Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

A quaIity woman wiII support you in everything you do, in and out of the bedroom. When reIationships degenerate into chiIdish digs it becomes a power struggIe and intimacy fades.

You can never entireIy know someone, and jokes, digs and harsh comments resuIt in peopIe being defensive and gaps deveIop which can eventuaIIy become destructive.

Completely agree 100% with what you’re saying. And when the power struggle starts, the gap that forms often can’t easily be bridged and attempts to do so often collapse because of the angst still remaining and easily re-ignited. In my post it may have sounded like I was condoning it when discussing my observations in university, I read it back and got that impression. I stand by my previous message in talking to her about it ^^

Interestingly though, some couples can function despite this generality. I personally could not.

I also think dhhh was joking with some of his comments :D

Initially - I do PE/AM for competitive edge in comparisono to other men(raw n simple). So, basically it is for myself. BUT in most cases I think about my growth, size and so on like - “I should bring pleasure by all means to her, thus I’m improving my possibilities with size growth”, here it is for woman’s joy also))

My wife and I have been through a lot of crap, our relationship is constant up/downs and quite tense often as you guys rightly detected (there is a 10 year old thread on it here). All the lines have already been crossed (by her) but I’m not letting it get to me anymore and she’s not so much for her either. It’s so funny, she said it to me again this morning when I was on the John so could not go with my plan, so I fought back with the large V gesture with both my hands (check out this “Curb your Enthusiasm” episode if you haven’t seen it yet).

I initially started due to insecurity and hang ups, once I discovered I was actually pretty good girth wise I kept on for ego and reactions.

Now at a solid 6in girth I can’t fit into my current Asian girlfriend , it’s kinda shit. We are new so we will find a way I hope.

I’ve never found a girI who couIdn’t take me. I’m kind of jeaIous in a weird way.

HopefuIIy you’II find a way bro.

Don’t get me wrong it’s an ego turn on until she tries penetration after foreplay, fails and goes
“F*ck you and your big cock”
And you almost start to get jealous of her smaller dick-ed lovers she shared lasting proper sex with.

sounds like my wedding night…

Started primarily for EQ (and thereby increased self-confidence), but pretty excited about tentative Newbie gains (not measuring again until February, so the jury is still out).
I could touch Mrs. Loco’s cervix before PE, but really looking forward to visiting the CDS..

So, it’s for both of us, I suppose. Not an ego thing for me, but I like to make / keep my wife happ(y/ier)
(happy wife = happy life)

Well I’m new here, hi guys!

Basically my story is I had an experience when I was about 11 that would mess up my entire body image.

I grew up country, often times cousins would bath together (kids) nothing weird or sexual, I was bathing with my cousin who was a couple years older than me.. His best friend came over and just kinda came into the bathroom as we were getting out, he looked at me and said “why is your penis so small”

I had no idea what to think I just knew that right there and then I had incredible shame in my body and something was wrong with me.. Looking back it’s more likely I was a late developer and I was really young.. But at that time and throughout most of my life I have felt completely and utterly inferior.

I would hide my penis from view whenever possible, I won’t pee in public urinals if a stall isn’t empty. When I had to shower after sports I would wait until everyone was gone or I would take my towel into the shower.

It has been an abysmal existence and I developed a ton of self loathing throughout my life.

I’m now 36 and just coming to terms (mostly the last 4 months) that I’m not perfect but I’m getting rid of the devil that is my self hate.

Long story short, I’m a big guy I am 6 foot 4 and currently weight 260lbs, in the last 4 months I have lost about 50lbs and have seen that I have gained significant penis gains from fat pad loss.

My starting stats are 7.25in bone pressed erect length
8in bone pressed flaccid stretch
5in mid erect girth

Now I know people WI see those stats and think what the hell is wrong with me.. On a big guy that penis isn’t impressive.. Or at least I don’t feel confident.

I turtle hard, had about a 3 inch fat pad and my balls for whatever reason do not like to stay in their sack and go into my body to hide thus leaving less bulge in my pants

I have never had a girl complain about my size, I have hit more than a few Cervix, but I could never shake the feeling it was all a lie.
I also have big hands so my dick isn’t impressive looking in them, and compared to my big body my dick looks like a top hat sitting out in the Sahara.

I always thought at the very least I have a skinny dick I never measured girth ever, only recently and was surprised at the 5 inch mid girth measurement..

Anyway right now I want more, to make me feel and look better naked, I’m actively working to get lore flaccid hang and girth first

Hi

Definitely for me! It was a huge boost to my ego when my wife first told me to be softer because she felt it was hitting her uterus. Then recently, while wearing my penis ring, my wife made a comment about how she thinks I’m thicker and that was the reason I was having trouble getting it in her. Again, huge boost to my ego. Now, the thing I’d like to point out in the original post was that if your having sex often, then she’s grown accustomed to your growth as you’ve grown. My wife and I don’t have sex often (sadly) so she isn’t accustomed to my growth and noticed the differences.

2 reasons. The first is for a better EQ. The wife knows I do the hot wrap and some stretching.

However there is another part of me that has always felt that I am not big enough. It stems from me having a smaller than average flaccid and a penis that turtles at the first sign of cold or sport.
Sex has always been great and my wife comes from penetration in missionary.
So now my EQ is great after 2 weeks of the Newbie Routine so reason 1 accomplished.

So carrying on is for me really. A larger flaccid would be great if there is any erect gains then a huge bonus as at 16cm BPEL I am probably average so even 2-3cm should be fine for the wife.

Also to be honest 2-3cm extra shaft length would probably be a turn in for me when edging!

Myself. I’m quite the obsessive and will not stop until Jonah Falcon has the “second largest” penis on earth. Only six inches to go… …

Lmao I think he as the longest not the largest. The guy with 10 in girth would be a lot bigger than he is

But what guy has a 10” girth? None that I know of…