PE And Premature Ejaculation

Hello guys. Lately I have a big problem that during sex with my wife I cum in 1-2 minutes from the start of the intercourse. I use Viagra and am very satisfied with it and the ability to get hardest and longest erections during day and night. I can edge and masturbate for 40 minutes and not cum. But only I am in a vagina, it takes me like 1 or 2 minutes and I cum. I am pretty satisfied with my size that is being around 7” x 5.3” BP. I am 39. What can I do with this problem guys?

Is the glans too sensitive?

Or you’re too excited. Try to think about other things, such as thinking about your mortgage next month when you have sex.

You could try drinking 10 beers before sex.

Well, my glans are very sensitive. When wife asks to hit her not deep but shallow with glans , that makes me cum so fast. While I am going deep, she doesn’t like it, but then I don’t cum fast.

The shallower you insert, the easier to cum. Because the touch is concentrated on the glans.

Well yes, that’s logical. But what can I do if wife asks to do so because it feels good for her, while deep penetration she doesn’t like?!

Could it be I am small for her that she doesn’t enjoy deep penetration?

You may already know this: Edging isn’t so much for desensitization, it’s to learn control more than anything. It can desensitize, somewhat, in some cases.

How often are you doing these marathon 40 min masturbating sessions? You could be making it more sensitive. If your dick is so used to your hand, as soon as it feels the difference of a vagina, that could do it.

A little alcohol could make a difference, like Wizard said. If I have a few I can’t get off for nothing.

It might seem counterintuitive, but if you’re open enough with each other and she knows your feelings about this, and you don’t already, try using a condom. I can’t get off in one of those either. If that helps, use up the box and then try bareback again, see if it changes anything.

It could also be something to do with the viagra, a chemical in the brain thing. A friend of mine and his wife had to go with a different brand. For whatever reason, it made him blow in his pants before he even got it out. He didn’t need it either, he uses it for the sake of using it. I think they settled on Cialis or some such.

That’s about all I can come up with, man.

For me, jerking off kills my stamina. So, I pretty much don’t anymore, and I can go for an hour or so on a pretty heated romp with my wife, without any issues. If we end up going at it on my once a week edging day, my dick is already pregamed and ready to go, I’ll last about 10 minutes in her..

Food for thought. Good luck!

Wow, thank you for the warm replies and explanations. I do use condoms, and have hard rock erection. My wife hates when we have sex with her legs on my shoulders, but only in this position I last the longest. Around 3 minutes. I became frustrated from this, and don’t see any sense in having bigger penis while I can’t use it properly. Maybe smaller penis that lasts longer is best

What does size have to do with how it works? I didn’t say stop your enlargement exercises, do those as often as you can safely handle, but that you could be edging too much or too often. Edging won’t make it any bigger or smaller. Proper edging is 90% in your head, not your dick.

Anyway, just talk to her about it. See if she’ll do it your way for a bit, and then finish it off doing things her way. Find some middle ground. That way you’re both happy.

Use a metronome with exactly 15 bpm. Then soap up your hand and do shallow (glans only thrusting) and see how long you will take to cum, don’t break the rhythm of the metronome.

AGAIN
- 15bpm
- soap up your hand
- only glans
- timer when you start

Why? Most of the time people just go too fast without knowing, like the frog in boiling water experiment.
You need a metronome in your head and to be honest the slow thrusting is something that arouses women more. She will start to help you go into a faster pace and you just need to ignore her hands pushing in your butt and her body going closer to you. After she does that she will like the deep thrusting way more, but keep ignoring her until she pushes you on your back and starts riding you.

But anyway

Do the metronome thing and respond back and then I’ll feel like you can fix this problem.

Like the wizard said, have a couple drinks before. Also, take 2 vitamin B6 tablets, 100mg, about 1 hour before game time. I have no idea why but it helps me last a good bit longer.

You may be edging in a way which decreases your stamina

There could be many reasons. I looked into your routine in your thread Just Started looks like your routine consists in clamping. After I added clamping into my routine to reach 15 cm EG (which I did), within 2 weeks I started having premature ejaculation, even masturbating I feel almost ejaculating within 2 minutes and during sex my time has decreased a lot until I could feel like cumming and ejaculating, it increased the sensitivity on the region of frenulum of my penis.

If you have it before PE, I’d say for you to look into antidepressants, specially selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors such as sertraline, it’ll help you a lot in that matter of ED.

Anyone notice any increase in sensitivity with PE? I could use a bunch more. I would LOVE to speed up the orgasm timetable on my end.