Originally Posted by djufo
I’d go to a doc just to be sure that everything is fine; hormones, mechanics. Also, could be that maybe you masturbate and watch porn too much? In my case, I’ve never had a problem during sex; however, since I’m getting divorced, I haven’t been with another girl for some months, and I’ve been watching a lot of porn while PEing, to the point that porn don’t give me a wood anymore, unless I concentrate and start stroking, but if I stop, the erection gets weak again. However, If I have a hot girl at my side, and start looking at her, my wood start growing inside to the point that it hurts in my underwear.
You know what? Yes, I think you’re right. I watch porn so often that I’ve become desensitized to it. But I remember awhile back when I had a girlfriend, I would get hard just from kissing her and being close to her (no manuel stimulation was needed to get hard). That’s one factor, but maybe there could be other contributing factors.
I’m think that the other people who brought up kegeling were also right. Since I made this thread, I’ve been taking a break from PE (I’ll probably take this break for 3 or 4 weeks) and focusing just on one thing: kegeling. When I first began kegeling again, I noticed that I could barely hold the kegel for even one second! My PC (or BC?) muscle was waaaay out of shape. After I’ve gotten it back into good shape, I’ll see if my problem goes away, then I’ll start PE again, this time with a jelqing routine.
The thing that I feared most was the possibility of my problem being a venous leak. I pray to God that it’s not that! I don’t want to have to wear a ring around my dick for the rest of my life, or spend lots of money on viagra supplements, wihch are like $15 a pill. No one brought up venous leak though. And it’s probably not that (I hope). I’ll need to wait and see if detoxing from porn/masturbation and getting the PC muscle in shape does the trick.