Realistic goals and expectations

Hi everyone,

First of all, I’d like to apologize because there are many threads out there with a similar title and similar questions. I ‘have’ to do this, but I’ll try to keep it as short as possible.

I’m 21 and my measurements at the moment are: 6.3 - 6.5 NBPEL, 7.2 BPEL and 5.7 EG at the middle of my shaft (it’s skinnier at the head and base, unfortunately). My dream size is 9 - 9.5 NBPEL and 7 - 7.5 EG, but anything bigger is certainly better than what I already have. Even if I could go beyond that, I wouldn’t. A real 8x6.5 would also fix all my insecurities.

That’s a long way to go, I know, but I’m willing to do whatever it takes! I want it really bad!

I won’t start my journey anytime soon, unfortunately, but I would like to hear some honest opinions, especially from guys who have more experience in PE. Do you think it’s possible for me to reach my dream size or is that just totally unrealistic? Will 5 -15 years be enough to get there?

I have no idea, I’m new too… But I say shoot for the moon, even if you miss, you’ll land amongst the stars.

There some dudes in here with massive gains, consistency and patience yields results

You’ll be at it for a while. But 10 years will get you a good deal of the way there if you’re consistent and studious about learning and mastering methods.

In my opinion, this is an unrealistic goal, but nothing prevents you from proving otherwise. Just be careful not to get frustrated.

Realistacally unless you have erectile dysfunction the realistic goals are something like this:
1st year of PE - 1 inch BPEL
2-4th year of PE - another inch of BPEL
then gains usually stop, you get more if you do the ligament cut surgery but around 2” BPEL if that is the max for most people.

nbpel gains are usually half of BPEL so realistically you are looking at 0,5” nbpel after one year of PE.

Put a ruler to your penis and look at your dream size compared to your full erection now. See the difference is kind of big, like where would that extra penis come from, that’s how I realized my original goal was unrealistic and set a new goal of 1 inch nbpel. I’m still not there after over a year and I think I done everything there is to do. It’s a long journey but with great effort you can gain 1 inch of nbpel, with extreme effort and extreme time investment (yes 5-10 years) you can gain 2 inches of nbpel but that effort is too much for me.

This really makes me laugh? Shoot for a goal of .25 (1/4), when that is reached, celebrate, and shoot for another .25 and reach that, then reach for another .25. You can keep on, but shoot for small goals because they are quickly achievable. These large goals can lead to disappointment, because visually you can see gains of .25 but not for an inch here and there. The very small goal gains are not only visual, but is in the win column. Think about it. Now then, questions to ask. Are you aware of your surroundings, meaning the women in your life, your current life and the future of your life, are you sure they can take that much during sex? Don’t ruin it for yourself either. Are you wanting large gains for your partner or for your ego? I should have stopped at 7.5 BPEL X 5.5, that, in my opinion is the ideal size, and at that size it proportional and it actually looked bigger than I am now, I hit just over 9.0 BPEL and I dare not measure my EG. I can no longer go balls to the wall during sex to not hit the uterus, I am always on my toes. It took years for my wife to accept my EG since it would rub her vaginal walls raw, then no more sex till that heeled. Blow jogs are not the same, no more deep throat and every once and a while if feel teeth, do you know what a tooth does to an erection? I should have stopped when sex was fun, but I reached my goal and was asked to stop, but I continued, problems to come. Think about it. I documented all of this. I have been here for quite sometime and I have heard it all.

Still an amazing story and definitely something to think about, I think it’s definitely more about what your/our/their partner is capable of accommodating than just straight size.

I have to say I’m jealous you have a partner that you didn’t need to get crazy size to “overwhelm” because honestly I would love to inconvenience my partner with my size lol.

I’m pretty sure my wife would have no issues with larger dimensions, here’s hoping to find out lol

The words of wisdom! That’s really motivational. Thank you very much.

Honestly, this is really important to me and I’ll do everything I can to get there. I know it’s a lot, that would put me on the ‘top performers list’, but I want it really really bad. I’d like to prove that it’s possible.

Damn, I didn’t know all that. That kind of sucks. I mean, if you add an inch, both your BPEL and NBPEL should increase by an inch.wow.
Some people have been able go gain even more than that, so it’s possible, but not everyone can do it, that’s for sure. I’ll try, I have nothing to lose. Our bodies respond differently and results are individual. I just pray to God that I’m not one of those guys who don’t gain anything or gain extremely slowly, even with huge amounts of dedication. I don’t want any surgeries, implants, injections or anything of that nature. It’s just not worth it.
Anyway, thanks for your feedback!

Yes PE definately sucks. The visible gains are very small compared to the effort. It’s because there will be some “false” gains of BPEL from the ligaments stretching allowing the ruler to sink in deeper without any actual gains and a lot of other factors like you will get a “Skinpad” the skin will look a bit strange at the bottom of the shaft and also hide penis making nbpel less. Actually not many people can gain 1 inch of NBPEL, to put thing in perspective a PE legend Kingsnake took several years to go from 8” nbpel to 8.6” nbpel. I wish you the best of luck but if you set an ultimate goal of 1” nbpel it is a lot more realistic and certainly not a bad gain.

Well, first of all, thank you very much for answering! I really appreciate your feedback!
You probably got it wrong, I don’t have that ‘I want it all and I want it now’ mentality. It’s a slow process and what you mentioned above seems like a right thing to do. One small step at the time, that’s what I had in mind. 0.25 gain is actually awesome!
Now let me answer your questions..
I’m still a virgin and the main and only reason for that is my ‘small’ size. No girl has ever seen it in person, but hundreds have seen pictures of it online. I used to mess around on porn sites, dating apps, chat rooms and stuff like that. Honestly, I’ve learned that my situation is not very good, I feel small. I didn’t really count, but there were like 10 of them who told me my dick was small or something like that. Honestly, that really messed me up mentally. I feel way better since I learned about PE. This is my only hope, literally. If I don’t make any gains, I’ll never have sex! I have confidence for all the other things in life, but not for sex, no way! I want to get as big as possible and if I ever reach my dream size, it will be epic. But even if I could go above that, I just wouldn’t. It’s not even tempting at all.
Women in my country are greedy when it comes to dick, trust me. Also, there are guys here who are already massive, like 9+, and they still want more. We all have our different goals and opinions and that’s totally fine. Please, don’t judge me because of this. I’m a bit of a perfectionist and I believe my dream size would be ideal for me. That’s what I believe and I don’t care what anyone else says.
Once again, thank you very much!

I forgot vital information!

This is more or less the real number on penis size:
Less than 5.5” -small
5.7-5.8” - The real avarage
6.05” - start of big 60% of young men are smaller than this size.

Only a small percentage of guys are 7.5” or bigger.
Almost nobody is 8.5” or bigger this is like a tenth of a percent of guys or even less.

All is NBP.

HenrikL has kind of a negative attitude towarda PE but what he’s saying does seem like it could be true, I haven’t made any real gains yet (Only EQ) so i will decide for myself when i next measure I feel HenrikL is wise on the subject just miserable haha, would like to see the “big gainers” views on his theory.

Edit.
Also HenrikL would you consider stretches with kegals for actual penis length growth? Instead of ligament growth or false bpel growth.