Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

I thought about this last night after sex with my wife.

She has never shown any reaction to the difference in my dick in the 9 months since I`ve been here.

I`ve grown a full inch in length and my EQ has vastly improved (which she loves) yet she makes no comment whatsoever, yet I persist.

What am I doing all this pulling, stretching and clamping for, if not for her..

I have to conclude that my desire to have a bigger dick is for me, and not to prove some greater pleasure for a woman (in this case, my wife)

This line of thinking could be seen as mildly misogynistic, but one has to think back to most times when we strive to please a woman in some way that we think is correct, only to find that she was thinking something entirely different.

Frankly, my wife would probably rather the housework would get done magically before she got home, and that we could take a vacation in the south of france, long before she wished I had a bigger dick!

So yeah, I do PE for me, so that I feel bigger in that way specific only to a man.

And I`m glad it`s all working out so well.

Pretty soon I`ll have to set new goals.

In my case, if my wife found I was spending any time on this she would no doubt say “Stop wasting time playing with yourself and go mow the grass, paint the house, clean out the garage, wax my car, etc”.

As I have gained I find sex is more enjoyable for me. If it is better for her too, great, but basically I do it for myself.

I´m doing PE both for me and for all the future ladies who would taste my little friend. ;)

My girl is happy with my dick now and she was happy before I started PE.

I think I do it for myself and for any women in the future in case things don’t work out with my current girlfriend.

>>> I´m doing PE both for me and for all the future ladies who would taste my little friend.

LOL! I do it for me! My wife never touches my dick! So I’m in agreement with avantasia’s comment above!

lol :)

Both! She and I would love for me to be thicker and longer. Everyone will appreciate me getting bigger.

mmm but I think that there is a limit,I mean, 9!! 6.75!!!OMG my girl pussy would explode with that cannon lol.

You’d be surprised. Never had any serious issues with a woman.

Both, of course. No better feeling than filling up my girlfriend more than before. :) I also think it’s going to be a great feeling walking into a room and knowing that I’m packing more meat than at least 90% of guys in there. At least I hope I’ll be in the 90th percentile with 7.5”x5.75”. :)

For me it is both of us. My girl has never requested a bigger dick. I’d probably go nuts if she said that! I’ve dreamed up in my head that she wants more. I’m sure she’d think I’m nuts if she saw my PE equipment. I once brought up dick size and whether I was impressive enough for her and she was like “are you fucking nuts? I’m thinking of spending the rest of my life with you and you’re worried about the size of your dick?”. Probably in real life women don’t care so much about it as we do but nevertheless I still stretch, pump and clamp…for both of us.

:sheepdo:

My flaccid kills my confidence so it’s mostly for me. I want to have a really big dick well because every other part of my body is big but my dick doesn’t look that big compared to the rest of my body. Who cares if it’s big erect if flaccid it’s still small. But if I had a 8NBP x 6.5” erect dick I wouldn’t care about my flaccid but until then I won’t be satisfied. It’s 75% for me and 25% for the ladies.

Unless you gave any reason to your gf to suspect something’s going on, if she ever noticed a change she’s probably convinced it goes to her credit, being capable of arousing you more than ever.

Considering how much mystery surrounds PE, how could she suspect you’re actually growing your penis?
Imagine that your gf’s breasts grow little by little over the next year: would you think she’s exercising them?
Moreover, penis size relies so much upon external variables, such as excitement, EQ or so.

I always considered your posts interesting - we’re on a forum devoted to PE, and your size is far more than anyone could ever dream of. But, actually, it’s far more than anyone would ever dream of. If there’s ‘huge’, you passed it a long ago.

This said, and I know this could sound harsh, it’s getting more and more difficult for me to believe everything you say.
Not for what you say about your wife’s incredible capacity, because incredible it is, but for your opinion about other women.

You say:

That’s sincerely hard to believe. I had sex with only a few women, and even if two of them openly declared to consider very important a big size, I had problem with a fair share of them (included one of the self-called size queens, and even on a long-term relationship).
I’m 7” EL on my best.

I remember you often inviting users to grow more and more, explaining that there’s no such thing as ‘too much’, and that women will get accustomed and forever grateful.
While I respect your opinion, I really don’t understand how you can say that.
I think it’s safe to acknowledge that not even most pornstars, women payed to stuff daily their vagina with the biggest items possible, are capable of fitting Mandingo and less endowed men.

Please believe me, on one hand I REALLY like to believe your right. Like probably many users here, I’d like to be super-endowed only to live with a size queen, so I’d love you be right.
On the other hand, I suspect your perspective actively contributes to distort our perception of reality.

Oh, about me: I’ve always known that I do PE for myself.
My gs already has some problems in taking me balls deep, but I must confess I’m a little selfish about this: since I know it’s painful for her but not (yet) unbearably painful, I just love the look in her face when I shove it in.
I love her saying “not so deep, please, it hurts”. And to some extent I love when she says she can’t have sex again, because she’s sore.

So for me it’s a tricky game; I’m still growing because I love all that.
But I know I’m dangerously approaching the limit where the pain just gets too much, and I know that from that on I’ll lose the greatest pleasure - being completely inside her.