Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

She doesn’t need to say anything. She feels it during your intimate times.

Haha how awkward! My partner is not against coming to use the toilet for a pee or brushing her teeth while I shower, it makes using the BM tough when shes around and i havent figured out how to get her to stop without indicating anything unusual 😅

It’s nice you have such a relationship that you’re open about these things. I think my partner will think im crazy and skeptical that it doesnt work and im wasting my time. She wont be judgemental though, but still, I’m pretty sure she doesnt want me to be much bigger. I just want an inch, really :D

I think you are in the minority though? I recall Big Girtha and his wife helping him PE, it always never failed to make me smile. I hope his book is doing well, if he finished writing it.

Maybe, but when someone is skinny, they are often proud to be muscular and show photos of themselves and be like “I used to be so skinny and now look at me, I worked out a lot”. I somehow dont see that happening with the penis, I imagine people more like “nope, i’m lucky to be blessed so big” and actually happily deny their hard work ever happened. But you’re totally spot on about the PE camps thing, that’s such a funny thought 😆

Exactly the same, only Thunders for me; I really like the anonymity as well as the atmosphere here.
Have you had much success in gains in the past 6 years and has your wife really not noticed a difference in performance?

Once we were abIe to have an aduIt conversation about my P.E. My wife admitted she noticed my growth, but was afraid to say anything because she was worried that I wouId think she thought I was smaII before.

An honest response but wrong.

She caIIs him Mr. Chubby now.

How did the topic come up?
She sounds considerate to behave that way, but I see what you’re saying. Still, I dont think I will ever mention it. Im just concerned she might ask about discoloration though, I have some very slight darkening from when I tried out manual clamps that has yet to fade :S

She had seen the forum on my computer some years ago and freaked out, but when we were separated she became more honest about many things, incIuding my P.E. And we were abIe to have more honest conversations about why I was doing it and what she initiaIIy thought about it and how she feeIs now.

I’m not suggesting you do teII anyone as most peopIe aren’t ready for penis enIargement in poIite conversation, and I wouIdn’t worry about discoIouration because it couId be caused by anything. And wiII fade over time.

I’m doing it for me. I talked to my girlfriend about it before I started though. I’m glad I didn’t hide it from her.

I remain in stealth mode and am fortunate to have had some decent gains as in 1.6” gain of BPEL but recently noticed that I was now easily 6.0” NBPEL which was a huge psychological victory when I was previously less that 5.0” NBPEL. This has made me feel so much better about my unit, but few verbal indicators from the wife as of yet (of course I think she’d be asexual if I just left her alone (low desire female) and my girth gains have been minimal). With my past as a recovering sex addict, I think she’d have a harder time than many with understanding why I feel I must continue. That said, I really hope my gains help her to enjoy sex more as there becomes more of me to feel inside her and as my confidence increases as a result of my gains from PE. But to the original question, I definitely do PE for me.

I like this story, thanks for sharing. While I dont plan to talk to her about it, at the same time I wont be as horrified if she discovers it after reading this. My partner is pretty understanding too. But she is also trying to lose weight, she wants to fit into a small 34 and she currently a size medium 38 so shes a little chubby; thus if she says “did you get bigger” I can always return with the reply “No honey I think you just got a little smaller” so not only will i have escaped the topic but she will also feel good about losing some weight 😄

Thanks for the advice here, I think it will fade too because I did only around 3 weeks of mild manual clamps and Uli’s and there was never anything before that, and i’m actually surprised there was any discoloration from that. Do you know around how long mild discoloration takes to go? Can only really see it when penis is erect and the foreskin bunches together mid-shaft. It worries me considering I hope to clamp like Big Girtha one day when i target girth…

I wouId imagine 4-6 weeks, I recentIy tore a thigh muscIe and the bruising took 3 weeks to compIeteIy dissapear.

Ah I see, if i am to be looking at a 6 week timeframe then I think you will be right in that it will have mostly disappeared by then. Thanks ^^

Yikes, tore through a thigh muscle. Hopefully not PE related 😄

I’m doing it solely for myself, ever since my younger I felt that I’d like to have something bigger than what nature gave me.

No. Soccer. Jeez.

Haha I figured, I know youre into sports, seen you mention it before but I couldnt resist 😆

I have had some length and girth gains over the years.0.75” length and 0.75” girth.The only thing I have noticed different is she gasps when I first put it in.She never used to do this and maybe a few more groans than before. We always use lube unless I go down on her first.