Originally Posted by hydroxpl
I have no problem doing PE for a couple of years, I understand that gains only come with patience and persistence.. But for the rest of my life?? Thats just a joke of a notion to me. I am 19 years old and I came into PE thinking after a couple of years I would make maybe at least an inch gain and stop.. After all it is the penis we’re dealing with and permanent damage there isn’t exactly easy to deal with. I’ve already got enough things to worry about in life and I just can’t deal with making time to do PE everyday, I can tell it’s already taking a toll. I’m not one of those people who find PE enjoyable, I find it tedious and dangerous, I go through it everyday with a certain degree of uncertainty and anxiety. This is such a depressing thread for me, I don’t even know I want to continue PE anymore. I could try to go as long as I can, but I doubt it’ll be anything close to "the rest of my life".
Well, having been a penis owner & operator for over twice your life-span now, all I can say is: you will have some kind of relationship with it for as long as you live, so a little maintenance probably won’t kill you — or your dick. It’s a pretty durable organ, by the way. I’m sure many here could vouch for that. Check out the injury thread and you’ll see it’s possible to recover from pretty dire circumstances, chicks named Loreena included.
It’s sounds to me like you’ve been having doubts well before reading this thread. The ‘uncertainty’ and ‘anxiety’ you feel comes from going into uncharted territory, if I were to hazard a guess. What are you doing that you’re worried about permanent damage? There are guys here who can hang heavy weights from the sucker and still get it up and HARD on a regular basis. Most of us jelq away, maybe all-day-stretch, various bends and squeezes, whatever appeals and feels right.
If you are worried I would start with the Newbie routines and go really slowly at first until you figure out what you tolerate, and what stresses your unit out -in a good way. In other words, tune it to your body and learn about it. Then you’ll have a feel for how far you can go. But trust me this stuff can definitely work.
I also hope you recognize that the concept of ‘permanence’ in anything in life is flawed concept. Whether it’s body-building, marriage or life itself there’s an expiration date. It’s just a fact. How you deal with that and what you do in order to maximize your experiences with any of these is really all you can bring to the table. And it doesn’t have to be scary or depressing - it can be a fun exploration.
Originally Posted by aspiringbig
If you quit, the gains come back rapidly.
This has been my experience exactly. Pre PE I was 6" to 6.25" on a good day. Then I read The Multi-Orgasmic Man in the summer of 2000 and began practicing to become an even better lover (a subject which I find can never have too much study), and in the book I found the section on making yourself bigger. The PE section of this book is very limited to be sure, but I began to do the stuff and got stronger erections and increased in size pretty steadily. Then I crapped out for a while, but found some stuff on the web and eventually joined Massive Member (for $50 bucks I wish I could get back) and found there were more ‘exercises.’ So over the next year I mixed these approaches up; not in a consistent, disciplined manner, but I did reach 7.25" in EL just about a year ago. Then I stopped it altogether last March or so and went down to 6.75". Since January, when I joined here, I’ve regained that size, plus a little, in much less time than it took to initially gain.
That’s been primarily Jelqing, stretching and squeezing.
So, I hope this gives you some perspective.
Originally Posted by Para-Goomba
Hydroxpl, Slow down and read the thread more carefully
Worthy advice.