As much as I’d love to agree with the title of this thread, (since I have great girth and alright length) I have to disagree =(
However, upon reading further, and seeing the logic of OP, I see that “best” means something different for each of us. Girth definitely gives the feeling of size. A thicker cock is meatier. A longer cock is well, longer not meatier. I agree that as I’ve gained girth, its felt like I’ve got more in my hands vs when I’ve gained length, I’ve not felt as much difference.
However on to why I want length over girth: my whole reason for starting PE was that before PE I’d never made a girl orgasm from sex. Now I think a lot of it was simply the girls problem, but its hard for me to accept that having had quite a few partners, one of which was very experienced. I began to read and study the female anatomy and discovered the anterior fornix. Although angles and positions are more important for hitting this spot, I don’t believe girth assists in this, as a matter of fact I noticed girth causes “tenting” or extension of the vagina, pushing the spot deeper and further to reach.
During intercourse with my girlfriend, I find her and myself constantly pushing deeper. I’m currently 8.25 by 6, and for her I believe an inch more will be highly beneficial, and I won’t have to dig my heels into the bed to get her off. At my prior size I never had gotten her off. This might be just her learning, or it might be my increased size. I tend to think its the size.
That said, all I’ve said is subjective. Different girls like different things. My ex said I was too big and wouldn’t have sex with me again because she thought I was too large. =/
Tough to make everyone happy. Some girls want 7 inches, honestly they really do. My ex HATES my 8x6 dick now, while my current girlfriend loves it and could use more.
Sorry for such a long post but I have ONE More thing to say about length vs girth. If you feel you’re lacking in the length department, go for the chics with no ass. Less distance to travel through, especially in doggie, to get to the hole.
That’s all! :)