Rethinking how much size matters to women

It’s like an NBA player convinced that the true average height must be 6’5 to 7’. And worrying he is only 6’4.

EXACTLY! I like the honesty. This seems more real world to me.

I like the straight to the point honesty. Anxiedty, among many other things is indeed a huge problem of mine. I would have never attributed to my self image, worth, esteem though, While I definately hope to increase my PE concentration, I still feel another trip to the loony doc would do me some good.
Actually ha d pretty big and forthcoming argument with my wife aboutg all of this tonight. I really do fear I am ruining my “normal” life one day at a time anymore. Getting kinda scared.

Consider sex reassignment surgery if your penis is smaller than 10x7”. Baby dicks are worthless.

yes, and the world average is not big.I think average for example dutch 5.01 inch girth with 6.41 length, nigeria 6.33 length with 4.84 girth and the length being BP.Chinese 4.37 girth with 5.2 length.India 5.15 length with 4.52 girth, this is from a lot of searching,( and letting out of things i think is bull, for example that average american have 5.1 inch penis in some survey and europeans over six is bull because like 65-70% americans are of euroepan descent etc.)

I think for whites, west african descendants you can say 6-6.5 length BP with 4.8-5 girth is average and for east asians rougly 5-5.5 length and 4.3-4.5 girth so the world average is even smaller then 6 length by 5 girth.

white american 6.3 with 4.9 girth and black american 6.5 with 4.9 girth.

In Europe, we’re no less than one inch luckier.

I came to this place last december with horrid self-esteem regarding my dick.

Years of marriage to a woman who enjoyed talking about big dicks all the time wore me down to the point where I felt nothing could make the feelings of inadequacy stop.

After 9 months and an inch of length gain later I feel totally different about so many things, including my dick.

The thing is; I did something about it.

Instead of re-installing terrible feelings of insecurity about my dick, I learned that I could make it bigger, and did.

Is my dick the biggest my new wife has ever had?

Fucked if I know, and I`m not going to ask her.

She loves what we do together and that`s all that is important.even though she makes no mention of the extra inch..

But anyway, this isn`t about what my dick does or makes a woman feel.I can`t help but do my best with what I`ve got.

Women have to make their own mind`s up about what dicks do..

God bless Thunder`s.

Lol on the xwife. How is the difference in confidencr in the new situation?

Amen brother. I think just like you.

When I’m unhappy about something I just go to work on changing it. Agonizing over what we don’t have is such a waste of time, when all we have to do is put in the effort, go out there & get it—and that includes penis size.

I wish I could have the same approach. I have been dabbling on this site for almost 7 years. I’ve been unemployed with 4 days a week of almost full privacy. Yet I have done a clamp here and there, but mostly spend my time wishing and wondering and complaining about the “what-ifs”. I will say I have an appointment with a different doctor this afternoon to see what he thinks. All of the stuff I’ve mentioned here isn’t the only issue I have thats for sure. Chronic fatigue, damn near narcoleptsy, has been a major issue as well.

I should also add that my wife is the polar opposite of the one described above. Like I said only sex with two other guys before me, and no crazy big dick talk. In fact two nights ago during a heated discussion she saw just how twisted my mind is with this problem. I would not accept that these other two guys were not her biggest and best lovers ever. I said a 1 in 3 chance was good enough that one if not both of them were well hung. and by the way, I could give a rats ass about world wide and nationality “averages”. I feel its all fooey and have given my valid reasoning for saying so. Not to mention sites like LPSG, MOS, and practically every amateur clip you see on adult sites. There are big dicks a plenty out there.

There are almost 10 million horses in the United States alone — approximately half of which have dicks!

Assume you had an 8” NBPEL x 6” dong. Would it much change how you think? I mean would you still kinda feel inadequate in the size department, because a few others may be bigger? If that’s the case, you have anxiety issues and it doesn’t matter what size your unit is or will be via PE, you need to first adress the anxiety issues in my opinion.

Glad you’re having fun.

anyone who has been with a variety of females will tell you 8x6 is vanity. 7x6 is more than enough length, most cannot handle 7” depth paired with good girth. or even 7x7 or 6x7.5” is much more satisfying to the avg slut. girth with a length of around 7” is waaayy more important than this locker room ego/vanity length. Girls can always push out hard and drop the fornix onto your head…side effect is she’ll probly squirt (urine fellas, it’s premature urine squirting) after doing this a few times.