Trans girl penis size problems

No man, you are wrong. He is not against LGBT people, he is in completely favor of free speech, that is his fight. The thing is people think he is from the right because what he criticize is what left people want, control the speech in all ways and to segregate people in each little box, I know this because I live in Brazil, and we had been with a socialist government since 2002. He is a psychologist specialized in human behavior. You will search on the internet but will never find he positioning himself as a rightwing. He is not a politician. Well, I won’t speak this no more, this is not about the thread topic itself.

But this is, thing is this new generation (me included) can easily fall apart, you got a NO? Depressed, you got some never on your skin? Anxiety. This happens because as Zygmunt Bauman says we live in a modern liquid world where nothing has shape, nobody has shape anymore, we are all liquid, we have no base to sustain our feet, we have no base to sustain ourselves. Base is the most important thing we have, when we don’t this happens. I know because I passed through that and I am, we all need to have family and morals, if we don’t we will fall. We need to stick together with some moral code within ourselves, that is what will make you go through the day and all the negative things we get in life. This is what Peterson wants you to find, and one thing that is very important is to clean your room, because is the most difficult thing you will do, how do you want to fix the world if you can’t even clean the chaos that lies with you everyday? That is what everything is about.

I don’t agree with your characterization of Peterson or what people on the Left want.

I never said he was a politician. I said he is a rightwing thought leader, and he is. He is a public intellectual, widely embraced on the Right, who argues that the Left is undermining "Western civilization." One of the first things that brought him to widespread attention was his opposition to Bill C-16, a bill designed to provide legal protections for trans and non-binary individuals.

This is Velvet’s progress thread, not a political debate thread, so I am also done posting about this. I’ll just leave you with this very smart and funny YouTube video—by a trans lady, no less!—which criticizes some of his rhetoric.

Peterson’s opposition to c-16 was about government forced speech. After watching Wynn’s video, I would actually like to see a discussion between Peterson and Wynn.

As for federicos video, I find it interesting that those who found it offensive weren’t Velvet herself, at least her reply didn’t seem to be.

Having gone through the thread, Velvet was an effeminate male that felt hormone therapy would make things better, but it didn’t.

So my honest question to Velvet is, why not just live as just an effeminate bi? I realize that is a simplistic view as an afterthought, which brings forth a ton of other questions as well.

I wish you well Velvet and hope you find peace in your journey.

When I come across threads that have been derailed, such as this one, that had nothing to do with anybody’s opinions about gender, gender identity, or sexuality, I can’t help but wonder why all these folks feel they were called upon to share their opinions on such matters. Nobody asked you.

I just read beginning but you are hanging good at 7”++ (I am not even near it),my partner is a trans and she cheats on me every chance she gets but I play dumb.. Because I need to get big to keep her can’t blame her either. Also hormones does affect your size as it suppresses your T production. Don’t stress you still got a good size

You shouldn’t put up with someone cheating on you. Penis size is not a good justification for cheating either. Find someone who appreciates you as you are.

+1

My god, there is a tranny with the same sized cock as me! As if that isn’t bad enough, they are worried that it’s too small! It only gets worse. I jokingly said to myself when I opened this thread, “wouldn’t it be funny if they had a bigger or same sized cock as me and were insecure about it!” Then it turns out they actually do, haha. I knew I shouldn’t have clicked this thread. Edit: Okay, didn’t read the updated length and girth measurements, no need to worry.

Edit: I think this might be a troll.

BC,

The original poster is a transgender. Please use appropriate terminology moving forward and show some respect to the OP.

Also, obviously transgenders who are male to female like all of us will have all different size cocks. They are human and some might like their cocks, some might even want them bigger and some might wish they did not have a penis at all.

While your intent might not have been to be offensive or disrespectful, I believe for some it could have come off that way or did.

Be more considerate in the future.

Yes, I wrote that post in haste and it came off wrong. It adds nothing of value, I would delete it if I could. This is a very unusual circumstance though so forgive my skepticism.

