kegeling

Is it just me or does anyone else have trouble holding a kegel for more than a second or two? It is very easy for me to flex the PC muscle but it is really hard for me to hold it. It immediately wants to relax.

I used to be like this, but now can hold it for up to five minutes. I think there is a difference in “less effort to flex” vs actually “letting go” of the squeeze. The best way I ever developed long sustaining kegel squeezes was to count to a hundred while holding them concentrating on squeezing harder with every number I counted. I don’t know if there is a connection and sometimes worry about it, but as someone who has difficulty in not being able to come to orgasm without a lot of stimulation, I wonder if kegel excercises actually contribute to my problem.

puff

now thats a problem I wouldn’t mind having.

Actually it’s not as great a problem as you think. Making a woman think she isn’t sexy by her thinking somehow it’s her that you can’t finish isn’t fun. Then add to it that I know in my mind this is a problem I have making it worse, I have often left a sexual encounter without having physically been satisfied (orgasm) and also emotionally drained (feeling it’s my fault I can’t give her the joy of pleasing me) Now given that, I can’t at all relate to premature ejaculation. And from what I’ve heard it’s not somthing I would not want to battle either.

puff

I guess that is a problem I would mind having.

Ideally I could take my problem, mix it with someone who has the opposite problem, and split it and we’d both be alot happier.

:) puff