I somehow doubt miltonic is gay. He describes an overall lack of sex drive, after all - it does not appear to be “event” specific.
I think his issues are more likely stress and anxiety related. Interesting that the introduction of a multi-vitamin seemed to perk him up a bit.
I would like to ask what no one else has asked: what was the PE routine? When you got to 7.5” NPB, what had you been doing? What are you doing now?
Generally speaking the women who don’t give a second chance if a sexual encounter doesn’t live up to their fantasy are pretty shallow. Unless they aren’t giving you a second chance for something totally unrelated - like bad breath or (perhaps) another guy or something. My only point with this is: you have no way of knowing why they gave you the first chance and why they decided not go for a second time. I wouldn’t put all of that burden on my Johnson if I were you. It could be any number of things. Truly.
If you do blame your Johnson, then it stands to reason that you’ll be anxious the next time you have to use it. So give yourself a break on that front. Honestly. You deserve to cut yourself some slack.
My guess is there is something out of balance that is affecting your overall energy level and that is, secondarily, degrading your sex drive.
What do you do to relax? Don’t forget I asked you include your PE routine as well.
In fact, a break-down of an average week in your life, with all the exercise, stress of work, PE, and social life might be a good thing to inventory. Do you get enough sleep? Etc.
Keep us posted. I’m sure this can be turned around.
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God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time. - Robin Williams (: