Are you doing PE for yourself, or for a woman

Both.

I want to fuck my girl’s throat. I think that will turn her on too

Pondering this for a while, I’d say it WAS for both, but as I think back, my wife has always liked my dick. She makes comments about how much thicker and longer it is, even flaccid, that it must be because I’m getting older (obviously she doesn’t know I do PE) but I don’t know if she likes it any more than she did. She’s never been able to have a vaginal orgasm, even with a much thicker guy in her past, but she does moan a lot more since I’ve been growing. I have the dreaded discoloration that I can’t get rid of unless I stop completely, and I’m not ready to do that, but she is always curious of why - I balk and say it’s age spots!

I do it for mostly me - it’s great having a more noticeable bulge and/or almost 5 inches hanging down your pant leg, isn’t it?

Seeking the approval of others is never a successful strategy.

Especially a woman.

My question first would be how many men’s partners are aware they are doing PE? followed by do they want you to be bigger?

I am totally selfish about this, I’m doing this for me as it’s cheaper than a sports car. My mid-life crisis

My husband knows and he does not want me bigger. According to him, I’m the perfect fit for his mouth and ass and he sure moves like it. ;)

Yes, my wife knows. She wouldn’t mind me being larger. That said we are both content with my size.

Yup definitely cheaper than a dressed out Harley

A smaII percentage of members wives are aware of their practice, and some actuaIIy assist which I personaIIy think is great.

My wife took years to finaIIy understand my practice and why, and advocates but doesn’t assist.

The reason why I practice is that the mother of my chiIdren demeaned my dick and toId me taIes of the big guys she had to wash at hospitaI (she’s a nurse) and the big guys she saw at the rippers and on hoIidays. I finaIIy reaIised she had a bunch of probIems and Ieft her and began making my dick (a Iot) bigger, and now I Iaugh at the siII cunt and her buIIshit and I know she’II never get hoId of this unit.

So I don’t do P.E. For a woman, but began because of one.

Now I do It because it works and It makes me feeI good in so many different ways.

I’d also say both. I originally got started because my partner let slip once that it’s easier for her to orgasm with a bigger one. Once I got started though, I realized how much extra confidence it gives me in the bedroom, which turns her on too. She does know about my P.E ventures and fully supports it, as long as I don’t break it!

Total stealth mode here.

She wasn’t Annie Wilkes?
Sorry a-unit she sounds awful. I glad you got out of that one.

Isn’t it strange that bodybuilders who work out and gain muscle are usually proud to admit or show it off but PEers usually prefer to stay off-grid when doing their workouts and prefer others not to know about it. I think it’s totally bizarre and I have been on both sides of this and still don’t understand it.

For clarification I stealth PE too. I really don’t want people knowing right now, and yet at the same time, I cant quite say why. I have thought perhaps I will never tell anyone. Do many others feel this way?

P.S The Wizard I am finding you everywhere lately! 😄

Wife knows and when I first started she would try to come in the bathroom and have conversations with me while I was in the tub using the bathmate. Talking about someone’s day at work while you are trying to hold an erection is not optimal PE, lol. I shut that shit down.

She respects it and she will have fun with playful humor around it, purely fun. When I say I am going to be working out she will playfully ask which workout, to which I always respond honestly. She will ask, me or Suave, yes, she named my cock Suave.

She will gently let me know every now and again that my size is perfect for her.

She knows that I am currently doing split sessions morning and afternoon. She also knows my rest schedule.

Other than those early bathmate episodes, I don’t PE in front of her. Growth can be such a slow process and I figure it’s best not to intimately remind her exactly how many hours I am investing in my cock through in your face visual reminders.

Our relationship has always been such that I don’t even leave the bed at night to rub one out, she sometimes wakes up and just rolls over. We have probably already had sex once that night, she is grateful for the break! She jokes about my libido, which has basically been at an 11 since puberty. Thank god she is horny!

So yeah, she knows I PE.

Lightening Zee
You have a point when other muscles need toning up we have no problem. I think it’s too personal and you think the judgement will be one has small dick.
I was joking about this the other day. You don’t get PE camps where men could go off for a weekend and have sessions in tents for different excercise and topics of conversations. Unlike other fitness training programme this isn’t possible.

One day we will all be happy and everyone will be PEing and sharing on Facebook.

Hi there LightningZee,
Yeah I am hearing you mate regarding not discussing PE with people. The only people I discuss it with are you guys on Thunders.I have been doing PE in stealth for over 6 years now keeping it secret from my wife.I am waiting for the day she mentions what is going on with your cock it seems bigger. Though I won’t hold my breath she has said absolutely nothing so far.