Resisting urges to masturbate

So first off I’m very glad that I have these strong urges, where as just a few months ago I didn’t have any sex drive and would simply masturbate because I knew I haven’t done so in a while.

But back to topic… many days I feel the urge to masturbate twice, sometimes three time a day. If I don’t, it feels like I don’t have control over myself, and it especially sucks as a student because it’s very hard to concentrate during class and on homework. I guess this isn’t that big a problem for a teenager like myself, but I find that it hurts my EQ, especially because I don’t always use lubricant and often just do a quick one which can be a little rough on the unit.

Any suggestions?

Use lube and take your time. A single thirty minute edging session is a heck of a lot more satisfying than those quick ones.

But when you just want to cum it’s kind of hard to go slow and last so long.

HA HA — your girlfriend or wife will appreciate the training you’ve put in.

Very good suggestion, but I don’t always have the time or privacy to do this.

Yea, when you hold off ejaculation for 20+ minutes while masturbating, the orgasms are so much more satisfying.

Mind over matter.

Its true - my wife almost always has 2 orgasms before I have one, and she wouldn’t have it any other way. Definitely worth the training. :)

Younger guys can get a bad reputation of being a “minute man” and if you train yourself to come often and quick, that’s what you’ll become!

Or do the opposite and become a legend of staying power.

Alex, I’m a college student living with my best friend in a dorm. I honestly don’t have that much privacy either. I use the shower as a good time, or try to anticipate my room mates schedule to make time for an edging session.

Boonanny is absolutely right! For years as a teenager, I whacked my member as fast as possible. When I got my first girlfriend,the sex we had in the beginning was very,very quick. . It didn’t get better until I eventually got used to having frequent sex. Apply the same concept to masturbation, by prolonging the duration of the masturbation, and avoiding ejaculation.

Hope it helps!

Ok, I am a firm believer that if you jack off as hard and as fast as you can, it will in effect make you last longer. I myself have done this, and when I first started when I was 16 (yes I first masturbated at 16), I found that the sensations were so great that I wanted it all the time. (Like 4-5 times a day and twice before I went to sleep, No bullshit).. I used to jack off as fast and hard as I could and It GREATLY INCREASED MY SEXUAL STAMINA.

Believe what you want, but I think the key is to jack off as fast and as hard as you can, (I’m talking about blistering intensity) you will DESENSITIZE YOUR PENIS AND YOU WILL LAST LONGER. I”VE DONE IT!!
I’m talking about pussy slammin’ bone jammin’ SWEAT LEAKIN’ BED CREAKIN’ SEX. LASTING A LONG TIME. MAYBE I’M ALONE HERE BUT IT WORKED FOR ME. And when I STARTED TO DO EDGING AND KEGALS, IT actually made me want to cum harder QUICKER. For some people edging (tantra) is the key, but for me I GET OFF ON GETTING HER OFF.

I will say that I was able to utilize this technique on everyone but my EX WIFE, for some reason I was so EXCITED by her that I would bust within an hour or so of sex, and I was never enough to satisfy her (she was a size queen).

louielouie I hope your sensation decreased in a good way and not due death grip masturbation!

Actually I think it was directly due to death-grip masturbation.. Lol not to where it would stop my getting an erection or decreasing my desire or damaging the glans (to where erectile dysfunction happened) but yes the death-grip is what de-sensitized me.

I have limited my jerking sessions to just once a day. I dont let myself look at porn or touch myself until after midnight which is usually when I go to bed. Doing this helps EQ alot for when ever I do have sex. Oddly enough it also helps me to last longer.