I must comment here to offer encouragement to you Jogglemind, you can and will gain if you start. There are stories in here or guys making huge gains, and guys making modest gains, and guys making small gains, but you know what,everyone has gained. Those that say they haven’t gained may not have read enough, or experimented enough or prayed enough, but 9 out of 10 guys get gains and you are most like one of those 9 guys.
I found out about PE’ing about 4 years ago. Don’t remember the site, only that you had to pay, and I attempted to start jelquing as that was the only thing that was being discussed. I had no encouragement, many of the techniques seemed experimental and I didn’t know if it actually worked.
So I did it for about what 3 weeks, and then decided it was too much work AND i didn’t have a place to go to get encouragement, I couldn’t exactly talk to friends or family, so I gave up.
Then I came to Thunders Place last year, and started up a routine, but I still didn’t have the right mindset. And I stopped after a month or so. But then I got determined, and I got the right mindset and I said you know what I want a bigger dick, and Thunders is a great place to get encouragement. So I just did it, and I have been doing it again for about 2 months and I have to say that I have gotten some pretty quick big gains.
You should probably start off with determining your LOT or Loss of Tugback, do a search on that or look in the newbie forum. Once you know you’re lot you can begin to really target the best course of action to take in growing a bigger penis most efficiently. If you don’t determine your LOT first you may start to do a routine that will not work, hence little to no gains, and you may become discouraged.
In my opinion no matter what your LOT is jelquing is the absolutely best way to get both length and girth gains, at least in the beginning. I also suggest as others have in this post you think about doing hanging and pumping.
It always depends on the time you have, and the privacy but if you can get either even in short supply its worth doing.
Thunders has every single item and question answered you will ever ever need. If you have thoroughly read 1/20th of the articles in here you will discover that you know all there is to know about PE.
So I don’t want to carry on too long in here, but Thunders Place is a great forum to get the encouragement you need, there are a lot of caring people that know what you are going through and will not judge you or think less of you, the best thing you can do is open up to us, tell us all your fears, and then see that many of your replys are so positive you may very well never need another support forum to belong to.