Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

a-unti,

Stick to the PE related topic and leave your opinion on the size of Ferrari drivers’ cocks out of it.

Is it cause I said sux instead of sucks? Sorry.

I am doing it for me.. and maybe some of the lucky men out there.. lol

I think ultimately dick comparison competitions are almost exclusively monopolised by men. The motivation men feel to compete with each other is really the driving factor behind all of this.

Just look how many threads there are about being the biggest she’s ever had, her ex’s sizes etc etc.

As men, we care far more about an inch here and there than she does. I also think that with so much emphasis it becomes difficult to see that most women will have difficulty telling two somewhat different sizes apart, especially the further separated in time they are! If you are slowly growing, even if you get an inch in a year, if she doesn’t know about it she probably won’t even be able to tell, fuck to fuck. Cumulatively, she’ll probably notice but whether or not the reason for that is good or bad probably depends more on her personality than vaginal specifications.

I see guys getting worked up because Titleist is talking about never having a problem fitting his massive wang into a lady. My understanding is he started at 7.75”x6.5”. I can believe he’s come up against relatively deep ladies only through some statistical fluke especially given that <8” in length generally is only borderline useless length territory for most women. In this regard he’s simply sitting a little off center of the bell curve. In terms of girth, well, I have a dildo that is 6.5” around and doubtless more solid than a real erection. My woman has no problem accepting this besides the fact that it fills her up pretty well. She doesn’t specifically prefer it (in fact, I’m the one that asks her to use it! She never asks for it or even hints)

His overall experience may not match the larger picture of reality but then again, who’s does? I’m sure there are women out there who could handle my entire length and ask for more, but in my limited experience my lady can’t get all the way simply because she isn’t deep enough. I’m also sure there are women who would scoff at my girth and some who I would have trouble getting into, but for my lady again, it seems to be about the right kind of thickness because she’s used to it. Would she notice any more length? Impossible. More girth? Maybe, if it was significant enough (1/4”+). Would she prefer it? I don’t really think so, to be brutally honest with myself.

Having said this - how can I deny that PE is really all about me and not much to do with her? After all, I said she can’t even handle the current length, yet I wouldn’t deny I’d like more. She also has no problem with the girth, and I know she can take up to 8” around at a stretch. Does she like to be fucked by that size? Not really!

I do PE foremost for myself but also for my wife and our sexual life. As some may have read, I am open to my wife doing PE but I am not doing it because she ever complained about my size. But I must admit that during younger years, I didn’t have the best confidence in bed because of fear being small. Still that nags in me and is one of the reasons hanging around here.

Of course I know she wants to try larger sizes (don’t all women?) and that’s why there are dildos. I have told her that it is perfectly ok to have fantasies about it and also to try and I just love to help her with that. We have a set of dildos and even one with pump to grow to crazy big if she would like to (is without pumping 5.9” in girth and can grow to 10”!!!).

We discuss PE from time to time and she told me to rather focus on girth than length as I nowadays bottom her out and that hurts a bit when I go ball-deep (must admit I love her saying: “Go easy, ah not that deep and hard”). On girth, she could probably take 7” without a problem so I see no reason to ever stop that project ;) .

I thought so too. After having sex last night, I asked her what she would pick and she answered: “No way I would choose the household magically get done and the south of France over a really girthy horny dick!”.

Ha! I was so wrong. Women, I will never understand them … :)

Back to PE and clamp exercises, it is maybe a lot for her after all :D

I agree we do this mostly for ourselves, and the select few Size Queens out there.

Sex is a selfish pleasure. I want bigger dick for better sex, and better sex for more pleasure. There would be no point in doing sex if I wasn’t getting pleasure from it myself.

True. Everyone is always saying how a big dick feels better for the woman, we tend to forget it feels better for us, also. This is why I love to fuck clamped. An 8” inch clamped dick gets a lot more friction than an unclamped 7” girth. I can’t remember the last time I had my unclamped dick in a women.

Wow! I tried that once but ended up with blue marks on my scrotum. Took like 4-5 days until they faded away! …and 8” !!!

Ross Jeffries makes it clear that when you get an answer from a woman it is a time-sensitive thing.

If she says she has a boyfriend, it might be true right now.

If she says she isn`t in the mood, she means right now.

And if she prefers a girthy dick as opposed to house work and a trip, she means right now.

But I do PE for me, because initially I thought my wife would notice, but she is just happy that it`s hard and in charge.

I’m doing it so after I have sex with these women, they go tell their friends about the size of my dick and how I was in bed and then I fuck their friends. So in essence I’m doing it for both, myself and the women.

Don’t try what Girtha does…you’ll kill your dick!! Big Girtha is the master when it comes to serious crazy shit. I think I read a post where he banged some chick while he was wearing 3 golf weights!!!!

PE is not the best way to spend time, though.
I find myself thinking often how many things we (I) could accomplish, dedicating our PE time to something else.

We have one life, and spending so much time ‘just’ to get more pleasure out of sex it’s not a waste, but it’s probably far from the best we could do.
Every woman on this planet (size queens included) would probably prefer us to use our time to be better companions, better husbands, better fathers.
We could be more altruistic, while PE seems to me rather egoistic.

Considering how many hours we pull our penis to gain even just a hair, perhaps even reading a book instead would give us more.

For those of us with psychological issues due to feelings of inadequacy, PE is the best use of our time.

Once those feelings dissipate, we can go back to reading a book now and then, or smelling the flowers, but until such time, I`m going to pull the shit out of my dick.

And it`s not, for me at least, about the feelings I get while having sex. My dick worked fine before PE, in fact sometimes my dick takes a day or two to recover from a stretching, so sex is not as good occasionally.

But it`s a sacrifice I`m wiling to take as I have proven to myself that this shit works.

An inch of length since december `09 is all the proof I need, and I know my wife wouldn`t understand.