Does "edging" help?

Kegels if done correctly CAN help you retain your ejaculate, sort of like squeezing the urethra at the base of your dick, and “semen retention” is part of the drill in going for “multiple orgasms,” or “extended orgasm,” at least according to some of the proponents. They are probably correct, although I think the best way to maximize enjoyment from sex is to prolong the encounter, but only if the entire encounter is pleasant and continuously building toward an “ecstasy.” In my experience Kegels are a good routine and help a guy get better acquainted with his junk, and develop a pleasant control over it’s function. If you’re going for a quick wank, and want to get off quick (not a good practice, in the long run), tensing at orgasm DOES push you over the brink, as we’ve all experienced, and you shoot your load. On the other hand, learning to really kick back and just “sink into” the good feeling as you approach orgasm, maybe change your thrusts to an easy glide, or even a rapid “rabbit punch,” but NOT consciously “pushing” toward anything in particular, and DEFINITELY NOT going for the gold, often leads you to a place that makes you think you’ve died and gone to heaven, maybe blended with your partner into one soul, or even “become one with the universe.” This is “riding the crest,” or “riding the edge.” I believe it is the goal of sex. Not much in life is better.
- Rip

Talking about not ejaculating (not having orgasm) when doing the lady, I just remember I spent a week or so doing various sexual stuff (not penetration, though) with this girl on a holiday - so spending a lot of time while being hard and really aroused. By the time this period was over I had an intensive pain in my balls and lower abdomen which faded away once I ejaculated (not instantly, but by the next morning it was mostly gone).

So I don’t think that having sex without an orgasm is terribly healthy.

Did anyone overcome premature ejaculation because of edging? I’ve tried doing it for a month or even more and I don’t feel it helped. I mean, I can last almost as long as I want during intercourse, but the problem is I either have to slow down or stop. Sometimes this comes in a bad moment (the girl is almost ready to orgasm and I suddenly stop).

I want to be able to not only last as long as I want, but also be able to go as fast as I want. Is it impossible?

Also, did anyone gain something in terms of penis growth from it (either length or girth)? Does it at least help with getting the BPEL to match your BPFSL (in time of course)?

Kegels if done correctly CAN help you retain your ejaculate, sort of like squeezing the urethra at the base of your dick, and “semen retention” is part of the drill in going for “multiple orgasms,” or “extended orgasm,” at least according to some of the proponents. They are probably correct, although I think the best way to maximize enjoyment from sex is to prolong the encounter, but only if the entire encounter is pleasant and continuously building toward an “ecstasy.” In my experience Kegels are a good routine and help a guy get better acquainted with his junk, and develop a pleasant control over it’s function. If you’re going for a quick wank, and want to get off quick (not a good practice, in the long run), tensing at orgasm DOES push you over the brink, as we’ve all experienced, and you shoot your load. On the other hand, learning to really kick back and just “sink into” the good feeling as you approach orgasm, maybe change your thrusts to an easy glide, or even a rapid “rabbit punch,” but NOT consciously “pushing” toward anything in particular, and DEFINITELY NOT going for the gold, often leads you to a place that makes you think you’ve died and gone to heaven, maybe blended with your partner into one soul, or even “become one with the universe.” This is “riding the crest,” or “riding the edge.” I believe it is the goal of sex. Not much in life is better.
- Rip