IME, not insubstantial, most women are more into the notion of size than an actual monster cock— I’ve mentioned my ‘ignorance trick’— before we see each other nekkid, at some point when the talk is getting sexy, I will note that I’m not small- perhaps noting that I can’t use regular condoms.
Generally she’ll ask what size, I feign ignorance and mention a Red Bull can as a rough guide— which inevitably perks her up.
Now, my maxxed out post pump & clamp session my girth has broken 6.5”, but that’s not the ‘norm’— I’m not ‘lying’ per se— in advertising it’s known as ‘puffery’. ;)
That said, after some liquid C and a brief well warmed up clamping session, I’m damn near my max of 7.875*6+, and once I’m pulling out the cawk, she’ll blink more than a bit.
So, what’s the ‘ignorance trick’?
Once we’re comfy and knocked boots, at some point the size of my junk will come up in convo if they are under forty [or even forty if they’re recently divorced and under experienced— or overly so— aw hell, it almost always comes up because frankly I will generally steer the convo there.
Why?
Well, here’s the ‘ignorance trick’— when she asks, and I tell her I don’t know, she’ll often suggest that I measure— what I do is hand HER the ruler and once my junk is awake, I let her do the measurement
But not a TP legal measurement.
I’ll generally guide her hand to measure down the side, picking up an inch or sometimes more.
Why bother with all the rigamarole?
Because I’ve learned that when a woman thinks she’s fucking a monster cock and feels safe & unjudged, she’ll often let out her inner whore— she feel as if she has license to behave in ways that she would otherwise not.
And when she tells her friends abut your big dick [and she will], she’ll tell them when they call BS that she measured it herself.
And let me tell you that it is an interesting experience the next time you meet her friends— you can almost smell the pussy in the air.
;)
Among my many gay friends, what seemed more important to me was that both men feel comfy with their comparative sizes— one couple I knew before and after both confided in me that they were each pleased that their cocks were proportional.
Do my gay TP brothers care to comment?