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A girl's opinion on size

Originally Posted by DiamondWinds
Unless she is really good at eying measurements or had a ruler handy to be sure she’s not going to know the difference in a couple of inches one way or the other.

No we don’t have measuring down to a science just eying it. Even so we still get asked what size is the best.

Well some do. When me and my girlfriend first had this conversation I asked her about how she knew the size and she proceeded to tell me the length of her hand from the base to the tip of her middle finger.

Originally Posted by Redwood1981
I agree that a girl may not notice a difference of 1” length, but I think a 6” compared to an 8” is alot of difference. Or a 5” to a 7”, again, a world of difference.

Girth I think makes a huge difference, and even a +/- 1/2” will be noticed. I was always over 5” girth, and every girl I’ve been with has been quite vocal, I thought this to be more just them doing this to turn me on, but now that I’m closer to 5.5” girth they are getting even louder. Some girls are a tight sqeeze and the look on their face when I enter them is priceless.
I can’t wait to be 6”+ girth! >:-) (Bring on the lube, I’m gonna need it!)

Redwood,

I think this shows how accurate you are about just 1/2” g can make quite a difference: When I was 4 1/2” g mid and 4 3/4” g base I didn’t get vocals. I thought it was due to my length of 6 1/4 bp, as I was blind to the worth of girth for many years. I’ve only gained a 1/4” g overall while gaining 1” el, but I’m determined to not take a chance on my gains and this is why I continue to concentrate on length first. I’m going for long and then strong. Hopefully at least some girth will naturally continue to come with the length gains. I envy the sounds you are getting, but at the same time am very happy for you.

I think these discussions about size preferences (which we’ve all been guilty of) presume a generic, 1-size vagina among the world’s 3+ billion women. No doubt, some women would experience pain with 7.5 x 5.7 or so, while other vaginas would easily swallow 8+ x 6+ (and want more).

I don’t doubt there are size queens who’d LOVE a 9+ x 7+, but such a cock would probably exclude you from a lot of pussy from terrified gals.

I think the key issue is what size YOU prefer to have….feel comfortable about yourself, don’t keep worrying what millions of women might think (who’d never even see your cock in 20 lifetimes).

I will say this, of my own experience, I was 6.5 x 5.25 in my youth. When I hit age 37, I found that I was only 6.12 x 5.2. Now, I’m hitting 7.75 x 6.1+ (a significant increase). While sex is more intense, there are no more quickies. And the wife began insisting on lube: no K-Y, no pussy. For her, my unit is big (“too big,” she now says). But I have no illusions. Many women could easily handle that, and then some.

Unless you’re going for a world record (which means you have a realistic shot at 13.5+), there’s no need to worry what everybody else has.

Originally Posted by richard111

My girlfriend can’t handle me without alot of lub, so but careful what you wish for, plus on that note, unless you find a pornstar, you have zero chance of experiencing anal sex when you do PE.

But in saying that, there is alot more to big penises than just sex. Size looks incredible, I go to the swimming pool just to change in front of men and gloat.

It is enough to feel Alpha male all day when you see the tears in their eyes.

Having a big dick is like have a secret confident friend, nobody can disturb your zone when you know what you got packed away. My boss used to look down on me until he caught a look at it in the toilets. Soon the office heard about the new guy and the girls.SWEET

What’s your stats?


Aha

I have to agree with DiamondWinds on this, unless they really have a size fetish and have a ruler and inch tape handy, women really can’t tell the size of a penis. Either can guys for that matter.

There are so many posts on this forum “guess my size” where most of the responses are incorrect. Some quote too big, others too small. That is all of us educated penis watchers.

I know one woman that believes that the average size of a man is 9 inches.
9inches!

When I asked her to show me how big, she held out her hands in a “hang loose, hang ten” fashion and said, “This!” Her small hands measured only about 5.5 inches.

My girl sometimes says that I am 6, 7, or 8. She used to say 6 because the people at her workplace said, ” a man is not a man until he is at least 6 inches.” This would put the common average at less than 6 I guess. If 6 is the yard stick of a super being. (Wow, how’s that for an ego boost). When I explained that 6 is average, she said, “oh, well you must be 7 or 8 then, but don’t show off, you aren’t 9.” She thinks I’m huge .. I am thoroughly average. She doesn’t like the whole thing inside either.

I’ve got this homemade vid of a size queen that measures her husband. He ends up being 7”. “No, way,” she says “I thought it was bigger than that.”

The guy from BangBros looks to be anywhere from 9 - 11 inches, in fact he’s 7 3/4” or less.

Another example:
The other day I had to take a HUGE DUMP! I couldn’t get it out. It was like blue steel or something. I did tear the sphincter and was sore for a few days. I’m thinking that this turd I’m giving birth to must be massive. It’s got to be like 6” around and 10” long. I was struggling for a good long time. The pain was great enough that I had to “pull it back” a few times and rest. Finally done, I look in the bowl .. Only to find a small little turd that was no where near what I was imagining.

So again, unless they have a measuring tape handy they, and we, can’t tell the size.

Originally Posted by DiamondWinds
Kawaihae of course size matters to women. Usually though it’s not a big problem we run into very much. It’s not like there are 1000 sizes to choose from. There is not that much of a difference in size variation from one man to the next.

From 6 to7 to 8 is a whole 1 inch to 2 inch difference. How much better can an inch possibly feel?
Well I guess it feels about an inch better. Not all the difference in the world

How many women do you know that are like..

“OK buddy I only like 8 inch cocks. Sorry but you are 1/2 of an inch off. How can I tell just by looking you say? I have trained my vision as to be able to spot a perfect 8. I can tell even when your flaccid if you will reach exactly 8 inches when hard.”

