Pe and Sex.

Yesterday I had sex with my girlfriend,to my surprise I only managed to put my dick in 3 times in and I came:( I have never had this kind of problem before,do you think PE has something to do with it?It sucked to hear my girlfriend say: “You gotta be kidding!”:(

I’ve been PEing for a few months now and am noticing that I’m cumming a lot quicker than I use to. It sucks! I think it’s from the kegeling personally, but I know a lot of people in here claim that Kegeling is suppose to help prevent that. Maybe the better erections that come with PEing are causing the penis to be more sensitive.

Better erections, more sensitive skin, tighter fit, stronger muscles, better blood flow. All those factors could cause premature ejaculation. I had a short period where I went through the same thing, I’m not sure what casued it, but it was temporary for me. I think for me it was that my penis had become more sensitive to the touch, from the streching and jelqing. It was almost felt “raw” like your hands do right before you get a blister. The sensitivity was intense, but after I got conditioned to the exercises, the super-sensitivity went away, now I go at it for much longer than ever.

My experience states that jelqing makes the penis much more sensitive. If I were to I edge after I have jelqed, my first ‘edge’ past ejaculation is always very quick, sensitive and enjoyable. After the first edge however, the sensitivity has gone. If I were not to jelq, it would be nowhere as sensitive - in fact it’s the same sensitivity as after I have edged under a recently (hour or so) jelqed penis. Also, in my experience, on certain days you are more sensitive. This may be due to the weather, what you have eaten, or the Earth’s rotation and position in the Solar System for all I know.

Oh man, so that’s what it is..

I noticed two nights ago the same thing. Any tips, or do I have to dust off that “multi-orgasmic male” book now?

Tips? Yeah: edge past ejaculation before you’re about to make sweet lurve. If your sex life is somewhat uncertain (you Rakish devil you), edge once or more times in the morning. Or don’t jelq. :)

Heres an interesting thought.

You started PE to increase the size of your dick. You imagine how your girlfriend/wife will react to you new size. You’re excited. You’re also anxious. You’re tense. Maybe a little nervous. Whether its consciously, or subconsciously, that may just be the answer.

Hmmm.I will fuck her again tonight.if I cum right away,I’m gonna consider to stop the PE:(

Try doing a reverse kegel. Search the forum and you will find references to this technique. I used to have the problems you explained and doing a reverse kegel helps tremendously.

I have had sex 3 days in a row and stil I cum after I put it in 2-3 times:( I will start doing the reverse kegels tonight.

Here are a few more things I have tried (because I have (at times) the same/similar problem as you):

* Have you tried wearing a condom? I know it is not the best solution but it is worth a try as it cuts down on the sensitivity.
* I have also had some good luck with applying lidocaine (topical anesthetic) over the top 1/2 of the penis about 20-30 minutes before intercourse. Make sure you wipe it off thoroughly before going at it as your partner may become numb if you don’t.
* I have read that use of Clomipramine (an OCD drug) can help with premature ejaculation considerably. This is the road I may be heading down soon.

Another tip if your partner is willing to partake in helping you get over this is to do the following:
* Step 1. Begin sexual activity as usual, including stimulation of the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejaculate.
* Step 2. Have your partner squeeze the end of your penis, at the point where the head (glans) joins the shaft, and maintain the squeeze for several seconds, until the urge to ejaculate passes.
* Step 3. After the squeeze is released, wait for about half a minute, then go back to foreplay. You may notice that squeezing the penis causes it to become less erect, but when sexual stimulation is resumed, it soon regains full erection.
* Step 4. If you again feel you’re about to ejaculate, have your partner repeat the squeeze process.[/List]This is my current ‘cure’ and it works pretty well. I was a little embarrassed at first asking but it really seems to spice up the event a little.

I have tried with condoms,doesn’t help at all.I still cum to early.

Can I assume you are fairly young? Over time you will find that you sometimes come quickly and sometimes it takes forever. Sometimes you are hard as a rock forever and sometimes you lose your erection for no good reason. It all comes with the territory. I pretty much just chalk it up to the territory. Plumbing issues just happen. Don’t worry too much, just make it up to her next time.

There is another angle of this that you should really think about, as well. If you come too quick or can’t keep an erection, there is a real good chance that your girlfriend will think that the problem is with her. Be prepared to read her reaction and comfort her when you underperform. This might sound backwards, but I can assure you that women really worry about there own sexuality and their ability to arouse their man and bring him to peak performance. If you can loose you woody or come in two seconds and still make your woman feel like she is the best thing that ever happened to you, you are finally a great lover.

When you workout a muscle too often and it doesn’t get time to rest, it becomes weaker. When you do kegels, try to hold for 10 seconds, then rest for 10 seconds (or even longer) and then repeat. In my opinion, you want each “rep” to be the best it can. Just like powerlifting, they rest for longer durations than bodybuilders so they can get the most out of each rep.

Also, if you are just starting to do kegels, your muscles still might be adjusting. If you workout for the first time in your life, the next few days, your whole body is just sore and weak.

yea i noticed that too, when my penis is weak from doing p.e and i get aroused, i feel the urge to cum unusually fast… i dont know why this is but the claims made in this thread seem to make alot of sence. Although i hope that it is temporary. Before P.E i could go at it for as long as i want, even with very hot girls. So if i hope it passes and ultimately makes me last longer. My cock is definitely more sensitive. But also i have been doing alot of jerking off without cumming throughout the day along with my P.E ing which i guess dosent help with the cumming quick.