Wife doesn't want me to PE, or doesn't want me to be a person who would PE

I wanted to post in the Main Members Forum, but apparently I haven’t been around long enough.

Anyway, I wonder whether anyone has had an experience similar to mine with his wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever.

My wife knows that I do PE, but she’s not particularly keen on the idea. I’ve gained pretty significantly over the course of almost a year, and I know it’s obvious to her. Every time the subject comes up, she says that she wishes I didn’t do it, but when I tell her that I’ll quit if she wants me to, she never says that I should. I’m getting the sense that she doesn’t like the idea that I’m someone who would worry about the size of my dick, but she doesn’t mind the fact that my dick is quite clearly getting larger. On the other hand, it could be that she just doesn’t want to boss me. Has anyone else had this sort of experience? If so, how do you think about it?

Thanks.

When I first met my not-yet wife I was running 6-9 miles daily and probably at my best physically. As my time became more involved with her my exercise decreased, my waist increased, and I felt and looked less than optimal in a few short weeks. A co-worker said to me, “Dude, she’s fattening you up to be less attractive to other women.” I’ve read somewhere that the reason we want to be more attractive either through exercise OR PE is not necessarily for our spouses/sig others pleasure, but to be more appealing to more women potentially whether we would act on that or not. I’ve been doing the PE only since the start of Oct and have made great gains but have been away from the wife since early Sep and won’t be able to see her until the earliest Apr or maybe not until next Sep. I’ve lost 25 lbs and gained crazy length (call it newbie gains if you will) but my guess is the spouse might feel threatened by the possibility of infidelity. God knows the temptation is there but I’m not the cheating kind of guy-despite the distance. Does that make sense to you?

My wife didn’t want me to PE when I told her about it. She claimed she wouldn’t have sex with me if it got any bigger, and I told her to deal with it and that if she does not give me sex then I shall find it elsewhere. Too easy buddy.

I suppose that does make sense. From her point of view, if I’m doing it in spite of the fact that she’s told me she doesn’t want me to, then I must be doing it for some other reason. It’s obviously a sexual thing in some way, so maybe I’m doing it for the purposes of sex with someone else. The only problem is that she’s anything but a jealous or insecure person (at least when it comes to our relationship). I’m sure she knows that I would never cheat on her (and she’s right). Maybe it’s a precognitive fear. In any case, you make a good point. Thanks for the response.

Hey man you should do PE because you enjoy doing it, have you ever told her the benefits of PE? After a while my wife noticed my erections are a whole lot stronger, and she actually tells me to do PE all the time. She did not like it at first, but hey who cares what she likes this is my tool and I shall do with it as I please, but now she encourages me to do it, tells me to go watch porn and do PE. :) Thats your tool man, do with it as you see fit.

She sounds like another controlling female but I doubt that’s the case michaelbaldwin. Just list off the benefits of PE to her and let her know that you do it to feel better about yourself. After all, she is your wife therefore she should respect your feelings. I would assume you do the same for her.

You most likely would. A fair amount of alcohol could make you cheat on her even with your male mates. :D

As for PE, many do that not for girls but because they want to compete with other males. It is scientifically proven that to a male it’s most important to be respected by other males first, being popular amongst women comes second in his mind.

It may be something to do with the ‘It’s not a nice subject to talk about’ feeling.

Rather like she wouldd’t want you to tell people you had sex last night. Best thing is just to get on with it as quietly as possible.

How about you just ask her what she really thinks, instead of asking about a randoms who know nothing about your situation. :P

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My wife didn’t want me to PE when I told her about it. She claimed she wouldn’t have sex with me if it got any bigger, and I told her to deal with it and that if she does not give me sex then I shall find it elsewhere. Too easy buddy.

Yes, just change the wife or girlfriend. Do not let a woman make you who you are.

It’s all about control and fear, if you give in your pussy whipped for life and guess what she loses all respect for you and you become unattractive in her eyes. She is afraid if you get bigger your going to want to test your new tool on others. Don’t fall for the it hurts routine either because unless your already big or she has a smaller than normal pussy it doesn’t hurt. The pussy will adapt faster than you can ever gain size. Stand up for yourself and she will respect you in the long run for it. After all who’s dick is it?

In your wife’s case I think she just doesn’t want you to know that she really likes you new bigger dick and she would like it even bigger, she won’t even admit it to her self. So she can’t willingly support you new hobby, but is at least willing to turn a blind eye and reap the benefits.

Let your wife know that you are doing PE for the already mentioned benefits and not for some insecurities. Women don’t like insecure guys!

It might also be the spent. To do it properly could be a couple hours a day.

Dino is right. Listen to him.

My girlfriend thinks I have an ideally sized dick and she loves it. I’m quite sure she does mean it, she’s not saying that just to make me feel better or boost my ego. I think she wouldn’t be too happy to hear I’m doing PE because large penises reject her, literally. Also, she would be probably scared that I’ll hurt myself. However, I think she won’t complain if I grow 1”-1.5” in length and 0.5” in girth. Also, the harder it is, the better. :)

Btw, congratulations on your gains, you’ve gained 1.5” x 0.5” in 10 months. That’s around total gains I aim for (1.54” x 0.59 from start to finish, to be more precise). Care to share your routine with us? I’d appreciate it very much. :)