Realistic goals and expectations

Hey there LE, I have a different take on this, I found this my hard way. Don’t clock in, this is not a job, you are not getting paid for PEing. The PEeris are thiere own boss. Do not time your exercises, I see many members routines and they have 15 minutes here and 15 minutes there, C’mon, this is easy. It is called FEELING, get off the clock and exercise, and when you FEEL you have gotten everything out of that particular exercise move on to the next exercise. This is where I am going with this, 15 minutes may be to much with a certain exercise and another exercise may need more. Too much can plateau you and gains will stop. Feeling is the key. Do not let the clock dictate your exercises, also, do not start exercise at the same time every day, because your body, (cock) will learn the time, it is the same with body building. I started with the clock and learned, the clock is bullshit, it is FEELING. get off the clock and use body FEELING (clock). That is what my wife and I came up with after going to the gym, the trainer told us not to time ourselves but to feel when that exercise was good, move on to the next. I would love to hear your opinion on this. What do you think?

Regards,
Ron

TNT,

I think we can agree on one thing, if you don’t PE no size gains will be made. As for clocking in, you are 100% correct for those that it just doesn’t make sense for. I would not recommend that to them either and would always agree with you in that PI’s, safety, family, in workout feel, etc always come before fulfilling the “planned” time PE schedules we set out to achieve. We are in sync here. I actually tried to edit my post and include “unfortunately rest is required, so this doesn’t mean we can fit all of those hours into one week, bummer!” But my ten minutes were up:-(

I’m a numbers dude, so my reason for that post was to help those who are out there wondering, “if I tug on my dick today will I wake up tomorrow with a 9” cock?” gain some perspective in regards to the commitment of this journey we are on. I always love the statement “it is easier to go through the process of being happy with your cock than trying to make it bigger.”

I might be a bit of an enigma in that my log goes back three years and I have clocked every minute of every exercise. I also measure regularly. However, I’m actually satisfied with my cock, it’s brought me and my wife much pleasure. I PE for selfish fetish driven reasons, all induced from years of porn. With that said, I love the process, I love the data, and I know 7 months can go by with no gains.

So your perspective is important and I appreciate you tempering my post for those who have read it with the sentiment of making sure not to punch the clock and taking all of the many other so important and critical nuances into consideration.

Good stuff and thanks for balancing my post out!

As always LE, you are awesome, whatever works, we are different. I am happy to hear your response. Why are you not a Mod?

So Danny what are you going to do? We are here as a brotherhood to guide you, we are a Family as well. about virgin, okay, more power to you, why? the right one has not come along, but she will ! Take your time with that when you are comfortable. When you run into the right girl, she will accept you as you are and you will know. Stand tall Danny, you are somebody that walks the earth, we all are walking. have you ever thought about the size of your feet? Who gives a shit, Right. You may meet some girl with a big nose and she is good to you. As I speak here, no body should judge any body, we all have our faults. Danny, walk tall, and don’t look back to the bad, but to the good, do not ever forget the good past. Ever……….Life is work , but it is not our dick size, but what we have to offer as caring and knowing what other folks feel. Danny stride straight and be proud, stand strate and who cares about your dick size. Be happy. it is not one step at a time, but life as you should be thankful and enjoy. Danny…………..Well……………………… …………

Apology very much accepted. Danny you are not setting yourself for failure, just know PEing is dedication. I am a Vet here. When I started, I was PEing behind closed doors because I did not want my wife to know I was pulling on my cock, so my PEing wasn’t consistent. I found this forum began reading of experiences of others, and that helped me make up my mind of what I needed to do. One day I came home from work and I had a talk with my wife, I told her some women want big tits, I want a big dick. That gave me an Ace in my pocket, because I was not going to PE behind closed doors. I formulated a planned exercise regiment and I started with the Newbie Routine, which is actually a proven exercise. Once I felt conditioned to move on to the more advanced exercised, I began clamping, my wife thought it was weird at first, but she jumped in and started helping me. That was the Ace in my pocket, I now had help. We figure what our exercise would consist of, (notice how I said OUR exercise). We put together a clamping routine, and she really helped. I found that my clamps were cutting me and I could not get the clamp as close to my pelvic bone as I wanted. I came up with an idea to stop the clamps from cutting me. I cut strips of mouse pad and glued them to my clamps, Wow! What a difference, I was able to get the clamp to touch the pelvic bone, and what that does is cause what little fat I had to try to push the clamp off, that caused growth and girth. Pretty cool uh? My wife was very involved in our routine. I did 3 advanced exercises and the last one was intense. I was a very fast gainer and reached my high goal in just a year, but we had a plan. I must say, I never left the Newbie routine but used it as a warm up exercise before my advanced exercises.

