Penis hurts my partners

Hi,

I have done Jelqing for many years and I I think my penis grow a little bit, but now every partners I have been with tell me it hurts them, I have never got that problem before, is there any reason why my penis hurts them? I am Asian and have a small penis so it’s not that big to cause pain, is it because my penis got toughen up because of jelqing or because of my penis shape? It looks a little bit like baseball bat to me.

Please help I don’t know what to do anymore

What are your measurements?

Are you spending adequate time to ensure they are ready to be intimate?

Have you tried using lubricant?

I tried everything, it’s not just once but all 7 girls I had sex with, some of them tell me they have never felt pain during sex. Is that because of baseball bat effect?

If you really tried everything then your penis may be too big. But maybe you need to try these other things more.

What is your size? Because baseball bat shape doesn’t hurt anyone unless you’re too big.

Problem is: you do not know how to use your tool or you do not know how the mechanisms of female body work.

Before intercourse you gotta kiss her, give her good oral in her clitoris and vulva I expect you to at least make her orgasm once before you stick your penis in there in order to her vulva can expand better and her vagina walls to accommodate a bigger unit in there. Learn how to use your fingers to stimulate her g-spot and make her squirt or orgasm while your are smashing her.

Lol I am 28, this is basic sexual education for 15 years old, you might want to teach your kids that, not me.

Teach or not it does sound like you’re doing something that ain’t working too well doesn’t it?

I agree with c3ifador. I don’t think you know how to use your unit.

Stop jackhammering. Try putting on some slow jams and thrust to the rhythm.

If you’re small, don’t aim for her walls and don’t jackhammer.

If you’re long, don’t just thrust all the way in off the get and don’t jackhammer.

If you’re long enough to feel her cervix, don’t aim for it, go past it.

What are your measurements?

Look sex is a basic thing. If there is something wrong, and you think that you are the almighty-connoisseur-being lord of sex then why would you go here?

I don’t mean to offend or something like that, but if things are not going good you should return to basics, that’s all there is. In my honest opinion there is nothing wrong with the woman, there is only you, you need to look back what you are doing and see what you are doing wrong. Arrogance leads you to not see things clearly.

The only way a penis shape simply hurts is if it is made of spikes. So let’s narrow down how you are using your penis and when you hurt them.

Either it is friction related, not enough wetness or too much girth. Or you are poking them in an area like the cervix that they don’t like being poked. Or just going too hard and fast. It’s pretty much only those things.

Hello. With the information you provided, it’s hard to really say what’s going on. I am assuming that you already know about basic of sex (because sex is too huge to know everything) and all the procedures there is more likely to be a big coincidence that the 7 women with whom you hang out have a vagina as you say small compared to your penis perhaps even by regionalism and genetic characteristics. This has already been explored by the kama sutra for example in that there are 3 types of men and women in relation to female anatomy. (rabbit, mare and elephant)
We can say that there are women (rare) who have a child’s uterus in which a penis of 12 cm can hurts her, I have never seen a case of this in practice but I have dated a person in which some positions reached the uterus and I have only 15 cm NBPEL.
And in extreme cases we have the case of “Anna Haining Bates” of 2.43 meters of height that gave birth to a baby of 71 cm and the dilation of her according to the guiness reached an impressive 38 cm of girth (A clear example of elephant ).
No matter what size you have, there will always be someone who will not be compatible or will be too big or too small just continue on your way to achieving your goal one day the ideal woman you can reach while developing your personal, professional and focus on your body I may be wrong but I believe that this may be the question and good luck and good gains.

If you really want an answer to this and you’re not just trolling people here then you need to supply your measurements (length and girth) and a general synopsis of your techniques.