When is it too big for sex and BJ

Let’s get real. You are 8.0” NBP and 6.75” EG. This is huge and bigger than most guys in porn. You’re the only person here who doesn’t realize it.

Instead of assuming you wouldn’t make it, why don’t you go ahead and try out? I’m not saying you should become a porn actor. Just go to a tryout and have them take a look at you. I guarantee the producers will think you are more than big enough for porn. Maybe that’s the kind of validation you need to finally get over your insecurities.

I second that one. Plus Invisible is a very intelligent man, I would listen to him.

I think he is one of NASA’s top brains, or either one of the Pentagons top computer science wizards. :)

Sorry for the double post.

Anyone can last for ever with bright lights, a huge video camera, a camera man, a director, and other people walking behind that mayhem. The ability to focus on the sensation with all that happening is rare. Plus, after you establish your name, you can become your own director. Thus allowing you to do whatever you want to.

Yeah, I never want to argue with him lol.

Doesn’t the size and your perception of it all depend on the girl that you’re fucking?

I’m sure that’s why Titleist is after more girth: because his wife CAN TAKE MORE.

Would you agree with that Titleist?

I know that I had a petite girlfriend that always told me to “be careful” and “watch out with that thing.” She would always talk about my cock as if it were a monster. I never measured or looked into penis size AT ALL back then. I was totally unexposed to the internet’s penis mania. So, of course, I just thought I must be quite big and that was that.

But then I started dating this girl that asked me if I would ever make it bigger. We would talk cock sizes and I definitely got the feeling that bigger than me would be better. She eventually told me that she had hot HOT20 x sex with a dude that was AT LEAST 10 x 6.5.

Hence, my confidence in my current size is shot to fucking pieces and I’m here to acquire more.

Isn’t that the bottom line with you guys too? The collective girl feedback that you have received?

I wish I could truly say female feed back was my problem. I have only gotten negative feedback once or twice if I can remember. The two times were when a female told me I wasn’t as thick as she would like. Then another female told me that she has seen bigger. Then I think about the positive comments, which then leave me confused.

Stumpy,

Yes, the confusion and lack of congruence in cock comments can make your head spin.

A girl told you that you weren’t as thick as she would like? Was that at 6.1 girth?

I think the girl that said she has seen bigger was trying to keep your Ego in check. It sounds that way anyway. IMO, it’s the kind of thing people say after having something amazing.. “ehhh.. i had better.”

Braveheart was a great movie! “eehhh.. i’ve seen better.”

The Great Wall of China is a long structure! “ehh.. i’ve seen longer.”

Mike Tyson is a hard hitter! “ehh… i’ve been smacked hard.”

Stumpy has a big cock! “ehhh… I’ve seen bigger.”

Did you love either of these girls, how long were you with each of them? But I understand what you are saying.

I was probably in the near neighborhood. I remember posting what she said here somewhere. I guess that makes sense. That comment wasn’t in my face though, it was through a text. So,once again, I don’t know.

NewNew,

The first girl I was with a mere 4 months. We barely had sex. She was quite prudish and an unsatisfying lay. We were not matched well in the libido department. That being said, I did feel a lot for her at the time. And I DID feel great about myself as a cocksman according to her comments.

The second girl I have been with for 4 years. She is still my current girlfriend. Yes, I feel for her deeply and that’s probably why her comments affect me so much. She says, “there are things that I have to protect you from. I’m sure you have things you have to protect me from.”

???!!!! I cannot think of a more clever way to get into the psyche of a man and unnerve him.

I cleverly got her to reveal the story of this monster cock that she loved. I just simply don’t know if she liked it better than me or not.

This thought eats at me. I must acquire a cock of this size and find out for myself. I do try and be calm and zen about the situation. Sometimes I truly do not care about this. But other times I am raving mad at her for not being able to satisfy her as this monster did. Well….that’s my paranoia anyway.

Stumpy,

Sounds like a backhanded compliment then. Those are much more preferable to backhanded insults. You must remember the sex though? I count the girl’s experience during sex to be the ultimate betrayal of her opinion’s of you.

I can understand this, it’s like a direct blow to the pride, and everyone will be here supporting each other so we all can reach our goals.

I didn’t fuck the girl that made the thickness comment. The other, it was good, she has moved to Cali though (thats where she was from). I talked to her every once in a blue moon. She was Bi when I met her, and since, she said she has been dating females. She was so cool, kinda like a your best male friend. She was into everything I was into…..damn! The only positive thing that I can relate to size with her is that when I do talk to her she would say “, make sure you take care of my dick,” the times she said that were some of my favorite ego boosting comments.

Vagabond, I understand where you are coming from. Well good thing we have found PE.

Stumpy,

Congrats!

Yeah, PE is a godsend. Girls can say what they want. This is our secret rebuttal.

I don’t know what else to tell you. She’s had bigger cocks than me. At least three. I know she can easily take more. I don’t know how though. She has never delivered a child vaginally. I don’t want to be a buzz kill, but there are really big cocks out there. I’m determined to keep growing and worry about my own business. If I can get to 7.25 girth I think I’ll reach what two of the guys had who she’s been with. As far as length I don’t think I’ll ever get to where the other guys were.

T.