What you need to do is condition yourself, during that time, formulate a plan when you are going to start the advanced exercises. Now then, when exercising, weather it be the Newbie or advanced, you must BELIEVE the exercise you are doing is working for you. Also, when you first start, the exercises you pick will be trial and error until you feel that you came up with the plan that is going to work for you. PE is really very simple, but that depends on you. You can achieve anything in life if you believe in yourself and set your mind to achieve.

Regards,
Ron

Take 0.001” and multiply that by how many hours budgeted for PE. Then put your head down and work the plan. If one exceeds that rate, awesome, if less than, possibly make adjustments in routine based on personal experience and advice. This rate is not a hard and fast rule, it’s just to give perspective on the level of investment required.

Some people blow this rate out of the water, at least initially, but eventually it slows down for all of us.

It’s a grind, but we got this!

You can achieve that. Don’t listen to naysayers. You don’t have to wait 10 years either. Consistency. Stay in shape. Eat and live healthy.

So Danny what are you going to do? We are here as a brotherhood to guide you, we are a Family as well. About virgin, okay, more power to you, why? The right one has not come along, but she will ! Take your time with that when you are comfortable. When you run into the right girl, she will accept you as you are and you will know. Stand tall Danny, you are somebody that walks the earth, we all are walking. Have you ever thought about the size of your feet? Who gives a shit, Right. You may meet some girl with a big nose and she is good to you. As I speak here, no body should judge any body, we all have our faults. Danny, walk tall, and don’t look back to the bad, but to the good, do not ever forget the good past. Ever.. Life is work , but it is not our dick size, but what we have to offer as caring and knowing what other folks feel. Danny stride straight and be proud, stand strate and who cares about your dick size. Be happy. It is not one step at a time, but life as you should be thankful and enjoy. Danny.Well..

Well, I’m sure I’ll wait. But who knows, we will see..
By the way, my real name is not Danny, but it’s kind of similar. Some of my close friends call me ‘Danny D’ sometimes, lol. It’s a joke, but that’s how I came up with my username. But you can call me Danny, it’s totally fine.
I wish I could start my PE journey right away and stick with it until I reach my goal.. Do it consistently, ‘in one go’, if you know what I mean by that. But life is tough, I live with my family and I would have to hide a lot and do it behind closed doors, which sucks. Also, I don’t have 3, 4 or 5 hours of free time to do my ‘workouts’. Sure, I don’t need that much time at the start, but I may have to spend that amount of time doing it at some point, who knows. I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to do it on and off. I may mess up something or lose consistency. There’s a guy who runs AJelqForYou on reddit, I believe he’s also a member here. He told me he has some routines for people who are busy, but I want to start with The Newbie Routine, so.. I have no idea, honestly. I just don’t know what would be the right thing to do here, honestly. I guess I’ll have to wait.
It’s kind of a fetish or fantasy for me to have a huge dick. Maybe I’m crazy, but there are people out there with way weirder fetishes. If I reach my goal, I’ll feel like a “king of the jungle”. I want to prove to myself and everyone here that it’s possible. I believe that you can achieve anything in life if you have the right mindset and want it bad enough, if you’re patient, consistent and willing to work hard.. If you never give up. If I make it, I’ll do everything I can to help others and I’ll donate a decent amount of money. That’s a promise!
Also, I’m really happy I found this place. It has brought my hope back and I feel really inspired and motivated.
Once again, I’m really really grateful. I could never do any of this without you. Thanks a lot!
God bless you, guys!

ESL40 Hanging cup, you need 1 hour in your own room at night or locked up in the bathroom etc. Just attach weights. It will be enough for 1 hour of daily hanging during your first year of PE.

Okay, but isn’t hanging an advanced exercise? Don’t get me wrong, I still have a lot of research to do before I attempt anything, so I don’t really know much at this point.
I was thinking about doing The Newbie Routine for really long time, maybe even a full year. I want to condition myself slowly and prepare for everything that’s coming later. I want to build up slowly and reap all the potential rewards from this routine.
Correct me if I am wrong.