. This helped me. And while you do that you can make some gains and gradually feel better about yourself along the way.

Good luck.

Relax. And let you insecurities slip away. I was exactly where you were a month ago. My starting stats are pretty much the same as your. BPEL is 6 and EG is around 4.5. I almost threw a relationship I’ve been working on for 11 years under the bus because one day I decided my dick was to small to satisfy her. Turns out it’s all in my head. Outlook has a lot to do with the outcome of any situation and I’m still recovering and bettering myself for my wife. Stay positive start working towards change but be patient. I hurt myself the first day I tried PE to much to fast had to take a 5 day break. Gains will come in sure of it!

I’ve felt the same. Now I don’t.

Take it slow. PE is not for the desperate, PE is for the committed.

This has been an issue with a lot guys. But don’t be discouraged. Learning all the PE exercises and stretches will make your Johnson healthy, stronger, and last longer. I’m in a marriage where my wife loves my size and wouldn’t care if I was bigger or not. My gains haven’t been anything spectacular yet but I can hold my erection longer, I get them easier, and they are harder. When it comes to women, just like guys we vary in size, so do they and how much they can take. So if one isn’t your fit, try the next and so on till you get the right one. Just like Goldie locks lol.

Young Guys - SiZE ANXIETY is DUMB

I repeat:

Young Guys - SiZE ANXIETY is DUMB

As always, great advise from the other guys. Use heat and be consistent for gains.

How did you gain that much length and girth? What’s your routine looking like? I’ve been doing stretching for 10-15 minutes, then I jelq for about 10. I do 2 days on and 1 day off. Am I doing ok, or should I change it up?

Actually it turns out I measured my girth wrong, I got around 4.1-4.2 it sucks. Either I measured wrong, or lost girth. But thanks for your reply and good luck with everything.

I started pumping immediately because I didn’t do any research. I wasn’t trying to increase my size because I didn’t know it was possible. I got a pump to help with ED.I pumped at way too high a pressure for a year and a half and just started growing like crazy. I’m lucky it didn’t rip my dick off and damage me for life.

Lol

I did the same thing and wound up with some really ugly bruises. Now, i pump at 7hg and no higher. What pressure were you using?

I have a pump too, but whenever I try to pump, the fat pad gets sucked in and it doesn’t really feel like it’s doing anything. Do I need a cock ring for the pump?