Hey all, been a Thunder’s member for a long while now, unfortunately I’m experiencing a new, sustained problem in my life and it is really starting to affect my confidence and happiness. For the past year, my sex drive has been in noticeable decline, I’ve gone from jerking off 4-5 times per week to once a week, and I have to kind of work myself to do it. My erections are weak, I wake up morning after morning, not even able to conjure up decent wood. I rarely find myself dreaming about pussy, a year ago I couldn’t stop thinking about it.The funny thing is I’m only 30 years old, I look like I’m 25, and physically (muscular and cardio) in the best shape of my life. I mean I’m a lean 175 lbs, a lot of muscle. I look good with my shirt off, but I feel anything but a man, I look at women with half interest, and it is hard to excite myself up to get an erection. I was a little concerned months ago but I thought I was pushing myself too hard in the gym, or that my immune system was compromised somehow. Now, I’m very confused. I eat healthy, trying to get a balance of low fat, quality carbs and protein, and I exercise 4-5 days a week. I also get at least 7+ hours of sleep every night, but I always feel tired. You’d think my hormone levels would be off the charts, but they have tanked. I’m not sure what to do, and I’m starting to feel real shitty about it. I really want the drive back and get into a fun relationship, but if you don’t have a sex drive or very weak one like me, there is no motivating factor, and I will tell you life is becoming very stale very quickly, especially at age 30. Has anyone gone through this, at this young of an age, and found out what the problem was? Anyone have any solutions? I’m really unhappy with myself right now, a pathetic excuse for a man.
Bi-Sexual / Gay ?
