THANK YOU Anna and Sunshine for answering!
Ideal penis size for women? That is like asking why men don’t understand women.
I do not necessarily agree that talking about penis size or past lovers is asking for punishment though. Depends on the relationship. I have been married to the same wonderful woman for 15+yrs. And we talk about it. Not usual subject but it is something we have and do talk about. I know her ex-husband was naturally extremely well endowed (they bought a novelity ruler that said he was meant to breed cattle…lol) and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest. 1) Because he is her EX-husband so obviously his dick didn’t make up for everything and 2) Because she flat says that his size in no way contributed to his sexual prowess.
When I first decided to start NPE (very recent) I talked to my wife about it. She was confused at first because she thinks I have the “ideal” cock. Her exact words were, “…but it fits me so well. It fits so good inside me and fits my mouth so good. And you have such a nice looking cock. The shape and look and everything…” So we talked about it and I explained that I in no way wanted to be huge just wanted to add some. Explaining it was mostly something I wanted but that she may well enjoy. She thought it over, read some web info (here, DLD’s forum, other stuff) and now totally supports me. We each understand what I am after and that I have no desire to become a bat-swinger.
I know big size isn’t what turns my wife on. In fact in a male-typical-media-hyped loss of consiouness I bought her a fairly big dildo. I buy her toys from time to time and this time I got a bigger than normal toy. Just now measuring it, the insertable length is a touch over 7.5” and the widest girth is a touch over 6”. Know where that toy spends it’s time? In the drawer. She can take it and says it doesn’t hurt but she doesn’t like it because it is too big. It doesn’t fit her right she says.
My wife and I have great sex and are very open about our past experiences, likes/dislikes, wants, and desires. That came with time. No, we don’t want blow-by-blows (no pun intended) of past sexual encounters
but casual discussions of them have actually improved our sex.
And Tug, not to be an ass, but didn’t you post a thread on Aug 30th about this Asian girl saying you just recently met and haven’t had sex with? Seems that less than a week is a bit much for being in pain. If I am incorrect I apologize in advance and mean no disrespect.
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