Actually we have no idea what-so-ever the difference in 7 or 8 inches just guesstimating. If we were not pressed to pick a fave between 7 or 8 inches it wouldn’t matter at all. ;)

You’d be surprised a girl I never had sex with that I was talking to was very stupid. She was Honduran and said she only fucks black men. She asked me my size I said 7x5 she texted me back stating that’s kind of small. She never saw my dick but for size comparison to an object I’d say it’s the length of a little over a large soft drink from MC Donald’s. Not the supersized cup the one before that. I wouldn’t think of something like that as small am I wrong?

You need more fiber :)


Short-Term Goal: 10.25" BPEL

"Take it Slow and Watch it Grow"

Long-Term Goal: To Be Decided

Originally Posted by Yoyototo
You need more fiber :)

Damn with a short term goal like that I better start eating fiber ha ha ha!
What was your starting I’d say my starting was close to seven I gained a few centi and I’m at 7 now.

Originally Posted by MichaelCorleone
You’d be surprised a girl I never had sex with that I was talking to was very stupid. She was Honduran and said she only fucks black men. She asked me my size I said 7x5 she texted me back stating that’s kind of small. She never saw my dick but for size comparison to an object I’d say it’s the length of a little over a large soft drink from MC Donald’s. Not the supersized cup the one before that. I wouldn’t think of something like that as small am I wrong?

I love girl and I don’t have any thing against them, but some girls can be really called stupid, like some man.
So you’ll gonna see and hear some really stupid things. For example my girls from school sad some stupid shit.
I asked them like what length did you like or what do you think is good?! And they sad 20cm, LOL! They say like that not bad,
It’s OK?! It’s OK, I think 20cm is great!! And the best part is that I don’t think they had a cock in them! I know only for one girl 100% and her boy friend is my friend and his got 16cm, so not 20cm. Do you get my point?

Believe me I definitely hear what your saying. It just chips your ego to hear things like that.

But that’s the right attitude to cast them off as idiotic.

Starting was around 7.5 NBPEL a few years back during the start of high school.
I had one particular experience that gave me the insights I have now.
I was sitting in my friend’s dorm room. In this conversation it was myself, my suite mate, and two girls.
I don’t know how the topic came to it but I say “Size matters definitely.” Both girls immediately respond with “No it doesn’t!!” They started spouting all this info about how the vagina has most nerves within the first two inches and all this other stuff. I wasn’t really listening because one had a nice set ta-tas. So I fold and said, “Whatever, like I care.”

While later same conversation except girl #2 (nice ta-tas) is gone. I say “Size doesn’t matter.” She responds “Yes it does!” and goes off into a story about a ex-boyfriend I once again zone out because she has okay boobs.

So the moral of the story
1. I’m easily distracted
2. Size does/doesn’t matter

I think the whole question is wrongly put forth. Something along the lines of “When does size matter?”
In that case I find the answers to be a tad more easily defined.


Short-Term Goal: 10.25" BPEL

"Take it Slow and Watch it Grow"

Long-Term Goal: To Be Decided

Originally Posted by MichaelCorleone

You’d be surprised a girl I never had sex with that I was talking to was very stupid. She was Honduran and said she only fucks black men. She asked me my size I said 7x5 she texted me back stating that’s kind of small. She never saw my dick but for size comparison to an object I’d say it’s the length of a little over a large soft drink from MC Donald’s. Not the supersized cup the one before that. I wouldn’t think of something like that as small am I wrong?

Statistically 7 inches is large. Out of 100 random guys 90 have a shorter dick than that.

Originally Posted by Yoyototo
Starting was around 7.5 NBPEL a few years back during the start of high school.
I had one particular experience that gave me the insights I have now.
I was sitting in my friend’s dorm room. In this conversation it was myself, my suite mate, and two girls.
I don’t know how the topic came to it but I say “Size matters definitely.” Both girls immediately respond with “No it doesn’t!” They started spouting all this info about how the vagina has most nerves within the first two inches and all this other stuff. I wasn’t really listening because one had a nice set ta-tas. So I fold and said, “Whatever, like I care.”

While later same conversation except girl #2 (nice ta-tas) is gone. I say “Size doesn’t matter.” She responds “Yes it does!” and goes off into a story about a ex-boyfriend I once again zone out because she has okay boobs.

So the moral of the story
1. I’m easily distracted
2. Size does/doesn’t matter

I think the whole question is wrongly put forth. Something along the lines of “When does size matter?”
In that case I find the answers to be a tad more easily defined.


I think the moral is that only ta-tas matter :)

Hey Vurpollon, that’s the best stat I have seen in like forever. You made my day dude.

Originally Posted by DiamondWinds
Hyyprr I don’t think you were accusing her of anything. Basically jackleg is right on in his thoughts on how women determine size. Dildo’s and just taking the guys word for it. Thats what I was also relating in my post.

All of you are correct about women not knowing sizes accurately. I have yet to get out a ruler to determine the exact size of any man. I never even measured a dildo either to see if it actually was a certain length. I just figured it was whatever size the box said it was. If a guy tells me he’s 7 or 8 then thats what I believed from then on.

Unless your just obviously exaggerating you could tell her your almost any size and she would never doubt you. Women usually are not going to be concerned with the specifics of size like men are.

Men want to know what size we like best. So you will often get an answer like hyyprr’s gal gave. She probably won’t answer your question with an exact size she prefers. More likely will give you a range of anywhere from 6 to 10.

My GF has been with 4 guys, she told me flat out, she measured all of them, with the last guy being almost 9”. She measured from the bottom side with a tape though.

I just responded with, OK, I get to measure you’re tits!

The number she always throws out is “10 inches would be nice”, I guess thats from all the romance novels, shows etc. Where the guy’s brag about being 10 inches. She’s in love with some of these fantasy guys

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