Thundersplace becoming anti-woman?

Amen.

No, no, no. You aren’t up my ass, I’m not really even mad at you. I respect and like you as a poster, I’m just bringing up important info, and I am trying to broaden your horizon.

I thought my analogy was quite clear. Gay does mean happy, merry, etc….but then was used as a derogatory term for homosexuals. Now it also has a meaning of being weird, sissy-like, etc…why? because people associate homosexuals as being sissies and weird. Even though the people that use the word “gay” aren’t trying to offend the original people that it was targeting, they still are by using the word. Just like in my analogy of using your name. Right now it is directed towards you, but down the line people would use it but not even know it was directed towards you.

Even worse, the American “English”

Speaking of A-list Celebs at Thunders, I think we have Al Borland.

What is PC or not depends on where you are, doesn’t it? I understood Modesto’s fire starter as a concern that PC values and language within this brotherhood showed a slight tendency sometimes to drift towards women disrespect. I think it is a valid concern. It would not be helpful to any of us if such a trend continues, should it exist.

I agree with OneHungLo. :buttrock:

Some of us just stumble upon the site while surfing and think it would be cool to have a bigger penis.
Some of us come here looking for solutions to health issues like impotence.
Some of us come here because we are feeling insecurities about our penis size and want to be bigger.
Some of us have no insecurity but come here anyway because we love our partners and want to give them more pleasure.

Of those that have insecurities, IMHO a portion of those may be totally unaware that they are acting out a resentment towards women in general that stems from an experience(s) with an insensitive woman/women that deeply scarred the members fragile male ego and drove him in a fit of anger (as opposed to just mere frustration) to find a solution while venting. Some venting is a very healthy thing but excessive venting is not.

I’m just speculating but I think that an individual that comes here more out of anger than anything else is much more likely to post hostile words towards women than men that come from those other classifications and heck, they may even post hostilities to those men that confront them about it.

I remember going out on a date with this woman that loved to joke and make fun of guys with small units.
She gestured using her hands and fingers to illustrate length and girth and then giggled about it hysterically. I didn’t think it was funny at all. I began to think of all my brothers at Thunders and how size is almost like a matter of life and death for some of the brothers.

The only thing I thought was odd and rather deceptive was she only began joking as soon as she realized that it was totally safe to do so. (she felt my size)
At the risk of losing a chance to have sex with her I lightly scolded her about being so insensitive to guys that are smaller. She laughed with a kind of “what do you care for?” attitude and tone.
I told the brothers here about her and some brothers responded by saying something to the effect of…

“You fuck that bitch real good for us Super”
“Make sure you nail her to the wall”

I remember developing a kind of resentment towards her after that even though she had only good compliments about my size. I guess its because I realized that her laughter and joking could have just as well been directed towards me and she was basically attacking some of my brothers on this site.
BTW the way… I did bang her real good! ;)

Now if I was feeling some resentment toward her then I can only imagine what someone who truly feels insecure about their size might have felt.

As OneHungLo said, most of us come here because we love women and are crazy about them and all while…
Its true that some of us need to let off some steam and vent (the beauty of a forum is that it can allow us to do exactly that but in moderation)…I also know that the guys here are mostly a unique crew of highly intelligent characters that have the ability to take the higher road and show some more respect and class when addressing the females.

As Ive said before in this thread I have not noticed anything unusual and maybe I’m wrong about that and have not been paying attention but never the less I think its good that Modesto brought the topic to the surface because we get a chance to practice some preventative medicine here if nothing else.

Lets face it…guys will be guys when you get a group of us together but we must always remember that we are in the company of some elegant and classy women and we certainly don’t want to give them the wrong impression and drive them away. This place just would not be the same without people like DW, Anna, Sunshine, FlowerAngel, Rita ( sorry if I missed anybody) We can show our appreciation for them in the way we conduct ourselves on the forum.

:thumbs:

If we are a unique crew of highly intelligent characters, you’re a one-per-center, ‘size!
(In more ways than one!)

;)
GM

Amen.

Supersizeit,

You are definitely back in the groove. Great post.

I too think it is healthy to vent one’s anger, because if it builds up, then it becomes dangerous. Moderation is definitely the key. Let me ask this to all those who think venting is bad, what is the difference between a person thinking bad thoughts about women, and saying them? Nothing.

As long as a person doesn’t hold a grudge against all women for the acts of one, then he is not a woman-hater, and him venting is ok. I was cheated on, but I don’t hold it against anyone else except the bitch who cheated on me. I’m by no means mad at her because she is a woman, but because she cheated on me.

Now if she left you for another woman, that would grounds for hating them all (and lots of therapy). Of course, then we would have to call you George as well.

<<Let me ask this to all those who think venting is bad, what is the difference between a person thinking bad thoughts about women, and saying them? Nothing.>> xlmagnum

The difference between thinking bad thoughts and voicing them is very real. In the first instance you are only polluting your own mind, in the second you are polluting other people’s.

Only weak minded fools, and weak minded fools deserve nothing less.

Hmmmm…..

Consider my horizon broadened. :)

I love you guys. :kisskiss: You couldn’t ask for a better bunch. No wonder Thunder’s Place is my favorite thing to do on the net.