No Worries Man..
Funny story I’ll share about this.
I’ve tried to talk about sex toys and using them with my wife but she’s not into it and really wanted no part of toys at all. Few months ago I surprised her and put on a cock ring during sex and she was like wtf are you doing and I told her just trying something new and I’ve read reviews on amazon and most people like them. So we tried it and my cock was a bit harder but honestly sex was basically no different and she said the same and that it was a waste of time & money.
She actually ended up throwing them out recently she told me lol.
Well we usually have sex on the weekend and last Saturday I got the sleeve so of course I want to try it on immediately to make sure I’m not fumbling around later that night when I try to use it. She of course has no idea about any of this. Mistake on my part I find out. But anyway I try it on and figure out the technique since there’s a strap that your balls go thru that’s a real pain to get on but once it’s on it really locks it in place and doesn’t move at all. Guys who have a 8.5 x 6.5 are truly blessed as this thing looks & feels amazing.
So that night we start getting into it and I massaged her for while and get her really loosen up for sex and she was ready to go. We start out with me on top and she was already wet and couldn’t wait to fuck. After couple of minutes I stop and normally about midway I would get a condom on and we would switch and do different positions. I used this break to put on the sleeve. I knew it would be risky to not say anything about it so I tell her I got a fun condom to try tonight. She’s now thinking wtf did he get now.
To get into the sleeve with an erect penis is pretty tight so you need to lube it inside to fit into it. These designed to work while your erect so getting it on at first is tricky. It makes a loud suction noise when you put it on and she’s like WTF was that. I say it’s nothing just a fun condom and I get back in bed ready to hoping to stick it in her but she looks down and grabs my cock and flips out. YOUR NOT PUTTING THAT THING IN ME. Take it off now she says..
At this point I knew I was fucked. She was so pissed. I took if off and we fucked doggy and we both came.
We went to bed and she said were gonna talk about this in the morning.
I was pissed cause I know her and can tell when she’s mad and knew my chances of using it are done.
The next day we spoke about it briefly at various times but never really sat down to talk about it.
It was mostly like you said Abdiel. She was mostly making jokes about it and making me feel like I’m not enough.
Made a comment, I feel like your bringing in someone else to fuck me. You wanna fuck me with another dick.
Why do you think I need a big cock ? She had alot of jokes. I told her I don’t care I just want you to enjoy it and have a great time. She asked what about you what are you gonna feel and I told her there’s numbs on the inside for me.
She kept saying its ridiculous and basically gave me the impression that there was no chance I would get to use it.
Most reviews I’ve read online state the guy won’t feel much but it’s exciting to hear your partner make noises and screams of pleasure like never before. That alone would be a huge turn on for me. Worst case I can always take it off afterwards and finish off with her.
Anyhow all day long Sunday she joked about it and asked what are you gonna do with it now. I said its no big deal and it was cheap anyway so it doesn’t matter.
Later that night she asked me what I wanna do on Wednesday since it’s my birthday. My wife loves getting massages so I’m like hmm why don’t we go get some massages together and pamper ourselves for the day. She gets all excited and say’s that great but what about you, are you sure. I’m like absolutely. Out of nowhere she says you wanna try your new toy afterwards. I was shocked!. But also thinking to myself GAME ON :)
So now my thought is she’s curious as hell to see what it’s gonna feel like. When we first started dating I got her to have an vaginal orgasm once in a NYC hotel on new years eve. We were both drunk and we fucked like animals and she was making all sorts of noises I’m sure everyone on the floor heard us. That morning was a repeat and she had another one.
It has been the only times I got her to have vaginal orgasms. All other orgasm’s needed clit stimulation to get her off.
I also used Viagra that night and honestly felt full and pumped.
We met in our late 20’s so she’s already been with alot of guys before me and claimed I was the only one ever to do that.
Except for one other time. Here’s what we all fear hearing. She had one bf when she was 19 who she claims had the biggest cock she’s ever had. She said he was huge. 9”. Well that’s the only other time she’s had a orgasm from sex only.
So here we are it’s Monday and I can’t wait. 2 more days :)
I’ll be posting reviews for sure but if anyone has already tried one I would love to hear their experience with it.
(01-12-2005) BP 6.375x 5.2, (03-18-2005) BP 7.125x5.5
(11/2017) BP 6.7x5.5, (7/10/2022) BP 7.25x5.7
*** UPDATED (7/31/2022) BP 7.5x5.8 ***