Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

I’m just starting out, and, honestly, I’m doing this entirely for myself at this point in my life. I’m 23 and single, and I’m really just out to empower myself and gain confidence, both sexually and in general. Look up the word “cocksure” and it says “of uncertain origin,” but I think we all know where it comes from.

As some folks suggested earlier, I don’t think most girls put an inordinate amount of stock in dick size, but if it makes you feel good enough about yourself to pursue a beautiful girl and make her life great, then it’s a win-win. In that sense, you’re doing it for both you and the Future Her.

Holy… you fucked “clamped”? I guess it is like using a tight cock ring. But 8” girth? You serious?

Holy.. don’t tell me you fuck ass too! Ouch!!

It’s for both of us, but in the end I’m doing it for me mostly because I’ve always wanted to bottom out in a girl.

I fucked clamped once. She said it felt too hard and not like a dick should feel.

Think of all the time women put into making themselves beautiful, with salon treatments, extravagant hair styling and makeup. In the end it’s all bullshit. Unless she is a dog, all this doing up makes a barely noticeable difference. I know I can barely tell whether my woman has spent hours on makeup or not!

But that’s not the point. They do it for themselves, to make themselves feel good, more confident.

PE is like men’s cosmetics.

I sorta disagree. I think it’s more like bodybuilding of the dick. I agree with you about girls and hair styling, make-up, etc. being relatively useless and fake, especially when they’re nude and you’re pounding them. But with exercising/bodybuilding, there is a real noticeable effect. I consider PEing to fall in that category. It’s not as much of a cover-up or fake as is make-up, salon treatments, etc.

I started enlarging for me because I wanted to have a bigger one than most everybody else then my wife kind of got turned on by the idea that I could change my penis. We’ve talked about what she’d like. She’d always take more girth and thinks I’m a little longer than she’d like. I’d take a bigger head and always more girth. There’s a real sense of self confidence that comes from knowing that you are packing.

ddolphin wrote:

Funny you should mention this. I was going through some old videos tonight and came across the Golf Weight fuck scene. It didn’t surprise me that she could take the girth, but I’m still amazed I could get my dick through those tiny Swing Weights.

True, and this is the difference between men and women: men see a problem and fix it, women want emotional comfort.

If most women spent anywhere near as much time in the gym as they did powdering their noses, they would look 100x better. But they aren’t men and they aren’t after a long term solution to the problem, they are after a quick emotional fix. The classic stereotype is eating chocolate or a tub of ice cream if they’re upset. It’s alien to me.

Yes this is right. But I liked her answer the other night ;) .

I can’t even imagine what it would look like 8o

The exercises, penile health and size is for me. Erect is ok.. But flaccid state needs help!

When I was an adolescent my neighborhood friends used to call me “lima bean”, in reference to my size.
I’m pretty average, but still on the low end of the scale.

I’m mostly doing this for me, but in the end it is rather pointless if there is not someone to appreciate it.
So far there is nobody. I have always had a particular woman in mind that I used to see before I started PE. I have always wanted to show her my results and get her reaction, but that will never happen. Our friendship appears to be on the outs, and I have no other prospects.

So at this point I’m doing PE just in case I meet someone, and to prove that it can be done.

Have you tried making a move on her?

Kind of realized today that I don’t care about the woman’s reaction to my penis. When I was younger it boosted the ego a bit but as time goes on this is strictly for myself. My current partner is already frightened of my girth. And you know what? If I cared about her opinions I would stop what I’m doing. Not to sound like a total bastard(I treat her very well) but when it comes to something I want to do for myself no one sways my opinion. Think of yourself first. If a girl doesn’t like you because you don’t have a big wang don’t get hung up on it move on and put whatever frustration you accumulate to use. If she doesn’t like the fact that your penis mysteriously gets larger over time then split her like a lumberjack.

After giving it some more thought, I realized that I’m doing it for me. My wife may or may not know, I’m not sure. I told her i do it for EQ (shhhh). Well in the time that I’ve been here, I’ve had substantial gains. which she “notices” with comments that she never made before i did PE. (i.e you have a really big dick) Also, even though she hasn’t “noticed” my gains, she’s become accustomed to them, and takes them for granted (she’s seen dicks that are roughly my starting dimensions and gives a “no way—too small” kinda response. So the way i figure it, I’m slowing “spoiling” her for dicks smaller than mine— not necessarily a bad thing, right? So you combine a larger dick with my “learned to fuck while more average sized” skills and pretty soon she’ll be stuck with me, right?