When is it too big for sex and BJ

Titleist, what is your Nbp length? And I’m on your side about being bigger. PE is simple, easy, and free; so why not? Why settle with being in the top 99% when you could be in the top 99.75%. Also, its true guys, the average sizes are 6.0-6.6 length x 4.9-5.25 MSeg, but there are a lot of big guns out there - more then we think. Just think about it, we say 5.5inch girth is big, but we turn around and say 6in girth ideal. We praise 6 inch girth, but say 6.5-7in girth is our goal or what we truly want. Then the guys that are 6.5-7inches in girth think to themselves….hummmm Shane is 7 inches in girth, Shorty mac is 7.5inches in girth, and that we are sure their are some nameless others. So all in all, make yourself happy. I’m not happy at 6inch girth, which supposedly is in the 90 percentile….how can one be happy with being in the 90 percentile when their is 10 big points above them? Even if I was in the 99th percentile, one point is a lot IMO.

Sorry for the ramble.

If it makes you happy guys, then yeah go for it! But just remember that this kind of talk (^) is ultimately deluded (not neccesarily a bad thing). So if you ever get down about not gaining, just remember, if you are over average then you “ARE BIGGER THAN MOST GUYS”. That is a GOOD thing…

Why settle for the 99th percentile vs. the 99.75th percentile? The reason is opportunity cost. See The Opportunity Cost Of PE. There are much better things to do with your time rather than trying to squeeze out that last 1% from 99% to 100%.

What those things are depends on your goals. If you want to become a more memorable lover, then that last tiny bit of size will make no difference. Many other things will play a much bigger role. See the second point of What Are The Odds?: Comments.

If you want to quiet a nagging insecurity in your mind (at the 99th percentile!) then therapy for body dysmorphic disorder would be a better investment.

Just food for thought:

Does anyone else ever think that sometimes it’s helpful to just say to yourself, “ok, I’m not going to TRY and be a good lay. Today I’m just going to be a BAD lay and see how that feels.”

I recommend we all just be a bad lay once in a while.

I know this is totally counter-intuitive. But I think that when you can just silently sit there and let yourself be a bad lay, yes, it somehow lightens your heart about all this great lay, 99 percentile, dick-sized kingly status.

I don’t know. I’ve had this situation where a girl said some vicious emasculating shit to me. At first I was really pissed and fought against it. I tried to prove that I was NOT that terrible thing.

But someone told me, “yeah, just agree with her and call yourself a loser and just notice how that feels. Don’t judge it or try to solve it. Just say “sure, I’m a shit lay, loser.” And just see how that feels without judging it.

Somehow, that made me smile and laugh. It felt like a huge weight was off my shoulders for that moment. I actually loved saying it: “Hey, I suck! :) “

I don’t recommend ALWAYS saying that. But once in a while, I think it really feels good to just say, “sure, why not. Today I’m a total pussy.”

The funny thing is, the next time I banged this chick, I was totally at peace with myself. I was just checking out her ass and shaking her boobs and just slipping my dong in her just to see it go in. I was simply enjoying myself like I was all alone. I didn’t care if she came or had a good time or anything. I was just entertaining myself. But then she actually started to get into the things I was doing. I just went with the flow. Before you know it, we were fucking like two caged animals and she was cumming like a cat in heat!

Isn’t that ironic? I let myself be a loser for just a moment and suddenly I become a Fuck Lord again.

Just food for thought…

BTW, I love all you guys. And we will all have our big, swinging dicks before we know it. And I love coming here and seeing all us guys trying to better ourselves. There’s such a great cock-enhancing camaraderie here.

Holy Shit, we must all be crazy and obsessed, but the fraternal feeling at Thunders is a beautiful thing. I’m glad I’m not the only crazy, obsessed, cock architect in the world.

I hope my advice reaches some of you guys.

I tip my hat to all our cocks.

I don’t think length is an issue, But girth can get to big. Keep it between 5.5 and 6.3. You would look rather studly with that slab of meat. When I was hospitalised the cna saw my 6” flaccid and ran out of the room. Maybe she thought it was to small.

Great post vagabund!

Kingpole,

You have advised me before and I greatly appreciate it. I have been jelqing slowly and methodically and it is paying off. I am now in your advisable girth range. Of course, I want to now get into the upper part of it. That nurse probably went into the bathroom to diddle herself thinking of you.

Thanks for your tips.

Bubba77,

Thanks a million. I appreciate that. Cheers to your hog. :) How’d you get your length gains? Any quick advice? How long did it take you?

Great post Vagabond!

:) Just hanging, 4 sets a day BTC…super heavy (35 lbs or so) for two years.

My Nbp length is 8.0 consistently. It does get longer some days. I attribute the additional length to loss of fat pad. I think I’ll stop when I look my unit and say wow that’s big. I don’t know if I’ve ever seen a view of myself and thought, “wow that’s big”. To me girth is what makes a cock look huge. That’s why I want more of it.

Dang, if it wasn’t for your soon to be marriage, I would attempt to convince you to try out for a porn company. If I hit my goal in girth, I will (I’m kidding,…..or am I?).

Invisible,

Why have you hidden so many interesting ideas in your “progress” thread? :)

You might consider assembling an “article” or two based on what you consider to be your most important threads of thought in that very long thread.

I’d never make it. Let’s get real, those guys are huge and last forever!

How often did you take off (how many days per month/were there any long breaks?)? Did you reduce the weight after you felt fatigue each day or always stay at 35?

To contribute directly to the thread, there are positions that allow for hard sex at a longer length.

It’s an invisible thread.

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