flaccid vs. erect penis size

I am 7.75 BPEL (7.25 NBPEL) and my flaccid size varies from 3.5 to 5 inches NBP. I know it is the erect size that really counts (especially when is comes to sex), but what about your pride.

I am a grower and not a shower. I would be more satisfied with my erect size if I had a better flaccid hang. I have to say that my flaccid hang is much better than when I started, which was between 1 & 3.5 inches NBP (with a 5.75 BPEL).

Anyway, I have altered my goal from an 8 X 6 erect penis to a 6 X 5 flaccid one, because my flaccid appearance is what always bothered me the most.

So, I was wondering, which is more important to you guys: flaccid length or erect length? Also, what it the difference between your flaccid hang and erect size? And what qualifies one to be in the shower or grower club?

Erect length is more important to me. Who the hell ever sees my flaccid penis anyway?

For me now, flaccid size is more important. Even when I was smaller, I never had any issues with myself or women having satisfying sex, but I was always discontent and embarrassed with my small flaccid size. Fortunately, three years of PE, numerous techniques, etc have eliminated that issue. I used to be much more of a “grower” with going from a very small 1 - 2” flaccid size to 5.25” erect. Now, I would consider myself more of a “shower” with flaccid size ranging between 5 - 6” and growing to 7. 5” erect.

I don’t know but maybe a “shower” could be a guy whose dick only grows 50% or so larger when erect, while a “grower” could be a guy whose dick at least doubles or triples in erect size from flaccid size.

Peforeal

TRy drinking a gallon of water every day and using the thera-P wrap. I found that the combinationdefinitely helped my flaccid hang.

Damn, Peforeal! You are a shower! That is not fair, I guess I’ll start drinking more water and using the therawrap like Rambone recommends. And Illpo, what do you do after sex? Put your pants on? That’s what I use to do.

Erect length is more important to me but I am envious of the dudes that have a good bulge. My unit varies in size way too much, sometimes giving a moderate flaccid (4x4) but far too often it is smaller. I am hoping PE will increase my flaccid quite a bit, but it’s the 8 x 6 erect that will truly make me (and possibly others) happy.

What is the average flaccid size if one does have and 8 X 6?

Good question Ophiosaurus.

I’m also turning to flaccid hang as a goal (particularly flaccid girth); my flaccid can be 6” when coming from boxers (but barely 5”FG and trust me I’ve seen flaccid girths that were 5” at least)

BT79

I put on my pants or boxers on.

BlackThunder,

What are your erect stats?

Ophiosaurus,

3.5”-5” nbp flaccid sounds great to me. Congrats. But I wish you success in getting to that extra 1” flaccid.

Erect length is much more important to me. But flaccid hang is still important. When I’m jelqing regularly, I’m much more of a shower; when I’m not, I’m much more of a grower.

I would prefer an enlargement of both flaccid and erect. But my flaccid is damn disappointing. I’d say I average about 4 x 4 flaccid hang on a good day. My erections now are really around 7 x 4.75… I would like to definitely have a thinker hang, its all about thickness.

I’m a grower in length not really girth, however I have been known to over double in length from flaccid to erect. I have just started a new SO hanging routine that is doing some serious pulling on the ligs, sometimes I think my dick is going to pop right the fuck off.

Anyway a grower is someone that doubles or more than doubles in lenght or girth. IMO.

In general if you PE and see gains then you will see growth in both flaccid and erect sizes.

I’ve become a “shower” rather than a “grower,” both in length and girth. At this point, however, even if I never gain another millimeter, but maintain my woodies, I’ll be a happy camper.

HH

I’ve had some minor success with the showing also. But I’ll never forget one hellaously drunken night in my teens. Well I have tried to forget some of it but never the less:

I had gotten together with this chick who was, shall we say, just a little bit plumper than I usually liked them to be. She was nice, had huge titties, and wasn’t exactly “fat”, just a little thicker than I really cared for.
We were smashed. It was well after midnight and I had been drinking since morning. I had already vomited all over a Denny’s restroom and ditched my underwear in the trash can sometime around 5 or 6 pm that day as well. She also had thrown up during the evenings festivities herself. Not to let these facts put a damper on things, we continued to drink ourselves stupid. Yes, 2 drunking teenagers behind the wheel of a large automobile. Eventually we made our way back to her parents house and slipped into the basement. Great I thought, somewhere cold, dark, and damp. A perfect place to die as that was the way I was feeling. As soon as I laid back on the couch to crash, she unzipped my pants and grab my dick before I could object. What she got was a handful of my drunken shriveled little flaccid peenie. Now I knew I was much more of a grower than a shower but I could tell she was a bit disappointed at my flaccid state. She pulled and pulled in a vain attempt to get the turtle out of it’s shell. I tried to play it off and told her I just didn’t think I was going to happen as I was on the third day of what could only be described as a 3 day attempt at killing myself. Well then she tries to give me a bj with out much luck either. Suddenly she jumps up and says, I know what to do and she took off upstairs. A moment later she returns with a big bottle of hand lotion and starts jerking the hell out of my dick. Well I’ll be if that soldier didn’t rise up for the occasion and be introduced with her announcement of “damn that fucker grows … a lot!”

So you see there is an incentive for me to become less of a grower and more of a shower - heck I wouldn’t mind being both.