Originally Posted by dangleman
All these threads about “what’s the perfect size”, “what size should I shoot for”, etc. My opinion is, it’s all relative. Relative to the other guys out there. Here’s the bottom line: if the average guy had a 14-inch dick, we would want 18-inchers. What we want to be is BIGGER THAN OTHER GUYS, or THE BIGGEST SHE HAS EVER SEEN, or whatever. I think the honest truth is that this is what we want more than “what feels best to a woman,” or anything else.This being said: what you should shoot for is the point on the measurement bell-curve where the measurements drop off steeply. There is a point for both length and girth that’s pretty exact, based on the best penis size surveys out there. If you go by the LifeStyles Condom survey — the steep drop-off is at 7 inches length, and 5.75 inches girth. That’s where you quickly leave most of the rest of the field behind and get into the top 5%. So I’d say, shoot for THAT.
If you don’t like the Lifestyles data (I wonder, because even though it was done by trained nurses and pretty scientific, I bet the guys with really small dicks at that Cancun beach were less inclined to stop by the tent . . ), Choose any data you want. But look at the measurement curve, the data line, and find that point where there’s a steep drop off. There is always one. And then shoot for that.
NOTE: My feeling is that most of these surveys were NOT bone-pressed. I just really doubt these nurses, doctors, etc. Jammed the rulers to the bone like we do.
I have said it before, the best sized unit is the one that fits your partner and stimulates them the best. This ranges based on the female, there are females out there who would get alot more enjoyment from a 5 inch penis then a 7 inch penis. There are also females out there where 7 inches barely cuts it and they need 8 or 9 for a full experience. I mean in all seriousness the ideal scenario would be for your body to know exactly what the female your with ideally handles and adjust your size based on it, obviously this is a fantasy.
I therefore feel the best size to shoot for is one where you have the best chance of pleasing the girl, this means a random sample of the population youd please the most. If you got any larger or smaller your percentile would go down. I think once you get below 6 or above 7.25 or so in length this applies. I’m not as sure on girth but would estimate anything below 5 or above 5.5 would be diminishing returns.
I think of it like the law of diminishing returns, once you achieve enough if you keep going you will actually please less females then when you were smaller.
From an anatomic and genetic standpoint, the penis and vagina during early stages of developement come from the same material. The reason the average penis size is what it is is because the average vagina size also corresponds to that. Therefore in reality the average penis is just right for the average vagina. If you really want to get technical if a man had a daughter whos sexual organs took after his 100% then the ideal size for the daughter would be the fathers penis size.