Realistic goals and expectations

It is exactly why. Bone pressed is the medical standard for repeatability and stability of measurement.

It is always nice to here from someone with a very spectrum and not tunnel vision, thank you sir for this realistic post.

Danny, if you do not like the opinions of members here, get the fuck out, or stop threading, this is a forum, GET IT ! Many here know stuff, but what this thread title started “Realistic Goals and Expectations, sounds like you just want to here what you want. These members are entitled to their opinions to not only your thread, but all of them. If you do not like what they posted, so what, they are here to give insight. He gave you a very good post and a realistic on as the title of this thread says. You need to be open minded when threading. Oh!, and respectful.

Most women have not even seen 7.5nbp, its exceedingly rare size. Its a bit unneccessary to put off sex until you have monstersize, try it and see before.

I would be insecure if I were 9 x 7 because that size is simply too much.

Yes man thats very true and its also my experience.
A lot of experienced guys here keep saying that 7.5 nbpel-bpel is the ideal length and i tend to agree. However for me a bigger size is a huge turn on and i am very selfish about that. Of course as i am growing bigger i have noticed that most girls dont like me to go balls deep and hit their cervix, especially when my EQ is high. Although i can still go balls deep with few of them in some positions without problem, but i have to not pound hard.

My goal is to gain as much as i can and i do it for me. As long as you know how to use it the sex can be amazing even if you are bigger than the most preferable size.

Thanks man!

This particular chick I was talking about, I was the second man she had ever been with. She married young and then divorced. Sex with her was amazing, but she was tight as hell! If I didn’t give her oral or finger her and get her really wet, pushing my dick inside of her was surprisingly difficult. I had to work it in gradually, but once it was in and we were bumping and grinding, it was easy.

And the funny thing is, she wanted to have anal sex! I had to tell her, if her pussy is so tight and it takes me a few minutes just to get it in there, how on Earth is she going to handle my dick in her ass? As much as I wanted to, I put a stop to it because I didn’t want to hurt her.

Yeah you can always adapt to any situation. If a guy is really small, there are certain positions and maneuvers to maximize female sensation and pleasure. Same for really big guys.

With my current pumping, the cylinder I have is 9 inches long and has a 2 inch diameter. Once I can pack it completely, I think that will put me around 7.5 NBPEL and at least 6.0-6.25 EG. I think I would be happy with that. If I need any more size, I can always get a larger cylinder.

You’re actually right, I don’t know shit about sex and my experience level is 0. Size is my only issue, that’s all. I’m confident enough to talk to any woman. I’m not the most attractive guy around, but it was never a problem for me to get a girl. I can do everything, but when it comes to the part where I have to pull it out, I have to ‘run’. I just can’t do it, I don’t know..

I didn’t really think about it that much, but that’s certainly a possibility. Maybe I’ll never hit that number, who knows. That would be the worst case scenario for me. Sexless life? I really have no idea at the moment, but I hope I won’t have to go down that road.

Man, relax, please! It was never my intention to offend him, you or anyone else here and I’m really sorry if I did so! Your feedback is highly appreciated.
I just wanted to hear what veterans and big gainers have to say about this. Am I setting myself for failure right at the start or not..
Once again, I apologize.

This is a great post! I enjoyed reading it.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us.

Apology very much accepted. Danny you are not setting yourself for failure, just know PEing is dedication. I am a Vet here. When I started, I was PEing behind closed doors because I did not want my wife to know I was pulling on my cock, so my PEing wasn’t consistent. I found this forum began reading of experiences of others, and that helped me make up my mind of what I needed to do. One day I came home from work and I had a talk with my wife, I told her some women want big tits, I want a big dick. That gave me an Ace in my pocket, because I was not going to PE behind closed doors. I formulated a planned exercise regiment and I started with the Newbie Routine, which is actually a proven exercise. Once I felt conditioned to move on to the more advanced exercised, I began clamping, my wife thought it was weird at first, but she jumped in and started helping me. That was the Ace in my pocket, I now had help. We figure what our exercise would consist of, (notice how I said OUR exercise). We put together a clamping routine, and she really helped. I found that my clamps were cutting me and I could not get the clamp as close to my pelvic bone as I wanted. I came up with an idea to stop the clamps from cutting me. I cut strips of mouse pad and glued them to my clamps, Wow! what a difference, I was able to get the clamp to touch the pelvic bone, and what that does is cause what little fat I had to try to push the clamp off, that caused growth and girth. Pretty cool uh? My wife was very involved in our routine. I did 3 advanced exercises and the last one was intense. I was a very fast gainer and reached my high goal in just a year, but we had a plan. I must say, I never left the Newbie routine but used it as a warm up exercise before my advanced exercises.

What you need to do is condition yourself, during that time, formulate a plan when you are going to start the advanced exercises. Now then, when exercising, weather it be the Newbie or advanced, you must BELIEVE the exercise you are doing is working for you. Also, when you first start, the exercises you pick will be trial and error until you feel that you came up with the plan that is going to work for you. PE is really very simple, but that depends on you. You can achieve anything in life if you believe in yourself and set your mind to achieve.

Regards,
Ron

Take 0.001” and multiply that by how many hours budgeted for PE. Then put your head down and work the plan. If one exceeds that rate, awesome, if less than, possibly make adjustments in routine based on personal experience and advice. This rate is not a hard and fast rule, it’s just to give perspective on the level of investment required.

Some people blow this rate out of the water, at least initially, but eventually it slows down for all of us.

It’s a grind, but we got this!

True, this was the case for me. I have gained 0.5” from 500 hours of extending.

That’s the high end of gaining for extenders, so we’ll done my friend and congrats!

Hey there LE, I have a different take on this, I found this my hard way. Don’t clock in, this is not a job, you are not getting paid for PEing. The PEeris are thiere own boss. Do not time your exercises, I see many members routines and they have 15 minutes here and 15 minutes there, C’mon, this is easy. It is called FEELING, get off the clock and exercise, and when you FEEL you have gotten everything out of that particular exercise move on to the next exercise. This is where I am going with this, 15 minutes may be to much with a certain exercise and another exercise may need more. Too much can plateau you and gains will stop. Feeling is the key. Do not let the clock dictate your exercises, also, do not start exercise at the same time every day, because your body, (cock) will learn the time, it is the same with body building. I started with the clock and learned, the clock is bullshit, it is FEELING. get off the clock and use body FEELING (clock). That is what my wife and I came up with after going to the gym, the trainer told us not to time ourselves but to feel when that exercise was good, move on to the next. I would love to hear your opinion on this. What do you think?

Regards,
Ron