When is it too big for sex and BJ

First time posting.. But have read this forum off and on for a while. And really need to comment on guys having ego issues thinking about guys with bigger dicks fucking their girls. I’ve fucked about a hundred women, hooked up with many more ie: just got a blowjob or whatever, I usually have a girlfriend and am faithful so this number is deceivingly low, during 8 months being single I decided to log new girls I fucked, it was around 40, just saying this to give evidence that I understand women, I know how they think, have studied them in great detail. They are amazing at manipulating men, but it’s not hard, so many men are easily manipulated, especially when it comes to talking about whats between their legs.

Never listen to what a girl says, it means nothing, just look at her actions. If she continues to fuck you and doesn’t fuck other guys, then you are #1 in her books, penis size is just one piece of what makes her want to fuck you. There are so many other things that matter way more to a girl.

I play hockey with a buddy of mine who has a monster dick, it’s way thicker limp than mine is hard, and a little longer limp than mine is hard, I’m guessing I’m 6.75” x 5”. I know he uses magnum condoms, limp he is probably 8”x7”. I’ve seen thousands of limp dicks, a lot of big ones (6-7”x5” limp) and his is the 2nd biggest, the biggest was on a 7 foot giant (9”x6.5”), anyways.. My buddy is attractive too, he actually modeled briefly, not like an ambercrombie model or anything, but he’s not bad looking, we’ll go out and pick up women together. The funny thing is, this guy is TERRIBLE with women, not only does he have troubles getting them, but even after he manages to lay them they ALWAYS ditch him right away. He is a great guy, but truly pathetic with women, his problems are all subtle, but they add up. He has probably fucked 30-40 girls or so and none want to be with him, and I don’t even think he is bad at sex. He tells me stories, and has no need to lie, as he tells me the good and the bad as I have tried helping him improve his game, but he will tell me how he will fuck a girl and she will cum many times and it appears like she had the best sex of her life, and then she won’t return his phone calls, she wants NOTHING to do with him, she doesn’t even want to use him for that big monster dick. I assume that with most girls he will be their biggest, this just isn’t motivation enough, some other guy with a smaller dick than him is the one that they want, and you know what? I guarantee they tell guys they fuck about this big dick, at least when they want to try to get the upper hand, when they need to put a little insecurity into the guy, when they want dig their claws deep into you, they tell you about that monster dick, this is when you know they want you, and they want you bad. They are testing you, how will you react when I threaten his manhood in the most direct way?

NONE of the girls want anything to do with him, you would assume that throughout his sexual adventures that he would have found 1 size queen who ONLY cares about cock size, and gets all hot and bothered just thinking about that massive tool dangling between his legs. Come on, shouldn’t out of 30-40 girls there be at least one who wants this massive dick?? Nope, other things are more important to them. Watch their actions, not their words. Maybe it’s TOO big? I don’t know, I don’t think so.. I know if I had that dick that girls wouldn’t want me any less.

I’m not saying girls don’t like big dicks, sure they do, some love them, but there is so much more. Even with my slightly bigger than average unit, I know girls would WAY rather be with me than most guys with monster dicks, how do I know? Their actions, they keep coming back.

So why don’t they want him? I’m interested to know what it is about his personality that makes him toxic.

Nice first post, stereomike :)

I’m 6.75” in girth and I can tell you the average woman struggles with that amount of girth. There’s no possibility of a rushed quickie with girth like that,you have to have quite extended foreplay or your partner is in a world of hurt and that’s the end of any hopes of having sex :(

6” in girth is big & seems to be way above the average.

Personally I’m ultimately trying to get to 8” in girth but will be happy at 7” by the end of 2009 (I just started PE 3 weeks ago)

Having written what you just wrote, as well as putting a sad face next to it, WHY do you want 8 inches of girth?

I think he meant length. Probably for a more balanced aesthetic.

Oh,the sad face is just for the idea of ‘not having sex’

There’s nothing worse than when you’re both in the mood & something happens that prevents sex from happening, for whatever reason.

:(

As for why do I want 8” of girth? Simple,I want a monster dick.

My girth has always made my partners very happy,the length is only just above average at 6.75 nbp and while I am trying to increase that I know that it is girth that makes women (or guys if you’re that way inclined) squeal with pleasure. So I want to see just how big I can get my girth and length without going beyond the point of bizarre.

Also another thing I’ve noticed in my very short time PE’ing is that my girth/thickness seems to be growing already & there’s little or no change to my length so it seems it’ll be fairly easy to grow my EG but not as easy for my EL.

I know some of you on here might think I’m crazy for wanting such a thick member but if it makes my gf (and probably future wife) happy then I’m all for it.Although,hand on heart, I just want it for that undeniable ego boost knowing that you have a big dick that can get the job done. The other factor that I haven’t mentioned is,up until 3 weeks ago my FL was horrendously small. Just embarrasing. I really hope PE can do away with that and get rid of my locker room syndrome once & for all :(

Btw- I want to get my length to 8” nbp & anything beyond that would be amazing but I’d be fairly happy at 8” x 7”. Though if a dick fairy was to grant me my dream dick right now it’d be 10” x 8” (Shane Diesel size)

I don’t have time to reply to all of this now, but Shane Diesel is 9 x 7. He’s one of the only porn stars that I’ve actually seen measured.

If you want to see someone who is 8 inches in girth look up Shorty Mac. If you ask me it’s WAY too big for probably 99% of women.

8” girth is beyond the point of bizarre.

Stereomike, good stuff. I wholeheartedly agree. However, you logic is rational, penile obsession is not. There are infinite posts on this forum that try and convince others of the merit of the “whole package.” The best part of your post is pointing out how women test your masculinity. They know our weakness and they exploit it. So fuck them (literally and figuratively)!

Not all women are like that though, keep that in mind.

TossedSalad, There are plenty of boards dedicated to sexing and keeping women, there are rules of the game, and he breaks them in all the bad ways. One example: he has rational conversations with women when he should keep the topic on things that affect their emotions. He leans in when talking to them when he should be leaning back, etc.

Cuban, you are correct, there are women who are more subtle with their manipulations and the ways they test your manhood, but they all do it in their own way.

“Does size matter?”.. The fact that there are such a variety of answers to this question eats men up and causes this irrational obsession, it makes us think it is the ONLY thing that matters, this is perhaps one of the greatest manipulations by the entire female gender on the entire male gender, this is really just a way for women to throw men off of the trail to seeing the big picture. And since no man (even monster dick) will ever know if his is the biggest in the world, a woman can always use this when she needs to gain power.

I am curious, to those guys out there with really big dicks, have you ever heard a girl mention a guy with a bigger one?

That’s all I wanted to know :)

I found your posts highly interesting, thank you, stereomike.

OK, realistically, pop some vagary, Cialis or Levitra and I think your as good as in. The question then becomes, do you really want to do porn and possibly, could you take the pay cut? (I don’t think any male porn stars are making a killing)