HPV messing with my life

You people are SERIOUSLY over-reacting.

Twatty, hate to bring it down to you, but you most likely have it too. And no, that doesn’t mean that it’s all 70’s again. You still have to watch out for all kinds of shit.

To all worried about catching something, buy a pocket pussy. Mine is red.

Sorry about your situation. Perhaps you can work things out with your girl.

Good luck!

Next you’ll tell me that mental illness is contagious and no one will want to be around me anymore.

A quick way to see if you have warts is to spray vinegar on your penis. After a thought soaking, the warts will appear as white bumps.

Ouch. If you want to spray vinegar on your penis, go ahead!

There’s not really a difference between them other than the location from what I remember reading.

The are treatable, and can be essentially cured with aggressive treatment combining freezing/burning them and interferon injections into them. Check out drmirkin.com for references.

Dude,

I’ve had HSV2 for 10 years, it takes balls to come in here and talk about this. I have a couple websites you can date people to your hearts content and not worry about giving them HPV, b/c they have it too.

As far as the girl you gave it to, she’s an adult, you told her of the risk, she accepted the risk, got it, and thats how people get it, at least you respected her enough to tell her before and not give it to her unknowingly

You need some support or whatever this is the site bar none. https://www.mpwh.com

also try https://www.pos … tivesingles.com

Imagine meeting someone that has it and not having to have ‘the talk’

Later

I discovered I had hpv 8 1/2 years ago. Its difficult to say who I may have gotten it from, but I do have suspicions about how I got it.
The warts appeared on areas where I had suffered mild skin abrasions from sex.

Meaning, at the time, I was having regular sex with a particular woman, and each time we had intercourse the friction of pubic hair in contact with my skin started to wear me raw in spots. The warts only appeared on these spots.

I suspect the virus will take hold on broken skin. This is not a clinically proven or confirmed fact, just my own notion. I only wonder if the transfer of the virus would be inhibited by maintaining sufficient lubrication during unprotected sex? Probably not.

Anyway, it took me a long time to finally get rid of the recurring warts. I had to get tough and used regular wart medicine. My dermatologist said thats ok, whatever works. I haven’t seen a wart for several years.

Oddly, that coincides with the beginning of my PE endevors. I wonder if regular jelking helps recycle and rejuvinate the skin cells and keeps the warts from forming? I also use Johnsons mineral oil with aloe and vitamin E . (?)

I ‘ve read that the virus can remain in the skin in “microwarts”, but if the warts are gone and never come back, can the virus still be transmitted? What is there to transmit if you don’t have any warts?

tinytim,

to see if you have small warts, you would wrap the area you want to inspect with a gause soaked in vinegar for a while. Warts will turn white.

1) There are a number of HPV dating sites online, just run a google search.
2) You are young, it’s not common to settle down for life so soon.
3) You told her in advance of your condition - she CHOSE to sleep with you anyway….I’m assuming that was better than the gal who gave it to you.

It’s a sad situation guy, and I feel for you. But don’t think you’re “indebted” to this woman because she willingly let you infect her with HPV - again, that was her choice.

Thanks for the comments, suggestion, support from everyone. It feels so good just to talk about it. I do feel that I owe her something b/c I gave her this disease. To make things worse she had an abnormal pap smear recently. I just not f’n happy I want to be strong, and brave and get out of this relationship. I’m just so worried about her feelings, and her health.

I’ve tried the online thing where you meet people that already have a certain std, but I’ve only found small sites with very few choices. I’ve been to h-date.com and mpwh.com. If anyone else knows of some other sites I’d appreciate it.

I just wanted to add that another thing that makes things worse I having visible warts at the base of my penis. I see these every single day when I go to the bathroom. So everyday I’m reminded I have hpv. I’m making an appointment to get some cream to get rid of the visible signs. This I believe will help with my mind, out of sight out of mind. I know I will have this the rest of my life, but not seeing the fukers will make me think less about it. I’m just so nervous about making the appointment, “um yes I’d like to get a std checkup” “doc I have hpv” he goes “show me” I drop the pants and point. Get a prescription, get it filled. I’m dreading it, but I just want to get it over with. It’s been two years I think.

Just for the record, the ex who was diagnosed to have HPV less than 3 years back, I had a chat with her couple days ago. She told me that the HPV had gotten cured over a year ago.

I don’t believe hpv can be cured as it is a virus. It sits dormant in your spinal cord. Although you may be able to get rid to the visble wart, the virus will remain in your body the rest of your life. As with herpes and aids.

Well, medical professionals seem to think that it does get cured in 4 out of 5 cases. I’m not saying you are wrong, I’m just saying that people who know a shitload more of the subject seem to think otherwise. ;)

This has nothing to do with the warts, but pap tests.

Ofcourse medical professionals generally tend to also think that natural PE is impossible, but this is an issue that they have actually done research on, instead of denying it off the bat.