I know it’s been a while kinda. I don’t really mind that word by the way. I’m not like really picky about the terminology people use but I appreciate people sticking up for me. Not a lot has changed unfortunately. I did have a kinda good day where I measured in at 16cm / 6.3in erect NBP and 18cm / 7.1in erect BP. I think it might’ve just been a fluke though. Circumference still seems to be 11.5cm / 4.5in but I haven’t officially measured it since. Granted, I haven’t done much beyond still being off the hormones and jelqing occasionally when showering but that’s mostly because I found the routines too difficult and I can’t really stretch my penis anymore like I used to be able to, even when flaccid. It barely stretches. I also still have a problem with it being hard when it’s flaccid and I have pain sometimes.

It’s starting to feel pretty hopeless for me and it’s really soul crushing. Still, I want to say thanks for the help and support. So thank you.

Also, editing this in, but apologies for not directly replying to everyone. Please forgive me. I’m just really exhausted and don’t want to make those massive wall-like posts I was doing initially.

Hey Velvet,

Glad you checked in as I read this thread, was worried (for you) by some of your choice of phrases and having your quest for help taken over by political debate isn’t the best.

It sounds like the reduction is halting and hope you can take that as a small positive.

Have you sought any help over the depression? I am just coming out of a phase of treatment and it has helped me immensely. Even if you don’t want medication, I had some Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and what this can do for you is impressive. I can PM you about materials if that helps.

Have you considered the pumping option as there is a lot here about it on the forum, it’s not expensive and maybe the visual effect of the improvement might help you with how you feel about how your body looks. As body appearance is part of what is troubling you, I can tell you the look of what you actually have (and can eventually cement) in that tube is a big emotional boost!

Keep in touch here as the commute awesome and if anyone gives you any trouble or hard time I know the Mods will be all over it!

Hame

Hey Hame,

Thank you and sorry for worrying you. I have gotten insurance again finally somewhat recently but I haven’t taken advantage of it, because I’m a dummy I guess. For whatever reason I have a fear of going in and talking about what’s going on with me, even though I’ve talked about similar things with the doctors I used to have before moving. You’re welcome to PM me if you’d like.

I have considered pumping, though I am somewhat afraid of it and I am very limited financially currently.

Also, I did decide to jelq and measure again yesterday when I showered and I was once again 16cm / 6.3in NBP so maybe it wasn’t a fluke. Erect BP was only 17.5cm / 6.9 in compared to the 18cm / 7.1in from the best measurement I had. I’m not sure why there was no difference in the NBP length yet a difference in the erect BP length, but I think I’m too pleased with it being bigger at all that I’m not too worried about it currently. I also decided to actually try to account for the upward curve for a change and tried bending the ruler along it which had me at about 17cm NBP length. I didn’t wanna go for an erect BP measurement because it was difficult enough to try to stay hard while also trying to bend the ruler along the curve. I was kinda surprised it was only around a 1cm gain for the curve because going straight across the top it seems like the deepest point of the curve is about 1.5cm.

Anyway, thank you again for the support and for caring about what’s going on with me. I really appreciate it.

No worries. I’m just rallying from a mental health slump and it’s surprising what it can do to you, so glad to hear you’re on an upswing.

Yeah curves and geometry are weird things but you have good size from all the data posted here.

Talking to a doctor about your inner feelings about yourself are hard because you have no idea how they will react. Are there any online or localised trans community groups that might be able to recommend a professional who has good understanding or who is know to work with trans issues?

Take care

I, too am rallying from a mental health slump and encourage you to reach out for help.

For the upward curve I recommend measuring with tailor’s tape instead of a ruler. I know the standard is a hard ruler, but that’s never made sense to me. I’m already measuring the short side; I’d like to count the whole length. Mentally, I add .25” for my fairly strong curve. Late in the game, I’ve also found bone-pressed flaccid stretched length to be a nice confirmation of that estimate (i.e., my last best measurement was .25” longer than my best BPEL measurement). I know you said you had some trouble stretching, but I hope that’s helpful.